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Bakit Nung Nag-Glow Up Siya Bigla Siya Nag-Cheat?

In this case study, we helped Carstein how to recover sa GF niyang nag-glow up lang nagcheat na at pinagpalit siya dahil sa motor. Sumakabilang motor!

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Why Take Your Time

1. Take your time. It is non-negotiable for someone to know your worth if they truly deserve you. 2. Take your time. Magbuild ka muna ng cr...

21 Lessons From My Father

Life is tough. Life is unfair. Kailangan kong sipagan at tapangan. "Nak, ganyan talaga mahirap." Ang hindi magtrabaho, hindi kakain. "Bawal...

5 LDR Tips Para Tumibay Ka

Realities ng mga nasa LDR: maraming temptations at opportunities para mag-cheat mismatch yung schedule niyo para mag-usap madaling ma...

Tips Para Iwas Pokmaru

Part 1 1. Mindset: wala siyang gusto sayo, friendly lang (unless umamin) 2. Isiping mataas ang sugar level niya kaya sweet sayo 3. Expl...

I Cannot Pursue You Yet

I cannot pursue you Yet, And I might never do. I may be starting to like you a lot, in more ways than I had expected. I like all your go...

Relationships

To the man who still believes in old-fashioned courtship, keep it up!

To the man who believes that a woman is a treasure, I truly admire you. I wonder where you are. I wonder if you're near or far. No matter what it take...

If you can’t Man up, yet.

Don't stir up her heart if you can't give the clarity she needs. Man, don't confuse her just because you're not yet ready to tell. Don't make yo...

Single pero secretly taken

Sa panahon ngayon, napakadali ng communication. Kapag may nagustuhan ka, you could easily message someone at mapalapit sa kanya. Talaga ngang nawala n...

To the man I have prayed for

To the man I have prayed for...   First and foremost I would like to express how thankful I am today.   Thank you for taking the...

For those people who are still healing

Nothing comes close to pain after a breakup, especially if it was from a long-term and ‘he-was-my-first-boyfriend’ relationship kind. Sabi ng friend k...

Someday, I’ll Stop

Someday, somehow, I'll stop waiting for your responses, I'll stop checking whether you have seen my messages, I'll stop keeping an eye on your F...

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Poetries

Maraming Salamat at Paalam, aking Ama! Hanggang sa muli nating pagkiki...

Tatay, Daddy, Papa, Erpat, Tatang, Itay…Anumang katawagan pa yan.. sila ang tinagurian na ating haligi ng tahanan… Sa aking ama, salamat sa walang sawang pagmamahal. I...

To My Favorite Rejection

It was a painful experience. No day and night, I stopped dreaming. Hoping that this illusion can be reality That you and I can be together. I woke up on this Fantasy Mad...

Open letter to a struggling self

Dear self,  I know you’ve been struggling lately. You’re not yourself and you seemed lost in a place you’ve never been before. I know you’re wandering thru the m...

I Will Stop Loving You

I will stop loving you not because I gave up, but to help myself recognize the significance of my Lord's will. I will stop loving you for the sake of my own growth, to t...

I Cannot Pursue You Yet

I cannot pursue you Yet, And I might never do. I may be starting to like you a lot, in more ways than I had expected. I like all your good things, your beauty, your p...

Moving On

Thank You For Not Choosing To Stay

That night, when I asked you to leave, at the back of my head, I said, "Please, don't let me go." And the world agreed with what my heart wanted, and it shouted your name. But still, you left. I ha...

Thank you and Goodbye!!

Waiting

Saka na, kapag sigurado na

Bakit ka magbabasa ng libro kung hindi mo intensyon na basahin hanggang dulo? Bakit ka aakyat sa entablado kung hindi mo kayang humarap sa mga tao? Bakit ka hihiling ng bagyo kung hindi mo kayang su...

To My Future Wife

Faith

Maraming Salamat at Paalam, aking Ama! Hanggang sa muli nating pagkiki...

Tatay, Daddy, Papa, Erpat, Tatang, Itay…Anumang katawagan pa yan.. sila ang tinagurian na ating haligi ng tahanan… Sa aking ama, salamat sa walang sawang pagmamahal. Ikaw ang aking sandalan sa mga ...

To My Favorite Rejection

I Will Stop Loving You

I Cannot Pursue You Yet

Singleness

To the Man who was Unsure

Dear You, Thank you for the times you were there.Thank you for the memories you left.Thank you for the laughter and sadness.Thank you for the stories in my book you flipped. Thank you for you...

