I Wait Because I Can

It is a sunny Saturday afternoon. I sit here in my favorite coffee shop watching people around me. Somehow, this has become a hobby of mine – to watch ordinary people going about their daily lives. To my left, I see this group of friends a...

Remember the Lesson

Remember The Lesson Everything happens for a Reason. Everything happens for a Lesson. Everything happens for a Season. There's always a reason and a lesson in every season God allows you to walk through, it might be difficult or easy bu...

Open Letter To All Women Who desire To Be Loved

You Are Not An Easy-To-Get Type of a Girl Sometimes, your current age will give you pressure and desperation to be with someone else—hopefully it is not. Age is not a barometer of your love life. Just because you are in the mid-thirty idoe...

10 things I’ve learned while being single

Things I've learned while being single: 1. Love yourself and always put your happiness your top priority. 2. Jealousy and Insecurities will kill you. Don't feed your mind with negative thoughts. 3. Always praise yourself in fronf of th...

PIGIL para hindi MATIGIL

Siguro kung may kwento man tayo, ang ikli lang. "LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT" tapos The End na. Hindi ba't hanggang tingin lang din naman ako? Sana naman hindi na mauulit yung pag may minahal ako, 'di ko na naman masabi na mahal ko yung tao at mi...

Bakit wala kang jowa?

Because I'm not what they are looking for. Sometimes, I'm not enough. Most of the time, I'm too much. Because I haven't found him yet. We haven't met yet, or maybe we did. But God said, "the timing is not yet perfect". Because I'm st...

Don’t stir up love…until you’re ready!

  You may be feeling left out at times dahil ikaw na lang ang nanatiling single sa barkada. Tipong naging sideline mo na ang pagiging thirdwheel at ilang kembot na lang eh gagawaran ka na ng parangal na "best taga-sana all ng tao...

For the girl whose feelings for a boy are pent up and they want out

I know it’s not always easy. You’re not always on top of your game. It’s normal if you can’t always feel to be as strong, independent woman as you have always claimed to be. There are times when emotions are high and they are raging in you...

Para Sa Mga Single Pa Rin Hanggang Ngayon

Oo! Alam kong single ka pa. Pero sana alam mong okay lang yon. Sa panahon ngayon na naglipana ang dating apps, kasalanan na ang ‘di lumandi at ‘di magka-jowa. Sa panahon ngayon na lahat ng kaibigan mo ay in a relationship, kasalanan ...

Hindi na Muli

Unti-unti na akong nasasanay sa mga malalamig mong reply.Unti-unti ko na din natutunan na wag ng maghintay.Sa mga "OK" mong sagot, na para bang napipilitan pa. Kahit na ang tanong ko naman ay kung "Kumain ka na ba?"Hindi na din ako magsese...

To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before

  Love is something that makes us feel right. It somehow keeps us going on a day-to-day basis. My experience of love was a roller coaster ride. As early as grade school, I remember I had my first crush. He's cute. He has this ...

There Is Something More In Being A Woman

You may not be able to meet a man who would give you the love you deserve. You might not be able to have a family of your own —have kids and woke up to a husband beside you. You might not win in the game called love, know that life does not...

I miss you but I don’t want you back

The story of you & me was like forever. We have our own way of saying I love you. We have our handshake. We compliment each other - and that’s what looks us a perfect couple. We plan everything ahead of time, when something comes up,...

My Prayers For You

My Prayers For You I pray that you will be contented of things you have now. I pray that you will continue to seek God whatever your situation. I pray that you will praise God in every season of your life. I pray that you will learn to ...

Totoo Kaya Paano

ang sabi nga nila ay totoo kapag mahal mo ang isang tao kahit kailan,sa'n o ano pang ginagawa mo laman sya'ng tuwina ng isipan mo sa bawat awiting maririning mo lahat ay parang pa tungkol sa inyo ano mang akda'y hawig sa kwento niny...

