To My Answered Prayer

It took me some courage to write you a letter. I don’t  know you yet and I’m thanking God for still keeping you as a mystery. I’m not sure if I have met you or if we have known each other. If we’ve already been friends, classmates, churchma...

An Open Letter to My Future Love

I pray for you. That’s the best opening statement I can come up with. Despite all the numerous things I want to say, I want to start with that. Simple and vague. Even if I don’t know you yet, I constantly pray to God that wherever you are r...
by Rufeels

STAGES OF A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP

STAGES OF A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP Why do lovers fall in love and end up crying? Heres why! We often think that love is just a spark or a connection with your special someone. That if you lose it… you lose it… and there’s nothing left...

Single pero secretly taken

Sa panahon ngayon, napakadali ng communication. Kapag may nagustuhan ka, you could easily message someone at mapalapit sa kanya. Talaga ngang nawala na ang traditional way of courtship dahil parang sanay na ang lahat sa instant. Hindi lang ...

Meant to know each other but not meant to be together

It could be you... Yes, those were my first words when I met you. It was a friendly approach at first. You smiled at me, introduced yourself, then we started having conversations. I was mesmerized by your personality, which speaks almost...

Mahal na siguro talaga kita, pero hanggang dito nalang tayo

Maybe you’ll notice that I don’t text or call you anymore. I finally decided to stay a little bit away from you, natatakot kasi ako na baka hanap-hanapin ko ‘yung atensyon na you give. I don’t want myself to expect from you because sa ...

To My Most Unexpected Love

You're definitely not my type. You're not the type of guy I would fall for. You're the least person I'd expected I'll get attracted to. But there's something extraordinary in you that makes my heart skips a beat. The way you talk, move, lau...

Some of the things you must know about a girl who was broken

A girl who was broken may not open her heart easily. She is so afraid to feel pain. She is afraid to be betrayed. She will be doubtful most of the time. She will not let herself fall for you unless you are sure of her. She will always want ...

Relationship Green Flags

I don’t know, but nowadays mas napapansin ang flaws and rough edges rather than the person’s potential to be a good partner. I think we also need to take time and look at how dynamics and differences make a relationship work. Maybe yes...

Taking Risks

Take the risk at your own risk. Ang hirap magmahal ng taong inconsistent. Sweet sa actions, pero never nagverbalize ng intentions. Or clear ang intentions, pero the actions speak otherwise. It’s just that, pag trip nya, then lets be swee...

Five Things I Tell Singles who asks “Am I Ready for a Relationship?”

This question has been the conversation in the minds of a lot of single people out there – whether young or old alike. And it indeed is a valid question as I and a lot of other leaders and pastors have been asked the same one...

If you can’t Man up, yet.

Don't stir up her heart if you can't give the clarity she needs. Man, don't confuse her just because you're not yet ready to tell. Don't make yourself always available when you discovered that she's not okay. It simply makes her feel ...

5 things in a No label relationship.

1. Unofficial feelings doesn't mean not real or genuine. We can't deny what we're really feel even the unofficial one kasi never nagiging invalid ang feelings ng tao. Love doesn't measure sa kung ano talaga yung nararamdaman natin, love ...

For the Woman Who Loved a Confused Man

Even if you've been together for years, Even if he asked your father for your hand in marriage, Even if he set a date for your wedding, Even if he said he hoped to love you forever: Confused men will make promises they can't keep. And yo...

Sino ba ang mas nasaktan? Yung nang-iwan o ang iniwan

Sabi nila, mas nasaktan raw yung nang-iwan. Kasi yun nalang daw yung natitirang paraan to save them both from hurting each other. Sila raw kasi yung mas nakakakita nung mali sa relasyon nila, at sila yung mas matapang aminin na hindi na ta...

LET THEM GO

"To the person reading this with a tired soul and a restless heart, I hope you find the courage to choose yourself." Magpakatotoo tayo, it's not easy to let go. Just so you know, letting go is not a sign of weakness, it may also mea...

If she says, “No.”

Warrior,   I know you tried hard. I know you prayed as much as you could. I know you prepared as much as you can.   But I know that you know that she’s allowed to say “No.”   I know it’s hard. You probably cr...

Please Don’t Make Me Attached If You Won’t Keep Me

Please don't make me attached if you won't keep me. I know in the first place that our so-called "relationship" is unclear. You see me as someone important, I guess? But is it enough for me to rely on mixed signals? Confusion starts to ente...

Love Comes Back For The Second Time Around

All these years, I have come to realize that maybe love really never fades away. Maybe love is sometimes just lost waiting to be found, maybe it was just being left behind somewhere else, maybe it is just asleep and waiting for someone to c...

I thank God it was you.

I thank God it was you but I need to say my last "BYE", not just for my own sake but for both of us. Thank you for everything, I'll cherish all those good memories we built together, I've learned so much from us. I thank God it was you. Th...

To my greatest “what if”

It had been years ago since I made that decision that changed my life. I had been this broken little girl trying to find comfort after losing everything and you were the glint of hope that kept me sane. I had prayed for the right perso...

What I’ve Learned When I Met The One

Before I met The One, I thought I have to go through hardships for me to determine if this guy is the one for me.

Pursuing a Godly Woman

To all the Christian Men out there: You will not be her No.1 Priority and that's okay. A devoted Christian Woman will honor God above all else. Her No.1 priority would be God. You will not even be her No.2 Priority and that's still okay. ...

Maybe Someday Or Maybe Not

We unexpectedly met at an unexpected place in an unexpected time. They say that love comes at that moment. And they were right. Ironic, isn’t it? On the day that I met you I was hesitant to know you deeper because I am afraid of falling in ...

To you who’s uncertain, stop the confusion and man up

I am speaking to that person who has always been uncertain of what he feels. I know that you're indecisive and always hesitant to confirm your feelings. And yet, even though I knew about this fact, I chose to accept you in my life. I knew f...

WHAT TO DO WHILE WE WAIT

Let’s admit it, waiting is not easy for most us. It gets boring sometimes, discouraging and parang pointless. Why wait naman if we can have instant and quick results diba? Like most of us, I myself is being tested also with this waitin...

Kilig With Reservations

Alam mo yung feeling ng may gusto kang sabihin, pero hindi pwede? Alam mo yung feeling ng gusto mong magkahawak ang kamay nyo, o palagi kayong magkausap, o pwede mo syang yakapin kahit kelan mo gusto? Hindi diba? Hindi mo alam kasi hindi...

Pagod ka na ba?

There will be times sa buhay natin, na parang ang labo na ng lahat yung parang napaka-hopeless na ng situation. Yung di mo alam if ano yung magiging reason mo to keep walking and going. Jan na nagsisimula yung tatanungin mo sarili mo,...

How to Deal with A Manipulative Sadboi or Sadghorl

Huwag ka maniwala agad. If they sounds too dramatic, find evidences na hindi talaga sila yung may kasalanan kung bakit sila nakipag-hiwalay or hiniwalayan ng mga ex nila.Huwag kang marupok. Don't fall into someone na puro negativity yung k...

Bakit ang hirap magtiwala?

Sa dami ng pinagdaanan mo sa pag-ibig, hindi mo na maisa-isa. Hindi mo na maalala o ayaw mo na lang alalahanin? Kasi sa tuwing pumapasok sa isip mo ang lahat ng panloloko, pananakit at pagpapaasa sa'yo, hindi mo nanamang mapigilan ang maluh...