I was 16, when I first asked my mom na bigyan ako ng permiso na pumasok sa relasyon. She just said “hindi, di mo pa alam paano humawak ng relasyon.” “Bata ka pa.” Sumubok parin ako and she was right. Hindi ako marunong magdala ng relasyon, kaya nawala ‘yon. Dumating ako sa punto na nag… Continue reading I Doubt it too..
Category: Relationships
Amor Fati
Hi You know… It takes a lot of courage to face each day with the mindset you have, ang itulak ang sarili mo to keep going when it would be so much easier to give in to the sadness or stay still. Your decision to focus on what’s in front of you, to embrace your… Continue reading Amor Fati
Being at Peace with Being Single
Back in 2022, someone messaged me on Messenger and asked for advice. She is an NBSB (No Boyfriend Since Birth), turning 28 and still has no boyfriend. She said she feels a lot of pressure because she’s turning 28, and everyone around her either has a boyfriend or is already married. She added that the… Continue reading Being at Peace with Being Single
How Do You Make Your Relationship Work?
Single? But feeling like you’re ready to commit? Here are a few tips to know, learn, and remember when you are already in a relationship. A lot of things in life are complicated that it is hard for us to make it work. One of which is romantic relationships. Most, if not all, have failed… Continue reading How Do You Make Your Relationship Work?
How Do You Fall Back in Love?
How to Fall Back in Love: A Guide for Singles Seeking Meaningful Relationships Falling back in love isn’t just about rekindling old flames—it’s about maintaining and enhancing the connection in any relationship, including the one you have with yourself. Here are insightful ways to cultivate a loving relationship with yourself and potential partners: By integrating… Continue reading How Do You Fall Back in Love?
Being Joyful in Waiting
It may not seem that you are moving right now, but when God says that I promise you this, He keeps his promises because He is not like anyone else. He is God and He keeps His promises. Waiting is something not all of us are really fond of doing. As the years go by… Continue reading Being Joyful in Waiting
Relationship Green Flags
We’re diving into the green flags—those glorious signs that you’re on the right track with someone who might just be worth your time, energy, and emotional investment. Forget settling for “bare minimum” behavior; we’re looking for the real deal. Ready to raise your standards and learn what to look for? Let’s get into it!… Continue reading Relationship Green Flags
Wag Mag Imagine kung Di Pa Umaamin
The problems kung inuuna mo yung imaginations before clarity. Assumption is a mother of all confusions. Assumption is termite in relationship. Assume now, hagulgol later. Solutions or Tips: Watch out for lines na smooth pero walang direction. Don’t be a victim of your assumptions lalo na pag sinabihan kang “enjoyin lang natin toh”… Continue reading Wag Mag Imagine kung Di Pa Umaamin
7 Relationship Habits You Need to Start Doing
Matatapos na ang taon, ang tanong…may mga good habits ka ba na nabuild na makakahelp sa relationship journey mo? Or same-same lang? Consider these tips that we learn from our community at sa mga bad stories that we heard: 1. Be Your Own Heroine: Self-Care First! Keep your identity, passions, and goals. You are more… Continue reading 7 Relationship Habits You Need to Start Doing
Don’t worry, love. It mattered
There’s a part of me that hopes that we’d eventually meet, in your place or mine, or somewhere else in this worldYet deep inside I know, we’d never hear each other say good morning love, waking up at the same time, in the same bed, in the same room We’ll not be calling each other,… Continue reading Don’t worry, love. It mattered
We Are Worth It.
My heart has been broken a couple of times; some are small cuts and bruises, others are wounds that left some scars. Yet somehow, I still have a lot of love to pour. You write and write, but all it does is overstimulate you. You can’t completely engulf yourself in another dimension that writing use… Continue reading We Are Worth It.
sayang, ako sana
sabi nila, pumasok sa opisina para mag trabaho, hindi mainlove sa ka-trabaho. pero, binasag ko yung kasabihan na yan. Na inlove ako sa ka trabaho ko na halos, lahat ng tao sa opisina alam na Ako nalang ang hindi pa umaamin…. To cut the long story short…….. HINDI NAGING KAMI btw, kasal na po sya… Continue reading sayang, ako sana
I want to be your permanent one.
I’m already done chasing the kind of love that demands my full attention, time, and heart. That kind of love is exhausting and draining. I don’t want that. I want the kind of love that allows me to continue to wander, grow, and build myself. The kind of love that will love me with full… Continue reading I want to be your permanent one.
‘What If I Never Confessed?’ A Letter on Friendship
As I sit down to write this letter, memories come flooding back, like a gentle breeze carrying me back to a time when we were inseparable. It’s been a journey since I last poured my heart out to you, confessing my feelings, only to hear your reassuring words: “After all that, I believe we are… Continue reading ‘What If I Never Confessed?’ A Letter on Friendship
Choose Him
Choose him. Choose him who does not choose you first. Choose him who chooses Jesus over you. If your man loves God before you, choose him. Do not get upset when he has little time for you, if his goal is to glorify Jesus. Choose him. When praying for a man, choose him so he… Continue reading Choose Him
We Are Worth It.
