A Letter to the Girl in the Mirror

DEAR YOU, Today, I looked at you and I saw nothing but flaws – I have forgotten how to accept the beauty that you are. I focused too much on that saggy skin, those zits threatening to pop out, that unruly hair, that more-than-average...

Normalize Being Single Since Birth

If you suddenly click on this post then you are just like me wondering how in your 20's that you are still single since birth. "I hate my parents of being so strict on my relationships" "Am I that unattractive?"  "Am I boring?" ...

To the woman who is single for a long time and still desires to love and be loved accordingly,

" You are graciously designed to love and be loved. " Maybe you're sometimes denial with what you feel. How hard you try to hide it and ignore it in your mind, you cannot deny the fact that there's a portion in your heart that longs f...

Why it’s always okay not to be okay?

What people don’t really understand is that sometimes, it’s okay not to be okay. Sometimes we push ourselves too hard on things we cannot do. We test ourselves to see if we can do things and ending up being exhausted. We force ourselves ev...

What really is love?

What really is love? Love. It’s either gonna make you a winner or not. It’s the risk we always want to take, but is it always worth the risk? How can you love someone who doesn’t even feel the same way that you always do? Is love always...

I Have A Curfew at 5pm.

I’m already 26 and every time I would say this to people, they don’t believe me. One, because I’m living alone in Manila, though I’m in the same apartment with my aunt and her daughter’s family. Second, my parents were situated in Nueva Ec...

Own Your Singleness

My moments being single is for me alone. It is a gift and I cherish it. I don’t want anything or anyone to steal it away from me. It is a precious, definite, and fragile chapter of my life. And I should strongly be on guard while it is stil...

KATHANG-ISIP

"KATHANG-ISIP" Isang masayang sandali, Ang makita kang muli. Masilayan ang matamis mong ngiti, Lungkot ko'y iyong napapawi. Parang magkahawak ang ating kamay, Tila tayong dalawa'y naglalakbay. Isa kang maliwanag sa bukang-liwaywa...

Late Bloomer

Not sure to spill a tea about this but I think it's time. My storytime is about my relationship happen way back in the Mid 20's and yup that's when I feel LOVE. So, I met this guy via mobile dating app (Telco network says Atin Ang Mundo). B...

5 BAKITs- Just Why?

Sometimes, we ask ourselves these "Bakit" even though some of it, we already knew the answer.

Anong excuse mo bakit single ka pa?

I’ve been waiting for him for almost 4 years, pwede naman yun diba? Yung maghihintay ka sa kanya pero hindi niya alam? It’s just like you’re taking risk, gamble kung gamble without any assurance mula sa kanya. He knows that I like him, a lo...

Not in haste!

Wait for that right moment, the time when you will not rely on the butterflies in your stomach, but the real rhythm of your heart.The time when you will not question your emotions because those feelings already move in one motion at the same beat.

BUNGA NG PANALANGIN

"BUNGA NG PANALANGIN" Naiinip ka na ba? Yung tipong jowang-jowa ka na. Sa tingin mo handa ka na, Pero wala pa rin si "the one" ika-nga. Lord kailan mo ba siya ibibigay? Ang tagal di tuloy ako mapalagay. Lord ilang taon pa ba akon...

Open Letter to NGSB/NBSB

I'm in the same boat as you. Although you may believe that no one understands you, this is not the truth. I knew you were being teased. Making a fake smile to trick people into thinking you were not upset by their jokes. Pushing yoursel...

To A Breadwinner Who Prioritizes His/Her Family Before His/Her Romantic Relationship

I'm so proud of you, It was admirable and unselfish to do things for the sake of family needs. People who have to go abroad to provide for their families will never be able to spend more time with their families. You desire to make a sa...

Faithfully Waiting For God`s Perfect Timing.

When something does not go as planned, you may believe it is your fault. It's the same in a romantic relationship; it's difficult to tell when the right time to marry a person. Some people think about a lot of things in life, while othe...

I’ll be Waiting

For those warriors who are courageously waiting in the midst of uncertainties, there's someone out there for you. Hope is rising!

Only Fools Rush In

If you are searching for someone that will make you satisfied, probably you are searching for a short-term contentment. Man, you're courting her just because she touches your soul today? How about tomorrow and few strong storms possible ov...

Gusto mo lang ngayon Vs Gustung -gusto mo talaga

What if nag "yes" si Lord sa mga nagustuhan mo? What if? Dumating yung the "best" kung saan prepared na prepared ka na. Would it be harder to let go of being with a person na pinag investan mo ng time, dream and love. Then suddenly ...

To my future strong independent self,

I want this down to earth, helpful, nice and diligent type of man. He got my attention online but yeah, it's just admiration and I'm in the way of forgetting him completely. So if you're reading this, I have realized you deserve much m...

Am I really in love?

  I can't remember when I started to be in love or  did I really in love? HAHA. How I fell in love was like a love stories on anime  I used to watch, yeah it such an epic love stories. Apparently I think I am in love currently, wew HAHA ...

It is better to be single than to settle for an almost relationship

It is better to have no one to send messages than to send someone a sweet message and then realize that he read it an hour ago and still hasn’t sent you a response. It is better to cry while watching movies on Netflix than to cry while w...

A great hard wall

Do you ever feel the downside of singleness? Being alone, no one to share your day with--kind of things. Do you once want to feel romantic love? But, there is this "wall" that even you can't overcome. You healed from your past ...

Self-love: Why is better to lose someone than losing yourself?

A THREAD Him: Bakit takot kang magmahal? Me: (Speechless) Him: Was it an awkward question? Me: (Speechless) Him: So that means yes, right? I should have not asked you. Me: No, it’s alright. Him: So tell me. Why are you afraid of lo...

To the Person I Secretly Admired: It Was Enough.

I have watched you from the sidelines since I first met you. Sorry... I know, it sounds creepy but I did it anyway. I watched you laughed and enjoyed the company of different kinds of people. I saw how you cared and how grateful you were wh...

Why am I still single?

Three decades and a three. But why you are still single? Are you in a relationship right now? When are you planning to settle down? When will you get married? Those are the frequent questions that quite bother a few if not most of the ...

Dear Self, I’m sorry. I Forgive you. Thank you.

I AM SORRY. I’m sorry for everything, not only for what I let others do to you but for what I did too.For when things went wrong, I took it all out on you.I’m sorry for the damage to you and for the times I went too far.For holding onto...

Singles, Stop Doing These Habits

Not everyone is given the chance to have a partner in life. It is a reality that we have to face. But for those who have… cheers to you! Now let’s go to Single people out there who is “Okay Naman” pero they are having a hard time finding t...

Paano galingan sa pagiging single?

We are now living in a generation where low EQ (Emotional Quotient) becomes evident. We are in a hurry to be in a relationship but always fall short probably because we lack two most important things: Discernment and Wisdom. At some point ...

Ba-ak Series #1

In the North where I come from, people who are not seen in the arms of someone are called "ba-ak" as in Tagalog "matandang dalaga" or "matandang binata". Personally, I have nothing against it but when I was younger, I cannot help but ask w...