I can still remember the first time I drank a cup of coffee. The coffee was black; my first sip, bitter. Confused, I never understood why people, especially the older ones, loved to drink such a bitter liquid. But now that I’m in my mid-twenties, I couldn’t agree better to their sentiments. Unlike my first… Continue reading On Coffee, Trust and Second Chances
Category: Single
Singleness Is Not A Curse But A Blessing
One of the reasons why many of us are impatient to be with someone is because we think that singleness is not a blessing but a curse. We think that the long period of time of waiting is a punishment from God. As a matter of fact, it is not. Always remember that He is… Continue reading Singleness Is Not A Curse But A Blessing
Things To Cultivate Purposely As A Single Lady
Marahil, magaling ka nang magluto. The best na rin ang iyong organization skills as well as ang pagma-manage mo ng iyong time. Palagi ka ring mabango at presentable. Magaling ka pa sa mga bata. You have it all na, kumbaga, and you are wondering what else to learn during your prolonged season of singleness. You… Continue reading Things To Cultivate Purposely As A Single Lady
Overcome Inggit Towards People Na Taken Na
On your way papuntang mall to buy groceries, you saw this young teenage guy na naka-school uniform at pinapayungan si high school girl. In your mind, “Ano ba ‘yan, kababata pa, ang haharot na!” Sa may entrance ng mall naman, si Sir na naka-suit and attache case, inaalalayan sa braso si Ma’am na pretty at… Continue reading Overcome Inggit Towards People Na Taken Na
Believing
She glanced at his picture And all of a sudden, all those memories with him came rushing into her mind. Just like music instantly played out of the blue. And then there she goes again trying to make herself believe that he’s still with her.
Single and Secure
𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐓𝐫𝐮𝐭𝐡 𝐈𝐬: 𝐒𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐥𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐒𝐞𝐜𝐮𝐫𝐞 I know some people who are in a relationship, but are still suffering from a broken heart. I can’t count with one hand the broken marriages in this world. People are looking for satisfaction in a relationship and trying to find security in their partners. But the bigger truth… Continue reading Single and Secure
Alaala
Pag-ibig na ba? Nang una kitang Makita Pintig ng aking pusoy bumilis bigla Diko alam kung saan nagsimula Ito ba ay pag-ibig na? Bawat araw at oras na magdaan Ito’y aking laging inaasan-asam Makita kat masilayan man Lang, Para sa akin ay labis ng kagalakan. Ikot Ng aking mundoy iyong binago Lungkot at galit ay… Continue reading Alaala
Risks
I’ve been asking myself many times. Why? Why don’t you still have someone? Even though a lot of guys are checking you out, still why? Some were able to talk and communicate with you, get to know things about your likes and dislikes. Yet when someone is expressing themselves how they wanted to know you… Continue reading Risks
Valentine’s day na, mag isa ka parin ba?
Napaisip ka nanaman ba? Anong kulang at mag isa ka nanaman? Mag aaraw nanaman ng mga puso At heto nanaman tayo mag sasana all sa mga mag jowang makakasalubong sa daan. Isang tanong na alam kong hindi tama ngunit di maiwasang pumasok sa isipan. Bakit kailangan may masaktan? Bakit kailangan may mangiiwan at iiwanan? Kaya di masisi… Continue reading Valentine’s day na, mag isa ka parin ba?