My heart has been broken a couple of times; some are small cuts and bruises, others are wounds that left some scars. Yet somehow, I still have a lot of love to pour. It’s hard being a writer. It’s ironic not being able to grasp the right words to convey exactly what you feel. It’s… Continue reading We Are Worth It.
Signs of Pure Intentions
The Problem In the journey of building and looking for the right relationships, it’s easy to get swept away by surface-level attractions: a charming smile, a pleasant scent, or an impressive effort. But these initial sparks can be misleading, especially when we’re not sure about the other person’s intentions. Often, we overlook those who genuinely… Continue reading Signs of Pure Intentions
“Have you ever been so sure of someone?”
Loud music from the speakers as we were surrounded by bottles of liquor, beer, and some chips, enjoying the night and exchanging shots. We had been talking about random things just a while ago, but it must have been the intoxication from the alcohol that led one of my friends to ask me that question.… Continue reading “Have you ever been so sure of someone?”
I Miss the Feeling of Being In love
There’s something truly magical about love. Like it gives your heart that warmth, that heavy deep feeling from your chest that makes it almost hard to breathe. But it’s beautiful. And it’s pure. That even it makes you cry for some nights, it makes you question your worth at times, no matter how it hurts… Continue reading I Miss the Feeling of Being In love
Sorry, Sorry kasi….
Sorry kasi ito lang ako.. I’m in the LDR relationship rn for almost 3 years, lahat ng bagay iniintindi ko, time frame namin sa isa’t isa, madalas good morning good night na nga lang kung mag usap kami, update ng konti on how’s our day went. He doesn’t send pictures man lang from the start… Continue reading Sorry, Sorry kasi….
Let Them Lose You
Let them go. Let them lose the very person that you are. Let them lose you. Let them miss out on someone as amazing as you. Let them miss out on everything that you have to offer. Let them miss out on the beautiful things that could’ve transpired between you two. Because you know what?… Continue reading Let Them Lose You
A Love That Is Yet To Unfold
This is for the girl whom I cherish, adore, treasure, value, keep, and deeply, sincerely, genuinely, and truly love. I wanted you to know that you really mean so much to me. The way you move, the way you talk, the way you walk, the way you think, the way you look, your gestures, your… Continue reading A Love That Is Yet To Unfold
Loved you with no regrets
“Did you ever regret loving me ?” – Says he, out of nowhere. At that moment, I was caught off guard. I didn’t know what to say. I spaced out. I was there standing in front of him yet my mind was wandering elsewhere. It was the same question I kept asking myself. I know… Continue reading Loved you with no regrets
A Beautiful Detour
When God brought Israel out of Egypt, He led them into the wilderness to purify, sanctify, and teach them the way they should go. In life, God allows detours before reaching the final destination to shape character and prepare individuals to become good stewards. People can also be seen as detours. There are people who… Continue reading A Beautiful Detour
To The Right Woman For Me
If by any chance that the right time for us will come one of these days, I won’t mind seeing you far from the best that you could be. I will take care of you, even if you’re a mess. When you get tired of doing your hair, drawing your eyebrows, maintaining a summer body,… Continue reading To The Right Woman For Me
The Fruit of Becoming
Isaiah 55:11 NLT ”It is the same with my word. I send it out, and it always produces fruit. It will accomplish all I want it to, and it will prosper everywhere I send it.” When God gives a Word, you just have to obey, no questions ask. Even if you do not know where… Continue reading The Fruit of Becoming
From Marupok to Marunong
Naging marupok ka nanaman ba? Nadala sa mga pambobola nya pero nauwi lang sa wala? Naniwala sa mga kasabihang? “It’s better to have loved and lost than have not loved at all”? Pero teka muna sandali, love ba talaga or fear of loneliness lang ang pinairal mo? Ayayay, chisbumbay! Mag definition of terms nga muna… Continue reading From Marupok to Marunong
Love: a dream
Most often than not, people search for “love.” And that’s not a bad thing. But do I really know love? When I was young, I started watching some wedding videos and keep wedding songs. And I still do ’til this day. These videos made me wonder “will I ever get married?” I am single and… Continue reading Love: a dream
7 Signs Na Infatuated Ka
Paano mo masasabing infatuated ka vs in-love ka? Baka naman kasi nag-fluctuate lang yung dopamine mo. It’s important to remember to have an anchor. Your perception of God might be undervalued, and in this undervaluation, the throne of your heart might be occupied by something or someone incapable of fulfilling the deep yearnings of your… Continue reading 7 Signs Na Infatuated Ka
The Beauty in Rejection
When intention comes first before a friendship is built, I know it from the beginning that I have a higher chance of getting rejected. While I’m busy serving downstairs, I admire her from afar seeing her always on the stage. Indeed, we have different circle of friends so our paths usually do not cross with… Continue reading The Beauty in Rejection