Permission to Choose.

Coffee over tea, Books over movies, Chocolate over vanilla. In life, we are bounded by choices, we are surrounded with things that we might like and we might not like. Same with relationships, We are also allowed to choose whom we want to ...

IKAW PA RIN DAHIL MAHAL KITA

Over the years, tinatanong ko ang sarili ko, “bakit ikaw pa rin?”. Ilang taon na ang nakalipas, ikaw pa din ang gusto ko, ikaw pa din ang crush ko. And every time na sinusubukan kong sagutin yung tanong na ‘yan, madaming sagot sa isi...

Our first love.

First love is always the sweetest, the one that is unexpected, the one that is uncontrollable, the one that makes you question the hows, whys, and whens, the one that makes your heart giddy every time you remember how it first started, the...

How do you enter a battle unarmored?

It's really easy to say that you've moved on. The real struggle though is when to say that you're ready to free yourself from the trauma you've gotten from your past and start to trust people like new. Sometimes I doubt myself if I woul...

5 of 6 Convoserye: Paano ba Galingan?-Emotional Maturity

Nasabihan ka na bang, “Para kang bata mag-isip!” o “Mag-usap na lang tayo ‘pag ok na pananaw mo sa buhay”? Masasabi mo bang emotionally matured ka na kapag di ka pumatol? Ang isang taong emotionally mature can manage their feelings i...

As The Famous Saying Goes… “SANA ALL”

Did you get to watch My Amanda on Netflix? Didn’t it make you want to have a relationship like Fuffy and Fream? These days, it’s hard to find a ride or die that will stick with you through everything, kaya nga sana all talaga yung exper...

” The Warmth We Once Had “

" Was there a lifetime waiting for us, in a world where I was yours? "- Ben & BenThis is my another confession after I posted the first one. Sinabi ko noong nakaraan na, " I’ll keep this feeling as a motivation because I will remem...

4 of 6 Convoserye: Paano ba Galingan?

-Patience Most of us would want to immediately get rid of the pain we feel. It is a heavy burden we want to unload from our shoulders because it hinders us from the things we usually do and affects our state of being. Be patien...

To the Man I have yet to Meet

I miss you. From the day I opened my eyes to this world, I know you exist. Somewhere, somehow we will meet, I will know you, you will know me. The question that lingers in my mind is that: "How will I know that you are t...

3 of 6 Convoserye: Paano ba Galingan? -Develop your self-worth

Lagi nating nakikita dito sa community ang mga salitang “Know your worth” But it is not just about knowing what your worth is, it is about developing it within yourself. Alam mo nga pero you are not doing anything about it. Here are some ...

2 of 6 Convoserye: Paano ba Galingan?-Finance over romance

-Finance over romance Disclaimer: Ganito lang talaga ako mag-handle ng pera bago pa ito maglaho. Naka-ipon naman 1. Budget before each sahod Unahin ang savings at needs before wants. Prioritize! NEEDS – food, utility bills, housi...

BFF Checklist

When all things go wrong, your BFF is the one person who finds the perfect balance between smothering you with support and offering you tough love. Do you think you have that type of BFF? Check out our BFF Checklist: Patient - Your BFF ...

1 of 6 Convoserye: Paano ba Galingan? -Validate your feelings

-Validate your feelings   Kahit anong tagal pa ng pinagsamahan: 10 years? 5 years? 1 year? 6 months? 6 weeks? 6 days? Kung nasaktan ka, nasaktan ka. Sa kung ano pa mang dahilan, iba man ang may mali, siya man ang may mali, ikaw man mi...

Letter to my Future: The Beauty of the Healing Season

To my Future, I don't know if we have met yet, but, in case we did, I might still be in the process of healing. I have let myself fall into holes many times. This is me preparing for your coming. For me to be able to perfectly (or imperf...

Together Forever or Forever Just Friends?

There is a saying that a guy and a girl can’t be just best friends since it is inevitable that someone will fall for the other. There’s also that “nakakakilig” tension that happens when teasing occurs and you can’t help but think, “What if...