Sa ngayon, ako muna

I am unlovable and I am fully aware. I can be apathetic, rude, and careless. I am not the best that there is in this world. I am not who you want me to be. I am scarred. Lonely most of the time. I smile but it does not really reach my eyes. I laugh but all there is to i...
I. Pagkilala   Noong una kitang makilala, isa ka lang sa mga karaniwan kong kaibigan. Ni hindi nga kita gaanong nakakausap.   Ngunit mapaglaro ang tadhana, binigyan ako ng pagkakataon na mas makilala ka. Ang madalang na pagku-kumustahan ay nauwi sa araw-araw n...
I'm so proud of you, It was admirable and unselfish to do things for the sake of family needs. People who have to go abroad to provide for their families will never be able to spend more time with their families. You desire to make a sacrifice for the happiness of your loved ...
Okay, so I would be a year older in few months. I will be turning 33. What’s wrong with that? Well, there should not be any fuss about it, it is just that a year will again be added to my existence, yet I am still single. Do I feel pressure about it? Not really. I get pressured ...
To the one who left me broken, thank you and to the girl that push me in the pit, please be careful. After a month, I tried to put myself again while Im in agony. I was devastated to the storm that you left. Gusto ko maramdaman ang sakit na dinulot niyo hanggang sa hindi ko na m...
When something does not go as planned, you may believe it is your fault. It's the same in a romantic relationship; it's difficult to tell when the right time to marry a person. Some people think about a lot of things in life, while others wish to get married young. Financial ...
1. Tanggapin mo kung ano at kung sino siya, higit lalo ang buong pagkatao niya. 2. Huwag mo siyang pag-aalalahanin, pero ikaw ang laging aalala sa kaniya. 3. Irespeto mo ang kaniyang oras at huwag manghingi ng anumang atensiyon mula sa kaniya, hanggang siya mism...
  To the Lover of My Soul, I clearly remember the first day I met you. That day I was sitting on the filthy bench with hopeless eyes staring at people passing by. For hours I would ponder, will this end? Will there be hope? Scenarios were flashing like a movie in my mind....
If we hope for what we do not see we wait for it with patience. - Romans 8:25
nagpursue ka ng taong matanda sayo,, kase sa experience.. ano to tulad sa porn na milf,, feeling mo kakainggitan ka kase ang makakasex mo mas may experience.. challenge sa tiktok na susunod sa lahat ng gusto mo. o parang nanay mo na ibibigay lahat sayo,,materyal su...
You did it again!That same thing you said you wouldn’t do.Here you are again.Punishing yourself for doing the same mistake. Thoughts are surging your mind.Questions devour your head.What will I do? Where will I go?Will I run away or will I run to you?In moments where direct...
Gaano ka na katagal naghihintay? Naghihintay sa mga bagay na hindi mo alam kung kailan darating o kung darating pa nga ba Naghihintay na balang araw ang inipon mong karanasan ay maibahagi na sa iba sapagkat nakamit mo na ang laman ng iyong mga panalangin. Maka ilang ulit mo ...
Balingkinitan, maputi, makinis - MAGANDA Matangkad, matalino, talentado- MAGANDA Matangos ang ilong, pantay ang kilay, mapupungay ang mga mata- MAGANDA. Dito nga lang ba nasusukat ang kagandahan ng isang babae? Sa pisikal na anyo at sa kung ano ang sabi ng mundo? Nakalimut...
Di ko alam bat ako nagkakaganito, di ko alam bakit ako nagkakaganito dahil sayo Oo alam ko saglit palang tayong nagkakilala pero kase mula nung lumisan ka sobrang bigat ng aking dinadala Di ko alam bat ko sinimulan siguro dahil umasa ako sa walang hanggan Umasa na ika...
They say "It's better to love and then get hurt than never love at all." Nonetheless, we are very keen not to get hurt but are we also that keen not to fall in love? It is implied that the moment we allow ourselves to fall in love with the person is the exact time we gave them th...
