25 Rules for Unlabeled Relationship

Unlabeled Relationship Rules   Rule #1 Don’t get too emotionally attached. I know, parang sasabog na yang puso at butse mo kakasigaw ng pangalan niya but hold yourself together. Wait for the label, mas deserve mo yun. Rule ...

25 Facts Only People In A “No-Label-Relationships” Will Truly Understand

1. It doesn't mean it's not official, the feelings are not real. 2. Even though everything seems confusing, let's be honest that happiness feels true, it's genuine. 3. We are afraid of the truth, of the real score, of the real thing so we d...

Ready Ka Na Pero Single Pa Rin

Maybe you're asking this question right now or have been struggling with this thought for some time now. Or maybe…you’re bombarded with these crazy questions & statements from your “usosero at usoserang” friends and relatives; 1....

Waiting takes time. But what if I’m nearing 30s?

You are nearing your 30s, or perhaps you are beyond calendar days and you are still single. Maybe you have not experienced any past relationships or maybe you had once, twice or more but things went differently and you ended up alone and yo...

Kelan ka mag-aasawa?

I know right? Sa title palang. But isn't it fitting to first ask, kelan ka magkaka jowa? LOL One toxic Filipino Culture every men and women aging 25-30 are facing is being asked by their relatives with the very familiar question: "Kelan...

To the man who will love me for real, I will wait

I am certain that this heart of mine became stronger through time. I have kept it secured but open at the same time. I am still hoping and believing that one day, you will find me. I became tired of searching; but instead, I started praying...

5 LDR Tips Para Tumibay Ka

Realities ng mga nasa LDR: maraming temptations at opportunities para mag-cheat mismatch yung schedule niyo para mag-usap madaling ma-misunderstand yung mga messages niyo napupunta sa cold treatment ang mga conflict at hindi inaayo...

What If Naging Tayo?

What if naging tayo? What if ako 'yung pinili mo? What if minahal mo rin ako?' Siguro, mas nakilala pa kita ng mabuti at nakilala mo rin ako. Siguro, may kanta tayong laging babalik-balikan at may palabas tayong parehong nagustuhan. Sigu...

Liham para saaking unang pag-ibig

Liham para sa aking unang pag-ibig,                  Marahil hindi ito ang pinaka magandang tulang maitatala ko sa oras na ito. Nais ko sanang sabihin saiyo ang aking naramdaman dahil alam ko na kung ip...

How I Moved On Without Closure

6 months ago, the most constant person in my life for two and a half years chose to leave me - - for someone else. My world was shattered because I lost not only a boyfriend, but also a CLOSE FRIEND... The person I trusted my life with. And...

Maraming Salamat at Paalam, aking Ama! Hanggang sa muli nating pagkikita…

Tatay, Daddy, Papa, Erpat, Tatang, Itay…Anumang katawagan pa yan.. sila ang tinagurian na ating haligi ng tahanan… Sa aking ama, salamat sa walang sawang pagmamahal. Ikaw ang aking sandalan sa mga panahong hindi ko na kaya. Ikaw ang nagb...

To the Person Who’s Willing to Wait

Waiting isn't really everybody's forte. You might get to know someone who likes you so much yet that person could not afford to take his time and wait around especially when you are still unsure of your own capability to love or love again...

Gusto kita pero

Alam kong matagal ka nang naghihintay. Matagal ka nang nag-hahanda. Ngunit patawad, Kaibigan. Dahil gusto kita pero hindi kita kayang mahalin. Patawarin mo ako kung hindi ko kayang i-pagsigawan. O sabihin man lang sayo ng harapan an...

Someday, I’ll Stop

Someday, somehow, I'll stop waiting for your responses, I'll stop checking whether you have seen my messages, I'll stop keeping an eye on your FB stories, and I'll stop visiting your timeline, The day will soon come when I'll stop tal...

To the Man who was Unsure

Dear You, Thank you for the times you were there.Thank you for the memories you left.Thank you for the laughter and sadness.Thank you for the stories in my book you flipped. Thank you for you loved me, maybe.But above all, thank yo...

Bye My Almost

Instead of sitting someone down to talk about our feelings, we play guessing games. We avoid asking questions about labels because we are worried about coming across as clingy or desperate or controlling. We let the love of our lives get aw...