Sa ngayon diko pa kaya.

Martir- ikaw, sila, kayo pero alam ko... ako. 2 taon simula ng una kita nkita. Nakakatuwa naman talaga kahit hanggang ngayon sobra kilig pa rin ako sa akap at halik mo at hawak sa aking mga palad na puro na kalyo pa. Andun pa din nam...

Hindi pa nag-uumpisa, tinapos mo na.

"Hindi pa nag-uumpisa, Tinapos mo na." Simula pa lang, alam mong BUMITAW ako sa isang relasyon, dahil sa PAGSUKO sa walang patutunguhang pagsasama. Simula pa lang, alam mong MASAKIT ang dinanas ko. Simula pa lang, sinabi ko na sayo na wag...

Fallin’

We were the best of friends. Your family knows about me, and my family knows about you as well. We would tell each other lots of stories. May it be about work, hobbies, food and other stuffs. My friends would tell me "Kayo nalang talaga...

Is There Still A Faithful Man?

In a world full of breakups and unpushed engagements, and a file of stories of pain and heartaches because of a third party, is there still a faithful man? Nowadays, we are so bombarded with news of unfaithful men who are caught by their p...

You still exist.

You still exist. In every short glances at places that holds a piece of what we had. In the lingering memories that chases me when passing by memorable places, unplanned. In every slowed down walk to look back as I relive the moments i...

HE/SHE’S A PART OF IT

"HE/SHE'S A PART OF IT" They say "You are responsible of your own feelings and expectations. No one is forcing you to feel that, to expect that." Yes. It's true!  But come to think of it. That particular person, he/she made a PART of it....

To my “patiently waiting” suitor,

To my "patiently waiting" suitor, I really want to say the words that you want to hear, many times (I love you). But, I couldn't. I even don't want to hurt your feelings because you are already important to me. I really do appreciate...

WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT, THE RIGHT ONE WILL COME

“Ikaw nga ba si Mr. Right? Ikaw nga ba love of my life? Ikaw nga ba ang icing sa ibabaw ng cupcake ko?” Ooops, napakanta ka rin ba? Bago mo itanong yan, ask yourself first: “AKO NGA BA SI MS. RIGHT?” “A man’s greatest treasure is...

To The Woman Out There Who Still Believes In Old-Fashioned Courtship

Yes, we exist some of them are quite busy developing as a man worthy of you someday. Some of them are observing you from a distance. And Some of them are taking risk to know you closely. We're hoping that you won't close your doors consider...

You’re Struggling To Tell Someone How Much You Love Them?

It's difficult to express yourself honestly. Telling someone how much you love them takes guts and timing. It can sometimes make you unable to act. Your stomach flutters prevented you from telling someone how much you love them. Perhaps th...

Letter to the Man who took her for granted:

Do you find her annoying? No matter how many times you stopped talking to her, she never stopped talking to you and keeps annoying you? Do you find her overprotective? No matter how old you are, she is like a mother, keeps on reminding y...

The One That Got Away?

I’ve known him for almost six years now and still everything is clear on my mind on how I known him and how I saw him for the first time, even the moment I said yes when he asked me to be his girlfriend. I was too young back then and I must...

In Between “I want” and “I don’t want”

Okay, so I would be a year older in few months. I will be turning 33. What’s wrong with that? Well, there should not be any fuss about it, it is just that a year will again be added to my existence, yet I am still single. Do I feel pressur...

Unheard Agony

To the one who left me broken, thank you and to the girl that push me in the pit, please be careful. After a month, I tried to put myself again while Im in agony. I was devastated to the storm that you left. Gusto ko maramdaman ang sakit n...

10 Paraan Kung Paano Mahalin ang isang Introvert

1. Tanggapin mo kung ano at kung sino siya, higit lalo ang buong pagkatao niya. 2. Huwag mo siyang pag-aalalahanin, pero ikaw ang laging aalala sa kaniya. 3. Irespeto mo ang kaniyang oras at huwag manghingi ng anumang aten...