nakakapagod din naman ang magalit, magsabe ng mga masasmang salita manakit umiwas.. ang sakit mo mahalin.. minahal kita ng sobra.. mas minahal kita sa panahong nagahhanp k a ng atensyon ng iba,, baka magbago ka,maisip mo.marealise mo na masakit na. kaso naiipon ...
minsan di ko na alam,, yung paulit ulit ka nagpapatawad sa taong paulit ulit na nagkakamali,, at paulit ulit ka ring nabobola sa ilove u,ikaw lang at di tayo maghihiwalay.. naiisip ko lang sang level na ba ako ng katangahan??? pro o ultraelectromagnetic uto uto..
You have been through a lot. You have been hurt after giving your all. You have been in pain for almost a long time. Seems that your heart has been crushed and you don’t know how to make it whole again. At this moment, you rarely smile. You can’t no longer find happiness in ...
This is a note for the unsaid words and the unsaid confessions of mine. I have nothing to talk with these things. I feel like I'm all alone. I'm longing for friends, heart to heart conversations, and being able to connect with souls of people. Before anything else, let me give...
Hi, you may call me Sophie, definitely not my real name. And this is my story of cheating, kung matatawag pa rin bang cheating yun. Pumasok ako sa isang relasyong Favorite topic sa Tulfo, ang Kumabit. Yes, I did but I regret it. Ang dami niyang down sides, ang daming mali. Ang h...
Ang tunay na pag-ibig ay marunong magpaalam. Akala ko dati, kapag mahal mo ay kailangan mong ipaglaban. Kapag mahal mo ay hindi mo kailangang bitawan. Na kapag mahal mo, kailangan mong manatili kahit ano mang sakit. Kahit ano pang pait. Akala ko dati, kapag totoo ay hindi n...
There are so many seasons of our lives. Seasons change and take note that it is not permanent. So if you are now in the season of waiting(whether be it in career,love,work or life in general) here are some tips on how to maximize your season: 1. Embrace the season of waiting. Do...
Why do you still need to pursue?
Patawad "tama na, itigil na natin to" Isang kataga na sa puso ko ay sumira, Isang kataga na sa isip ko ay natira. Napagod ang mga puso, kailangan na yatang magpahinga. Natanong mo ba ako kung kakayanin ko ba? Kung kakayanin ko mawasak ang mundo na binuo nating dalawa? Yung m...
bat kase ngaun lang.. magbabago ka,kung kelan nagbago na din ako. hinahanap mo nako. di tulad nun sa iba na agad ang takbo mo,, kinausap kita,naging ako pa may kasalanan.. bat di pa nun,, bat kung kelan pagod nako. bat ngayun na ang hirap na maniwala.. di ko maramda...
Sorry. Alam ko na kasalanan ko, lahat. 'Di mo alam na I always blame myself for everything. At pang-ilang beses ko na sinasabi 'yun. It's not your fault obviously. It's mine. Because it is a part of who I am. Lahat ng kapalpakan ko bumabalik sa akin, lahat ng kinatatakutan ko sa ...
Gone are the days that i cried myself to sleep. Nights asking where do i go wrong. Nights asking myself why you left without any hesitation. I’ve done everything to make you stay, To make us stay but I guess it wasn’t that enough for you. Enough for you to fight, enoug...
I pray for you. That’s the best opening statement I can come up with. Despite all the numerous things I want to say, I want to start with that. Simple and vague. Even if I don’t know you yet, I constantly pray to God that wherever you are right now, I hope that you’re living the ...
Kapag strong and independent usually ang ideas ng ibang tao: -career and goal-oriented -hardworker -achiever -financially stable etc. Kaya minsan may stigma na, "ang hirap mahalin niyan" , "mataas masyado standards, wag na lang" , "ang talino mo" , "hindi ko kaya ibigay m...
Si Mariang Iniwan yan ang nickname niya sa messenger ko. she's my friend in Senior High and I had a crush on her pero hindi ko masabi and I don't know how to confess and I have a feeling kung magtake risk ba ako or hindi? takot ako mareject? o sadyang torpe lang ako? I dont know!...

