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More of us are subjected to pain from others; the wound may appear minor to others, but it is so much deeper. It wasn’t easy enduring it, and you may not want to share it with others, but remember that even if you don’t tell them, they feel and know you. You will not be able to escape the pain unless you face it bravely, especially among your friends.
When the last time you feel the joy of having together with your loved ones. If you may think other people will not be affected by how you behave and distance to them. They are aware of your battle but are hesitant to express their concerns. Because they have not been trained to speak about such a sensitive matter. They won’t be able to be in your shoes and feel your pain. You even kept it hidden from them, not telling them what had happened. But my advice to you is to talk to them and be vulnerable in front of every accountable people you have in your life. You can start with your family, friends, mentors, and even God.
You may believe that pain is limited to what happens, however that was not the case. Those in your close surroundings will be aware of your pain and misery.
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Please seek support from someone you can trust and who will not judge you for what you have done. You always have the option of making yourself happy. It was a gift to yourself to consider loving again. You are entitled to happiness and peace of mind. If someone has caused you so much pain that you want to curse them. Remember that the person is already harming himself or herself, whether intentionally or unintentionally.
People make mistakes anytime they can’t avoid them. No matter how hard they try. That’s the joy of being human; we’re not just a program that performs a specific purpose; we have feelings, too. Try to be more open with other people about what’s going on in your life this time, particularly with your family and friends.
It doesn’t matter because this chapter was so horrible, and it will be the same at the end. Call your friends, spend time with them that you are already missing out on. because the pain reminding you to be cautious all of the time and warning you of what has happened in the past.
It wasn’t easy, but you can do it because you’ve been through a lot of pain in the past and have grown stronger as a result of it. Love once again, but not just for the sake of love. Many, on the other hand, want to see you happy, energetic, and joyful. Allow others to see the real you and forget about the things you’re already going through because you’re afraid something bad will happen. Try to fall in love with that habit again. Reading books, riding, hiking, conversing, sports, or simply doing activities that make you happy are all options. Realize that your energy and spirit will soar, and people will be drawn to you as a result. Your mess will serve as a message to them, and your story will serve as a testimony.
Never assume that your bad experiences were only worthless; you never know how many people can relate to you, and some people may have been in similar situations to you. Perhaps just sharing those experiences will allow others to relate to you and learn from you.
Begin to love yourself and everyone around you one step at a time; there is so much to be grateful for if we simply look at the bright side of life. It’s possible that someone in your previous relationship cheated on you, but that doesn’t mean other people will. Pray that your next relationship is the one you’ve been looking for. I don’t know what’s going on in your life, but I hope this message inspires you to trust and love again. People are amazing; we just tend to focus on the negative parts of their personalities. We could either learn the hard way or listen to somebody who has previously done it.
Allow your desire to be joyful to outweigh your fear of experiencing agony again. Give your wish to do something to takes priority over your fear of doing something new. Love will always be present; all we have to do is tap into the appropriate source, which is God.