To be rejected by someone doesn’t mean you should also reject yourself or that you should think of yourself as a lesser person. It doesn’t mean that nobody will ever love you anymore. Remember that only ONE person has rejected you at the moment, and it only hurt so much because to you, that person’s opinion symbolized the opinion of the whole world.
When it comes to love, walang matalino at walang perpekto, lahat mas gustong magpakatanga. Ganyan kasi kadalasan ang nangyayari, kaya karamihan nasasaktan. Yung niloloko ka na nga lang pero pilit mo pa ring ipinaglalaban ang pagmamahalan nyo. The way we wanted na gusto mong i-preserve yung relasyong meron kayo pero ikaw na lang yung lumalaban. It’s not the pain we felt, but the loved we wanted to be. Well that’s love, yung handa kang patawarin lahat ng pagkakamali nya para sa inyong relasyon. Without thinking your own self, your own feeling or what he/she have done to you. Yung sinabi mong ayaw mo na pero pag nagsorry sya masaya ka na. Love is worth fighting for nga naman, di ba! Kasi ang alam mo masaya ka kung nandyan sya. Masaya ka kapag nakikita mo sya. Okay lang kahit nasasaktan ka na. Okay lang kahit paulit-ulit nalang yung ginagawa nya sayo. We tend to be blind. We don’t care what others will tell us. Nagmamahal lang tayo eh, yun nga lang sa maling tao. Sa taong hindi kayang suklian yung pagmamahal na binibigay mo. Yung taong hindi pinapahalagahan ang bawat oras ng ginugugol mo sa kanya. Pero heto tayo’t nagpapakatanga at nagkukunwaring masaya sa ginagalawang mundo. Yung binibigay mo na ang lahat pero kulang pa rin at binabalewala ka pa rin. Pero para sa atin okay lang kahit ang sakit-sakit na. Kahit nadudurog na ang puso’t damdamin mo sa kakaintindi sa kanya. It really hurt, di ba! Pero tinitiis mo ang lahat for the sake of your relationship. Yung tipong sya lang ang iniisip mo at nakakalimutan mo na ang ibang tao na bahagi ng buhay mo. Yung sa tingin mo hindi ka magsusurvive kung wala sya sa piling mo. We think that way na parang ang hirap hirap gumalaw kapag wala sya or kapag di mo sya nakikita. Yung sobrang nahihirapan ka na pero sabi mo, “kaya ko pa.”
That’s the way we wanted all the time. And at the end of the day, we get loss. Because of that loved, nagpakamartir ka. Because of that loved, you lost everything in your life, your friend, your family and sometimes you lost GOD. Minsan kailangan mo ding i-give-up yung mga bagay na hindi na naaayon sa pamumuhay mo. Don’t ignore the worth of your life, God is going to be good for you tomorrow. Kung nasasaktan ka man sa mga sandaling ito, change your mindsets, bring it all to God. Pray and have faith in Him. “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding.” (Proverbs 3:6). GOD’s plan for you is PERFECT. Maybe it’s not the right time but He is going to pursue His plans for you.
Thank You for reading: Mhike