I Am A Work In Progress

I am unlovable and I am fully aware. I can be apathetic, rude, and careless. I am not the best that there is in this world. I am not who you want me to be. I am scarred. Lonely most of the time. ...

Ang hinog sa pilit, ang kalalabasan ay laging pangit

I. Pagkilala   Noong una kitang makilala, isa ka lang sa mga karaniwan kong kaibigan. Ni hindi nga kita gaanong nakakausap.   Ngunit mapaglaro ang tadhana, binigyan ako ng pagkakat...

To A Breadwinner Who Prioritizes His/Her Family Before His/ Her Romant...

I'm so proud of you, It was admirable and unselfish to do things for the sake of family needs. People who have to go abroad to provide for their families will never be able to spend more time with...

In Between “I want” and “I don’t want”

Okay, so I would be a year older in few months. I will be turning 33. What’s wrong with that? Well, there should not be any fuss about it, it is just that a year will again be added to my existence, ...

Unheard Agony

To the one who left me broken, thank you and to the girl that push me in the pit, please be careful. After a month, I tried to put myself again while Im in agony. I was devastated to the storm that y...

Faithfully Waiting For God`s Perfect Timing.

When something does not go as planned, you may believe it is your fault. It's the same in a romantic relationship; it's difficult to tell when the right time to marry a person. Some people think a...

10 Paraan Kung Paano Mahalin ang isang Introvert

1. Tanggapin mo kung ano at kung sino siya, higit lalo ang buong pagkatao niya. 2. Huwag mo siyang pag-aalalahanin, pero ikaw ang laging aalala sa kaniya. 3. Irespeto mo ang kaniyang...

Love Letter written on a filthy bench

  To the Lover of My Soul, I clearly remember the first day I met you. That day I was sitting on the filthy bench with hopeless eyes staring at people passing by. For hours I would ponder, wil...

Can you faithfully wait?

If we hope for what we do not see we wait for it with patience. - Romans 8:25

pornks

nagpursue ka ng taong matanda sayo,, kase sa experience.. ano to tulad sa porn na milf,, feeling mo kakainggitan ka kase ang makakasex mo mas may experience.. challenge sa tiktok na susuno...

YOU DID IT AGAIN!

You did it again!That same thing you said you wouldn’t do.Here you are again.Punishing yourself for doing the same mistake. Thoughts are surging your mind.Questions devour your head.What will I ...

Naghintay at Maghihintay

Gaano ka na katagal naghihintay? Naghihintay sa mga bagay na hindi mo alam kung kailan darating o kung darating pa nga ba Naghihintay na balang araw ang inipon mong karanasan ay maibahagi na sa iba ...

Babae

Balingkinitan, maputi, makinis - MAGANDA Matangkad, matalino, talentado- MAGANDA Matangos ang ilong, pantay ang kilay, mapupungay ang mga mata- MAGANDA. Dito nga lang ba nasusukat ang kagandahan ...

Dapat Kung Di Tinadhana Di Na Lang Pinagtagpo

Di ko alam bat ako nagkakaganito, di ko alam bakit ako nagkakaganito dahil sayo Oo alam ko saglit palang tayong nagkakilala pero kase mula nung lumisan ka sobrang bigat ng aking dinadala Di k...

500-word Essay

They say "It's better to love and then get hurt than never love at all." Nonetheless, we are very keen not to get hurt but are we also that keen not to fall in love? It is implied that the moment we a...

90’s

nakakapagod din naman ang magalit, magsabe ng mga masasmang salita manakit umiwas.. ang sakit mo mahalin.. minahal kita ng sobra.. mas minahal kita sa panahong nagahhanp k a ng atensyon ng...

ut ot

minsan di ko na alam,, yung paulit ulit ka nagpapatawad sa taong paulit ulit na nagkakamali,, at paulit ulit ka ring nabobola sa ilove u,ikaw lang at di tayo maghihiwalay.. naiisip ko lang sang l...

This time I will stop finding

You have been through a lot. You have been hurt after giving your all. You have been in pain for almost a long time. Seems that your heart has been crushed and you don’t know how to make it whole a...

“A note from an anguished woman.”

This is a note for the unsaid words and the unsaid confessions of mine. I have nothing to talk with these things. I feel like I'm all alone. I'm longing for friends, heart to heart conversations, and ...

I Cheated on a Cheater.

Hi, you may call me Sophie, definitely not my real name. And this is my story of cheating, kung matatawag pa rin bang cheating yun. Pumasok ako sa isang relasyong Favorite topic sa Tulfo, ang Kumabit...

UMPISA

Ang tunay na pag-ibig ay marunong magpaalam. Akala ko dati, kapag mahal mo ay kailangan mong ipaglaban. Kapag mahal mo ay hindi mo kailangang bitawan. Na kapag mahal mo, kailangan mong manatili kah...

Waiting game season. Journey towards self-growth. .

There are so many seasons of our lives. Seasons change and take note that it is not permanent. So if you are now in the season of waiting(whether be it in career,love,work or life in general) here are...

Pursuing Her

Why do you still need to pursue?

Bago ka sumuko na lang basta, tanungin mo muna siya kung nung panahon ...

Patawad "tama na, itigil na natin to" Isang kataga na sa puso ko ay sumira, Isang kataga na sa isip ko ay natira. Napagod ang mga puso, kailangan na yatang magpahinga. Natanong mo ba ako kung kak...