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I’m in the same boat as you.
Although you may believe that no one understands you, this is not the truth. I knew you were being teased. Making a fake smile to trick people into thinking you were not upset by their jokes. Pushing yourself to feel more comfortable in socializing with friends rather than in a romantic relationship. Making several excuses to avoid having to face the question again. When do you want to start a relationship?
Yes, I understand.
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On blind dates, you tried a lot of things, been introduced to some, and I’m hoping that it all works out. You don’t want to get involved in a topic where you’ll feel entirely out of place. Such as how they can strengthen their relationship, how they can plan the future with their partner, how many children they want, and so on. It’s just a plan for them, but it’s a big mystery for you that you’d want to solve eventually. For guys who have been labeled as torpe, they have never been touched or kissed. But have you ever considered that you may save yourself a lot of heartaches and possibly several breakups? Then you become wise as a result of your friend’s experience, which you learn from them rather than from your own experience. Have you ever been grateful for other people’s opinions of you as a free person? You can eat whatever you want, travel wherever you want, and do whatever you want without fear. Have you ever considered that everything that happens to you serves a purpose?
Did you ever think God didn’t care about you?
I’m happy and grateful that God spared me from those traumatic experiences and heartbreaks. Is it true that I am envious of those who are in a relationship? Yes, but those feelings are just that: feelings. They do not define my worth. I hope you do the same. Your age may cause you to be concerned. When you’re not sure if you’ll be able to marry, let me tell you this: I’ve known people who married at a late age. That’s still a win in my opinion.
Still, have doubts?
Pray to God for peace of mind, that you will be okay no matter what happens; complete trust in him requires faith. Even though we don’t see it, he continues working. That is how much God cares for us. I love my Spiritual brothers and sisters; keep telling each other that your future is already secure in God’s hands.
So why should I be worried about it?
Love isn’t about having to rush; it’s about trusting God’s timing and being prepared for it. God’s promises are never broken, and there is always a reason to expect in him. So sit back, relax, and see how God works in your life.
Are you tired of being in charge of your own life?
Then allow God to be the main driver in your life.
When we entirely hand over our lives to him. We shall be awed by the greater things he can accomplish in our lives.
Don’t be hesitant. Go out there and live your life according to his will, and enjoy the life you have today. You should not waste it because you are in need of something.