If you are searching for someone that will make you satisfied, probably you are searching for a short-term contentment. Man, you’re courting her just because she touches your soul today? How about tomorrow and few strong storms possible over the next several days? Will you still court her? Lady, giving your sugar-coated yes is the… Continue reading Only Fools Rush In
Category: Single
Gusto mo lang ngayon Vs Gustung -gusto mo talaga
What if nag “yes” si Lord sa mga nagustuhan mo? What if? Dumating yung the “best” kung saan prepared na prepared ka na. Would it be harder to let go of being with a person na pinag investan mo ng time, dream and love. Then suddenly bigla mong mapefeel na, hindi pala sya? Actually nangyayare… Continue reading Gusto mo lang ngayon Vs Gustung -gusto mo talaga
To my future strong independent self,
I want this down to earth, helpful, nice and diligent type of man. He got my attention online but yeah, it’s just admiration and I’m in the way of forgetting him completely. So if you’re reading this, I have realized you deserve much more so don’t ever settle for less nor be swayed by your… Continue reading To my future strong independent self,
Am I really in love?
I can’t remember when I started to be in love or did I really in love? HAHA. How I fell in love was like a love stories on anime I used to watch, yeah it such an epic love stories. Apparently I think I am in love currently, wew HAHA Wait what? Sucks! this… Continue reading Am I really in love?
It is better to be single than to settle for an almost relationship
It is better to have no one to send messages than to send someone a sweet message and then realize that he read it an hour ago and still hasn’t sent you a response. It is better to cry while watching movies on Netflix than to cry while watching his Instagram stories with his special… Continue reading It is better to be single than to settle for an almost relationship
A great hard wall
Do you ever feel the downside of singleness? Being alone, no one to share your day with–kind of things. Do you once want to feel romantic love? But, there is this “wall” that even you can’t overcome. You healed from your past but you didn’t realize that while you’re on the process of healing, you… Continue reading A great hard wall
Self-love: Why is better to lose someone than losing yourself?
A THREAD Him: Bakit takot kang magmahal? Me: (Speechless) Him: Was it an awkward question? Me: (Speechless) Him: So that means yes, right? I should have not asked you. Me: No, it’s alright. Him: So tell me. Why are you afraid of loving? Me: I am not afraid of loving. Perhaps, the question should why… Continue reading Self-love: Why is better to lose someone than losing yourself?
To the Person I Secretly Admired: It Was Enough.
I have watched you from the sidelines since I first met you. Sorry… I know, it sounds creepy but I did it anyway. I watched you laughed and enjoyed the company of different kinds of people. I saw how you cared and how grateful you were when given even the simplest of efforts. I saw… Continue reading To the Person I Secretly Admired: It Was Enough.
Why am I still single?
Three decades and a three. But why you are still single? Are you in a relationship right now? When are you planning to settle down? When will you get married? Those are the frequent questions that quite bother a few if not most of the people who knows me. But personally, it doesn’t bother me… Continue reading Why am I still single?
Dear Self, I’m sorry. I Forgive you. Thank you.
I AM SORRY. I’m sorry for everything, not only for what I let others do to you but for what I did too.For when things went wrong, I took it all out on you.I’m sorry for the damage to you and for the times I went too far.For holding onto others longer when I should… Continue reading Dear Self, I’m sorry. I Forgive you. Thank you.
Singles, Stop Doing These Habits
Not everyone is given the chance to have a partner in life. It is a reality that we have to face. But for those who have… cheers to you! Now let’s go to Single people out there who is “Okay Naman” pero they are having a hard time finding that special one. But if you… Continue reading Singles, Stop Doing These Habits
Paano galingan sa pagiging single?
We are now living in a generation where low EQ (Emotional Quotient) becomes evident. We are in a hurry to be in a relationship but always fall short probably because we lack two most important things: Discernment and Wisdom. At some point during our singleness we ask ourselves: “am I not enough?”, “akala ko ganito,… Continue reading Paano galingan sa pagiging single?
Ba-ak Series #1
In the North where I come from, people who are not seen in the arms of someone are called “ba-ak” as in Tagalog “matandang dalaga” or “matandang binata”. Personally, I have nothing against it but when I was younger, I cannot help but ask why some people are not married even if they are beautiful… Continue reading Ba-ak Series #1
I Wait Because I Can
It is a sunny Saturday afternoon. I sit here in my favorite coffee shop watching people around me. Somehow, this has become a hobby of mine – to watch ordinary people going about their daily lives. To my left, I see this group of friends all too focused on one girl who’s seemingly going through… Continue reading I Wait Because I Can
Remember the Lesson
Remember The Lesson Everything happens for a Reason. Everything happens for a Lesson. Everything happens for a Season. There’s always a reason and a lesson in every season God allows you to walk through, it might be difficult or easy but He allows it for you to grow. Whatever season you’re facing right now, maybe… Continue reading Remember the Lesson
Open Letter To All Women Who desire To Be Loved
You Are Not An Easy-To-Get Type of a Girl Sometimes, your current age will give you pressure and desperation to be with someone else—hopefully it is not. Age is not a barometer of your love life. Just because you are in the mid-thirty idoesn’t mean you’re late or just because you are below twenties doesn’t… Continue reading Open Letter To All Women Who desire To Be Loved
10 things I’ve learned while being single
Things I’ve learned while being single: 1. Love yourself and always make your happiness your top priority. 2. Jealousy and Insecurities will kill you. Don’t feed your mind with negative thoughts. 3. Always praise yourself in front of the mirror; it’s not being vain. It’s appreciating yourself for what you’ve done/been through and… Continue reading 10 things I’ve learned while being single
PIGIL para hindi MATIGIL
Siguro kung may kwento man tayo, ang ikli lang. “LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT” tapos The End na. Hindi ba’t hanggang tingin lang din naman ako? Sana naman hindi na mauulit yung pag may minahal ako, ‘di ko na naman masabi na mahal ko yung tao at minahal ko siya. Yun bang lumipas na lamang ang… Continue reading PIGIL para hindi MATIGIL
Bakit wala kang jowa?