Sa ngayon, ako muna

Alam ko masarap na may kahawakan ng kamay tuwing naglalakad. Masarap sa pakiramdam na mayroon kang mapakilala sa mga kaibigan mo. May taga hatid at sundo ka. May kasabay ka maglunch o magdinner. May litrato kang malalagay sa social media ac...

Bakit Ba May Mga Taong Pa-Fall?

Siguro nahulog na ang loob mo sa isang tao na hindi ka sinalo. Sa madaling salita, hindi niya nabalik sa'yo yung feelings mo. Kaya ang ending, nasaktan ka at natakot nang ma-fall uli sa maling tao. You were broken-hearted at ikaw lang ang n...

Muntik nang maging tayo

Nagsimula ang lahat sa isang pag-uusap. Pag-uusap na sa pakiramdam ko naman ay may patutunguhan. Hindi pa kita masyadong kilala pero ang lalim ng connection ko sa’yo. Feeling ko yung kilig ko wala nang katapusan kasi paulit-ulit ko namang n...

Iwas Sawi: Tips Para Hindi Ka Umasa

Hey there, single ladies (and guys)! I have heard so many brokenhearted girls complaining about how they’ve been led on by some guy and how they felt like they’ve been betrayed, lied to or cheated on (Pinaasa nya lang ako! Akala ko ...

Paano mag-move on, kahit hindi naging kayo?

Siguro ilang beses mo na rin kinumbinsi ang sarili mo that it's over. Kaso paano mo tatapusin ang isang relasyon na wala namang naumpisahan? To the other person, wala lang talaga. Pero para sa'yo. para kang nagmomove on uli sa isang break u...

Love Comes Back For The Second Time Around

All these years, I have come to realize that maybe love really never fades away. Maybe love is sometimes just lost waiting to be found, maybe it was just being left behind somewhere else, maybe it is just asleep and waiting for someone to c...

Pafall at Paasa, and how to prevent it. Tips and Tricks!

Ang dami dami na ang nag rereklamo tungkol sa paasa at pafall. Maririnig mo ito sa mainstream media tulad ng Television shows, Movies, at pati narin sa mga Advertisment, gamit na gamit ang katagang ito. Syempre dahil nasa panahon na tayo ng...

Move on, kahit hindi naging kayo

Ang weird lang sa pakiramdam. Nasasaktan ka. Kinikilig ka. Masarap sa feeling kapag kausap siya. Pero ang tanong, ano ka ba talaga sa kaniya? Baka past time ka lang kapag bored siya? O baka naman ineenjoy niya lang ang company mo kapag wala...

Liligawan Ko Na Ba?

Paano ba pag may girl na pasok sa standards mo tapos gusto mo’ng kilalanin… KILALANIN lang muna ah. Pero di naman agad liligawan.” “… kasi diba, di naman maiwasan na pag interesado ka na may kilalanin, kahit paminsan di naman sinasadya, p...

7 Years Of Being Single And Counting!

People are asking on how I stayed single for 7 years. Yes! 7 years, some can’t just believe it and I don’t understand why. But trust me, it was definitely a ride. For the first few years, I was so scared. I built a wall that I didn’t even l...

Can I love you even though I can’t have you?

You were someone that I always looked up to. You seem so near, yet so distant. I always used to love someone who is very close to me. But what is happening to me? I used to think that all of this is an illusion that was built up by my emoti...

25 Things You Should Take Note After Loving The Wrong Person

1. Between you and the right person stands a line of wrong people. 2. People will always leave you, but darling, it doesn't mean it is your fault. 3. Some things will never work for your favor, no matter how much effort you put on it. 4....

Para Sa Taong Gusto Rin Ako Ngunit Hindi Pa Tapos Magmahal Ng Iba

Sabihin mo mang limot mo na siya Hindi mo pa rin mapagkakaila sa iyong mga mata Na tila ipinahihiwatig nito'y sa kanya ka pa rin sasaya At sa loob-loob mo'y lagi mo syang naaalala Sabihin mo mang limot mo na siya Ngunit nakikita ko pa rin ...

Thank You For Not Choosing To Stay

That night, when I asked you to leave, at the back of my head, I said, "Please, don't let me go." And the world agreed with what my heart wanted, and it shouted your name. But still, you left. I had to agree and surrender. Thank you for...