The Art of Letting Go

We all know how it feels to be madly deeply in love with someone. When everything feels right and everything feels light, our heart is filled with too much happiness. We smile often, we laugh hard and we always wish it to never end...

Do not Demand Clarity From A Guy Who Is Unsure Of How He Feels For You

Do not lead the guy. Never. Well, unless you feel the need to. I am sure there was one time in your life when you thought and felt that someone likes you. However, you were unsure because he never said he does. It was a feeling caused by m...

Let Love Find You

Let Love Find You Don't be afraid of people leaving you behind Let them go if they want to. Stop Chasing for someone who let go of your hands. Stop looking for someone you taught- "he might be the one." Stop searching for someo...

The Most Important Relationship You Need To Pursue

In this generation that's always in a rush, even in relationships and has romanticized it all too well, I'm pretty sure we've all heard and read a lot of relationship advises all over facebook, twitter and from our friends. I hate to dis...

An Open Letter to the Lady I Hurt

Not everyone has the courage to admit that they hurt somebody and because of our reluctance to accept that we hurt someone, the world continuously hurt. Pain, I think, will only start to vanish, if we accept that we are beings in dire ne...

Famous Break Up Lines

Listen to this Episode Instruction: Read with feelings... “It’s not you, it’s me...” "I need to find myself muna." Ayun nahanap niya sarili niya sa iba. "I need to fix myself ..." "I need to focus on my career, I don't want to choose betwe...

Love will find you when you’re ready

"You'll never have to negotiate your way into a heart that wants you there" Is it just me or for some reason we love someone so hard thinking “If I show them how much I love them, how patient I could be in our relationship, if I give them...

An open Letter to my Future Husband

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5HZ9qeFjhYk "To say I love youAnd I need youAnd say I'd die for you" Even though I don't know exactly who you'll be yet, I think of you often. I wonder how you're living your life ...

I Stopped Praying For You To Be Mine

You were the person I thought was the one God has for me. Everything around us seemed to align from the day we met until the day before you left. We both have the same passion, the same faith; we both love adventures and we are both an old ...

It’s not real love. It’s Toxic Love.

  Kung pagod ka na, bibitaw ka ba? Isusuko mo nga ba ang pagmamahal na ilang taon bago mo nabuo? Tatalikuran mo nga ba lahat ng bagay na dating inilaban mo? “Syempre, hindi. Sayang e. Sayang ang lahat ng pinaghirapan, pinagsamaha...

MGA CLICHE ADVICE PARA SA MGA NABASTED.

Hello mga brothers na nabasted at laging basted na gaya ko. Ako nga pala si Mr. Coco Pariseo. Kung may Doctorate degree lang ang pagiging single ay siguradong ako na iyon (ikaw ba naman ay 11 years single eh), at kung may Masters degre...

A Simple Encouragement to all the Single Ladies out there

You are loved. You are precious. You are well kept. Loving yourself more this time doesn't mean that you are selfish. You are just more aware. Self awareness is so much different from selfishness. Please don't feel guilty. It's okay that t...

For those people who are still healing

Nothing comes close to pain after a breakup, especially if it was from a long-term and ‘he-was-my-first-boyfriend’ relationship kind. Sabi ng friend ko, “After the breakup, you need to go through a process called healing”. Yes, of course I ...

Pwede Pa Bang Ibalik?

Nagsimula sa tuksuhan, nauwi sa may nasaktan. Ganyang-ganyan tayo. Natukso sa isa't-isa, naging magkaibigan, nagkagusto ako, hanggang sa naiwan. Ang sarap balikan ng mga panahong masaya tayong dalawa. Kakain, tapos tatambay. Nakaupo lang sa...

I want to be your stable love

When we meet again, don't expect that you are meeting just me. You are meeting all the versions that I have had since the last time we met. You are meeting all the versions of me that I have worked on and still currently healing to become ...

Paano Maging Ready?

We all have friends na nag sasabi sa atin na “wag ka muna papasok sa isang serious relationship kung hindi ka pa ready”. PERO PAANO NGA BA NATIN MASASABI NA READY NA TAYO? What are the criteria of being “READY”? So here are the guiding prin...

Para sa Mga Piniling Maging Option

Para sa mga taong ginawa kang option sana nakita nila yung hinahanap nila kahit na ginawa ka lang stepping stone, yung tinuruan mo sila kung paano maging matino pero sa ibang tao nila inapply hindi sayo, they say doesn't mean they beco...

Not About The Label

“What are we really?” Few months after being together all the time After being around each other After those fun dates Those late night phone calls Those random trips You popped him this question “What are we really?” ...

I HAVEN’T MOVED ON

  Hindi ko alam kung patuloy pa akong maniniwala sa mga katagang "You deserve better. Hindi pa ako ready pumasok sa commitment. Gusto ko muna hanapin sarili ko. GUSTO KO MUNA MAHALIN YUNG SARILI KO. YUNG AKO LANG." Pinaniwalaan k...

How do you love people and guard your heart at the same time?

“How do you love people and guard your heart at the same time?” This question has been crossing my mind the past few days. When you’ve experienced heartbreak and emotional pain, you will really have that impulse to defend yourself from fut...

To the Woman that I Hope to Pursue…

I am praying for your heart. I know that I was amazed by the being that you are ever since I first met you. Beyond your looks is a heart that's as amazing as a Diamond - a true gem. Behind that smile is a beautiful soul worth discovering...

It Was Also My Fault

It's been a half year. And during this time, I've reflected so much. I've realized the things that I've said. I wasn't myself and everything didn't sound good when I thought about them. Sorry about that. I was struggling and having a hard ...

Uncertain Feelings

I somehow felt your feelings before, Its just that I don't want to assume unless otherwise stated. You were giving me hints about it but your actions do the opposite. You would normally talk to me if there are other people around but w...

The 3 C’s Of Great Relationship

CLARITY Clarity is the state of being clear. Know what your intentions are in a relationship. Intentions are meant to be pure and clear. A relationship is like journeying to a particular place. With clear intentions you are more likely ...

Bakit Ka Bumitaw sa Taong Mahal Mo?

Marami ang nagsasabi na kapag nagmamahal tayo, ang pagbitaw ang huling naiisip natin, minsan pa nga ayaw natin isipin dahil yon ang ayaw natin mangyari kapag pumasok tayo sa relasyon. Pero paano kung sa kabila ng matinding pagmamahal, may m...

Not All Feelings Have A Name

Not everything you feel has a name— and that's okay. You are going to miss someone who was an almost to you and it is such a desolately thought knowing that there is no such right name or term for that feeling. One day, life will surprise...

7 Lessons from a Single Mom

Hi! I'm a single mother now because I married wrong. While I consider having my son the best thing that happened to me, still I know that things could have been better/ ideal if he were to grow up with a father. So ano ang point ko for pos...

Bakit nga ba masakit magmahal?

Sabi nila ang magmahal ang pinakamasarap na feelings ngunit bakit nga ba ito din ang pinakamasakit. Dahil nga kaya nagmamahal ka ng maling tao? Pano mo nga ba masasabing maling tao ang minamahal mo gayong ang tunay na nagmamahal ay hindi na...

Still praying for you at 30

Today is the day na pinublic ni Alex yung wedding nila ni Mikee. Sobrang simple ng wedding and sobrang intimate. How I wish new normal of weddings are just like that. Yung tipong if gusto na ng couple to get married, di nila poproblemahin ...

Are you with the right partner?

During a seminar, a woman asked," How do I know if I am with the right person?" The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, "It depends. Is that your partner?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do ...