Because I’m not what they are looking for. Sometimes, I’m not enough. Most of the time, I’m too much. Because I haven’t found him yet. We haven’t met yet, or maybe we did. But God said, “the timing is not yet perfect”. Because I’m still finding myself. I’m still searching. Looking for answers. Because I’m… Continue reading Bakit wala kang jowa?
Don’t stir up love…until you’re ready!
You may be feeling left out at times dahil ikaw na lang ang nanatiling single sa barkada. Tipong naging sideline mo na ang pagiging thirdwheel at ilang kembot na lang eh gagawaran ka na ng parangal na “best taga-sana all ng taon”. Minsan naiisip mo “Bakit parang may latency sa love story ko? Nahihirapan… Continue reading Don’t stir up love…until you’re ready!
Para Sa Mga Single Pa Rin Hanggang Ngayon
Oo! Alam kong single ka pa. Pero sana alam mong okay lang yon. Sa panahon ngayon na naglipana ang dating apps, kasalanan na ang ‘di lumandi at ‘di magka-jowa. Sa panahon ngayon na lahat ng kaibigan mo ay in a relationship, kasalanan na ang mapag-iwanan ka. Sa panahon ngayon na pini-pressure ka ng lahat na… Continue reading Para Sa Mga Single Pa Rin Hanggang Ngayon
Hindi na Muli
Unti-unti na akong nasasanay sa mga malalamig mong reply. Unti-unti ko na din natutunan na wag ng maghintay. Sa mga “OK” mong sagot, na para bang napipilitan pa. Kahit na ang tanong ko naman ay kung “Kumain ka na ba?” Hindi na din ako magsesend ng mga Good Morning text. Hindi na din kita gagawan… Continue reading Hindi na Muli
To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before
Love is something that makes us feel right. It somehow keeps us going on a day-to-day basis. My experience of love was a roller coaster ride. As early as grade school, I remember I had my first crush. He’s cute. He has this dimples which makes him even more cuter. I clearly remember his… Continue reading To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before
There Is Something More In Being A Woman
You may not be able to meet a man who would give you the love you deserve. You might not be able to have a family of your own —have kids and woke up to a husband beside you. You might not win in the game called love, know that life does not end there.… Continue reading There Is Something More In Being A Woman
I miss you but I don’t want you back
The story of you & me was like forever. We have our own way of saying I love you. We have our handshake. We compliment each other – and that’s what looks us a perfect couple. We plan everything ahead of time, when something comes up, we talk about it real time. We explain each… Continue reading I miss you but I don’t want you back
My Prayers For You
My Prayers For You I pray that you will be contented of things you have now. I pray that you will continue to seek God whatever your situation. I pray that you will praise God in every season of your life. I pray that you will learn to be thankful every circumstances. I pray that… Continue reading My Prayers For You
Totoo Kaya Paano
ang sabi nga nila ay totoo kapag mahal mo ang isang tao kahit kailan,sa’n o ano pang ginagawa mo laman sya’ng tuwina ng isipan mo sa bawat awiting maririning mo lahat ay parang pa tungkol sa inyo ano mang akda’y hawig sa kwento ninyo sadya namang papasok siya sa isipan mo ngunit kung hindi siya… Continue reading Totoo Kaya Paano
Maybe
Maybe because she was left by the person whom she thought will be her future. No. Maybe it’s because her mom failed to find her own “happily ever after” cliché ending. Could it be because her sister failed to find someone who will never hurt her physically and emotionally? Oh right. She knows a lot… Continue reading Maybe
7 Years Alone
Alone but not lonely has always been the cliché that I’ve been wearing for 7 years. Yes 7 long years. Perhaps that sounds unbelievable to most. I am usually stereotyped as the picky, perfectionist and idealistic human. “Why (are you still single)?” “Are you still broken (from the previous relationship)?” “Are you waiting for someone?”… Continue reading 7 Years Alone
It took me a while before I finally learnt to love myself—again.
It didn’t happen overnight. It was a long process… of crying asking myself losing my self-esteem lowering my standards of crying again… forcing people to stay in my life losing people convincing myself I derserved every heartache I’m experiencing right now of finally realizing all of these are entirely false I woke up one day… Continue reading It took me a while before I finally learnt to love myself—again.