Maybe

Maybe because she was left by the person whom she thought will be her future. No. Maybe it's because her mom failed to find her own "happily ever after" cliché ending. Could it be because her sister failed to find someone who will never h...

7 Years Alone

Alone but not lonely has always been the cliché that I’ve been wearing for 7 years. Yes 7 long years. Perhaps that sounds unbelievable to most. I am usually stereotyped as the picky, perfectionist and idealistic human. “Why (are you still s...

It took me a while before I finally learnt to love myself—again.

It didn't happen overnight. It was a long process... of crying asking myself losing my self-esteem lowering my standards of crying again... forcing people to stay in my life losing people convincing myself I derserved every heartac...

On Coffee, Trust and Second Chances

I can still remember the first time I drank a cup of coffee. The coffee was black; my first sip, bitter. Confused, I never understood why people, especially the older ones, loved to drink such a bitter liquid. But now that I’m in my mi...

Singleness Is Not A Curse But A Blessing

One of the reasons why many of us are impatient to be with someone is because we think that singleness is not a blessing but a curse. We think that the long period of time of waiting is a punishment from God. As a matter of fact, it is not....

Things To Cultivate Purposely As A Single Lady

Marahil, magaling ka nang magluto. The best na rin ang iyong organization skills as well as ang pagma-manage mo ng iyong time. Palagi ka ring mabango at presentable. Magaling ka pa sa mga bata. You have it all na, kumbaga, ...

Overcome Inggit Towards People Na Taken Na

On your way papuntang mall to buy groceries, you saw this young teenage guy na naka-school uniform at pinapayungan si high school girl. In your mind, "Ano ba 'yan, kababata pa, ang haharot na!" Sa may entrance ng mall naman, si S...

Believing

She glanced at his picture And all of a sudden, all those memories with him came rushing into her mind. Just like music instantly played out of the blue. And then there she goes again trying to make herself believe that he's still with her....

Single and Secure

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐓𝐫𝐮𝐭𝐡 𝐈𝐬: 𝐒𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐥𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐒𝐞𝐜𝐮𝐫𝐞 I know some people who are in a relationship, but are still suffering from a broken heart. I can’t count with one hand the broken marriages in this world. People are looking for satisfaction in a relations...

Alaala

Pag-ibig na ba? Nang una kitang Makita Pintig ng aking pusoy bumilis bigla Diko alam kung saan nagsimula Ito ba ay pag-ibig na? Bawat araw at oras na magdaan Ito'y aking laging inaasan-asam Makita kat masilayan man Lang, Para sa a...

Risks

I’ve been asking myself many times. Why? Why don’t you still have someone? Even though a lot of guys are checking you out, still why? Some were able to talk and communicate with you, get to know things about your likes and dislikes. Yet whe...

Valentine’s day na, mag isa ka parin ba?

Napaisip ka nanaman ba? Anong kulang at mag isa ka nanaman? Mag aaraw nanaman ng mga puso At heto nanaman tayo mag sasana all sa mga mag jowang makakasalubong sa daan. Isang tanong na alam kong hindi tama ngunit di maiwasang pumasok sa ...

Ang Alamat ng Single

Ang Alamat ng Single Noong unang panahon, sa di kalayuang lugar, like jan lang sa kabilang kanto, may isang babae na ang pangalan ay Gel. Si Gel ay maganda. Makinang ang kanyang mga mata. Ang eyeballs nya ay kumukutikutitap, bumusi-bu...

Pwede pero Depende

Ito ang mga natatanging repleksyun ng mga dalaga na matagal na mula nung huling nagmahal. Karamihan tinatawag silang strong independent women.  Kaya naman kung isa kang binata na gustong mapa-oo ang isang strong independent woman (with a he...

Ready Ka Na Pero Single Pa Rin

Maybe you're asking this question right now or have been struggling with this thought for some time now. Or maybe…you’re bombarded with these crazy questions & statements from your “usosero at usoserang” friends and relatives; 1....