How to Fall Back in Love: A Guide for Singles Seeking Meaningful Relationships Falling back in love isn’t just about rekindling old flames—it’s about maintaining and enhancing the connection in any relationship, including the one you have with yourself. Here are insightful ways to cultivate a loving relationship with yourself and potential partners: By integrating… Continue reading How Do You Fall Back in Love?
Category: Single
Waiting Season is a Growth Season
In the realm of relationships, the period of waiting is an invaluable season of growth, a time to cultivate oneself rather than passively bide time. Embracing the discomfort of discipline, whether in personal development, career advancement, or spiritual growth, prepares one for the complexities of a relationship. It’s about cultivating patience, resilience, and a strong… Continue reading Waiting Season is a Growth Season
To a Woman Who Doesn’t See Her Worth
Advice for women that I want to share. Mga bagay na pina practice ko as a single woman. Baka makatulong especially to young women who don’t see their worth. 1. Wait for the man God has for you not someone you want for yourself. God knows best! He is the BEST matchmaker. Kasi pag mali… Continue reading To a Woman Who Doesn’t See Her Worth
Dear Woman in Her 30s and Waiting
Dear woman in her 30s and wondering where is Mr. Right—if you’ve met him or not yet, or if you need to be forward about it—hold it right there! STOP worrying and START refocusing on things, people, and situations that matter most (like the NOW). To be in your 30s (or 40s) and single is… Continue reading Dear Woman in Her 30s and Waiting
Love Find’s You when you are Ready
Just be yourself Someone will find you Perfect You cannot please everybody, But you can be a blessing to one
A letter to a guy who has been rejected
A letter to a guy who has been rejecte A letter to a guy who has been rejected Don’t worry there will be someone who will appreciate you Who will value you Take care of you and choose you. But please don’t be tired of believing that someone will come Don’t lose hope Someday will… Continue reading A letter to a guy who has been rejected
Bakit lagi na lang?
BAKIT LAGI NA LANG? Bakit lagi na lang akong umaasa? Naghihintay na may tao na makakakita Na ako Pala ay may halaga. Bakit lagi na lang akong nabibigo? Akala ko Siya na Hindi pa Pala… Akala ko mayroon Yun Pala ay Wala Naman talaga At Minsan Wala Na…nawawala na. Ako lang Ang nagbibigay Ng halaga.… Continue reading Bakit lagi na lang?
Make your self Loved
“SIGN OF MATURITY” Loving your self first, before entering in a serious relationship is a must. Sayo dapat mag simula ang pagmamahal na hinahanap mo.
Ways to Abandon your Self Worth
Saying “Yes” when deep inside you ache to say “No” because you know it doesn’t align with your values. Chasing someone who doesn’t care about you. Being stuck in the past and not being able to move forward and enjoy the present time. Over explaining your truth to someone who stopped listening to you a… Continue reading Ways to Abandon your Self Worth
Save the Best to Last
Ever wondered if what would your future be like with the man of your dream? Or maybe the question is, have you ever dreamed of it? For some people, that dream had gone out of the window a long time ago, while others are still dreamy over a fairytale-like, prince charming-thing, Cinderella love story. Ladies… Continue reading Save the Best to Last
Today’s Dating Scene For an Old Man
Sorry! I am still new to this thing. I never had a chance to experience this kind of dating. I was still stuck in my old self: this conformity of being a gentleman in this easy-to-get relationship. All I know is that women admire this kind of attitude towards them, but why is it difficult… Continue reading Today’s Dating Scene For an Old Man
Finding yourself, before sharing yourself
Enjoy the season of being alone. It gives you perspective of what matters the most to you and your life. Being out there through the eyes of another person will only hurt them and most of all, it will hurt you. Find your happiness and share it to the world once you are ready.
Coffee Date
“Coffee date” kuno pero stickers lang talaga habol sa’yo. Kilig-to-the-bones ka naman feeling mo may kayo. Kwentuhan, tawanan, pa-sweet ang galawan. Teka lang, alam mo ba motibo niyan? Nang makumpleto na ang stickers, siya ay nagkaplanner na. Saklap lang kasi ‘di ka kasama sa mga plano niya. Nag palpitate ka na at lahat ‘di ka… Continue reading Coffee Date
To all the Good Guys Out There
I hope you continue breaking the norm that guys aren’t faithful and trustworthy.
Bakit daw ba ako single??
Bakit daw ako single. Tanong na palagi mong maririnig kapag malapit ka ng mag trenta o kapag halos lahat na ata ng kabatch mo may asawa o anak na o kapag un mga tao na nakapaligid sayo ay in a relationship na. Minsan nakakainis marinig, minsan hindi mo alam kung matatawa ka na lang… Continue reading Bakit daw ba ako single??
Am I Running Out of Time?
Sabi nila malapit na daw akong lumagpas sa kalendaryo. Isip ko naman, sus, meron pa namang lotto. Kunwari okay lang sa akin na mag-isa, Pero sa totoo lang, patuloy pa rin akong umaasa. Habang ang iba, unti unti nang bumubuo ng pamilya, Ako…heto, naghihintay pa rin sa “kanya”. Kahit ang hirap dahil hindi mo alam… Continue reading Am I Running Out of Time?
You Don’t Have To Be The Best
We all know that we are going to die, yet we keep on doing our best to prolong it. And I think it’s because our death is not the most important point of our lives. It’s how we lived. It’s the teeny tiny process that makes something wonderful, not the outcome. The time consuming strokes… Continue reading You Don’t Have To Be The Best
What If We Never Find The One?
We often read books, watch inspirational videos, and hear podcasts, saying it’s never a bad thing to be single. That we should use this alone time wisely and productively. To be good at being single. Because it will surely be worth the wait when that time comes, and you finally meet that special one. Someone… Continue reading What If We Never Find The One?
A Letter to the Girl in the Mirror
DEAR YOU, Today, I looked at you and I saw nothing but flaws – I have forgotten how to accept the beauty that you are. I focused too much on that saggy skin, those zits threatening to pop out, that unruly hair, that more-than-average body frame you have, and so much more. Today I looked… Continue reading A Letter to the Girl in the Mirror
Normalize Being Single Since Birth
If you suddenly click on this post then you are just like me wondering how in your 20’s that you are still single since birth. “I hate my parents of being so strict on my relationships” “Am I that unattractive?” “Am I boring?” “Am I too career-oriented?” ” Why did she reject me?” These thoughts… Continue reading Normalize Being Single Since Birth
To the woman who is single for a long time and still desires to love and be loved accordingly
” You are graciously designed to love and be loved. “ Maybe you’re sometimes in denial of what you feel. How hard you try to hide it and ignore it in your mind, you cannot deny the fact that there’s a portion in your heart that longs for an Eros kind of love; a romantic… Continue reading To the woman who is single for a long time and still desires to love and be loved accordingly
Why it’s always okay not to be okay?
What people don’t really understand is that sometimes, it’s okay not to be okay. Sometimes we push ourselves too hard on things we cannot do. We test ourselves to see if we can do things and ending up being exhausted. We force ourselves everyday to smile and pretend that everything is fine but in reality,… Continue reading Why it’s always okay not to be okay?
What really is love?
What really is love? Love. It’s either gonna make you a winner or not. It’s the risk we always want to take, but is it always worth the risk? How can you love someone who doesn’t even feel the same way that you always do? Is love always one way ticket or not? But love… Continue reading What really is love?
I Have A Curfew at 5pm.
I’m already 26 and every time I would say this to people, they don’t believe me. One, because I’m living alone in Manila, though I’m in the same apartment with my aunt and her daughter’s family. Second, my parents were situated in Nueva Ecija, my hometown. And lastly, because of my age, obviously. My batchmates… Continue reading I Have A Curfew at 5pm.
Own Your Singleness
My moments being single is for me alone. It is a gift and I cherish it. I don’t want anything or anyone to steal it away from me. It is a precious, definite, and fragile chapter of my life. And I should strongly be on guard while it is still mine. Because there will surely… Continue reading Own Your Singleness
KATHANG-ISIP
“KATHANG-ISIP” Isang masayang sandali, Ang makita kang muli. Masilayan ang matamis mong ngiti, Lungkot ko’y iyong napapawi. Parang magkahawak ang ating kamay, Tila tayong dalawa’y naglalakbay. Isa kang maliwanag sa bukang-liwayway, Na sabik kong kinahihintay. Gusto kong maglibot tayo, Kahit ikutin pa natin ang buong mundo. Kung ikaw naman ang makakasama ko, ‘Di ako tatanggi… Continue reading KATHANG-ISIP
Late Bloomer
Not sure to spill a tea about this but I think it’s time. My storytime is about my relationship happen way back in the Mid 20’s and yup that’s when I feel LOVE. So, I met this guy via mobile dating app (Telco network says Atin Ang Mundo). Bumble & Tinder was not a trend… Continue reading Late Bloomer
5 BAKITs- Just Why?
Sometimes, we ask ourselves these “Bakit” even though some of it, we already knew the answer.
Anong excuse mo bakit single ka pa?
I’ve been waiting for him for almost 4 years, pwede naman yun diba? Yung maghihintay ka sa kanya pero hindi niya alam? It’s just like you’re taking risk, gamble kung gamble without any assurance mula sa kanya. He knows that I like him, a lot but he can’t like me back. Signal na sana yun… Continue reading Anong excuse mo bakit single ka pa?
BUNGA NG PANALANGIN
“BUNGA NG PANALANGIN” Naiinip ka na ba? Yung tipong jowang-jowa ka na. Sa tingin mo handa ka na, Pero wala pa rin si “the one” ika-nga. Lord kailan mo ba siya ibibigay? Ang tagal di tuloy ako mapalagay. Lord ilang taon pa ba akong maghihintay? Siguro tatanda na lang ako habang buhay. Minsan napepressure ka… Continue reading BUNGA NG PANALANGIN