Ang Alamat ng Single
Ang Alamat ng Single Noong unang panahon, sa di kalayuang lugar, like jan lang sa kabilang kanto, may isang babae na ang pangalan ay Gel. Si Gel ay maganda. Makinang ang kanyang mga mata. Ang eyeballs nya ay kumukutikutitap, bumusi-busilak. Ang kanyang buhok ay makintab, parang bagong rebond. Ang kutis nya ay ‘sing puti ng… Continue reading Ang Alamat ng Single
Pwede pero Depende
Ito ang mga natatanging repleksyun ng mga dalaga na matagal na mula nung huling nagmahal. Karamihan tinatawag silang strong independent women. Kaya naman kung isa kang binata na gustong mapa-oo ang isang strong independent woman (with a heart) baka sakaling makatulong ito. Sa totoo lang pwede naman na kasi. Handa na sya, hindi man handa… Continue reading Pwede pero Depende
Ready Ka Na Pero Single Pa Rin
Maybe you’re asking this question right now or have been struggling with this thought for some time now. Or maybe…you’re bombarded with these crazy questions & statements from your “usosero at usoserang” friends and relatives; 1. Bakit single ka pa? Choosy ka no?2. Mamatay kang single dahil sa mga standards mong yan!3. Wala ka bang… Continue reading Ready Ka Na Pero Single Pa Rin
Let Love Find You
Let Love Find You Don’t be afraid of people leaving you behind Let them go if they want to. Stop Chasing for someone who let go of your hands. Stop looking for someone you taught- “he might be the one.” Stop searching for someone you have read about or seen on movies you have watched… Continue reading Let Love Find You
You’re the Sunflower
Totoo Naman
Sabi nila, sa isang punto ng buhay natin, mayroong darating na makakapagpabago ng lahat ng bagay sa buhay natin. Yung tipong counter clockwise yung pag-ikot ng mundo natin pero gagawin niyang clockwise. Kung dati-rati ang laman lang ng inbox natin ay mga text ng parents natin, NDRRMC (o kadalasan naman ay wala), ngayon mga text… Continue reading Totoo Naman
Dear you,
Dear you, The first love. When I saw you, I felt nothing, when I met you, I felt a tingle, when we bonded, I felt everything. I have always had feelings for you, and I probably always will. I saw myself in you, we had so much in common. We were a perfect match, everybody… Continue reading Dear you,
Sa Isang kasal kailan pa nag hintay si Bride kay Groom.
Girl! much better na ikaw ang hinihintay kesa Ikaw ang nag hintay
Self-worth
Your worth
Soloista Travel Realizations
#TravelRealizations #lifelessons #lifequotes #lessonsofSagada #dailyreminders >Carry what you can only carry..the lighter the better >Don’t be too fast…you’ll get easily exhausted >Focus on your path but don’t forget to enjoy the view >Breathe.Take rest if you must! Never feel guilty about it >Sometimes your ahead of them.. sometimes you have to follow.. >Be calm and… Continue reading Soloista Travel Realizations
Minsan
Minsan, ang sugat na dinanas natin Kasalanan din pala natin. Nung dapat sana huminto Tayo’y nag patuloy Nung alam na nating delikado Tayo’y sumubok. Nung Nakita nating mali Tayo’y nakisapi. Minsan, hindi din naman natin sadya. Hindi mo kasi alam na wala na ang hinihintay mo. Hindi moa lam na baluktot Dahil sa mga… Continue reading Minsan
“My Desired Unsuitable Black Shirt”
At first glance, I thought you were fit for me, because you’ve possessed this rare design that caught my desire, but when I came to you, another hand took a hold and caught you first. There, I stopped and stared, I had realized that you were not suit for me, for you were made for someone… Continue reading “My Desired Unsuitable Black Shirt”
Hanggang Doon Na Lang
May isang tao rin ba na sa tuwing nakikita mo siya e biglang sumasaya ang malungkot mong mood? Na sa isang ngiti nya lang, isang hello, isang kamusta, e mabubuo na ang iyong araw? Kahit nga sa isang sulyap lang sa kanya, magbibigay ngiti na agad un sayo. Sa bawat saya na naidudulot niya ay… Continue reading Hanggang Doon Na Lang
NEVER AGAIN (A pledge to myself)
If I was that girl who’s easily fall in love, Never again. If I was that girl who’s easily get hurt, Never again. If I was that girl who used to chat you first, Never again. If I was that girl who left God and put you first in line, Never again. If I was… Continue reading NEVER AGAIN (A pledge to myself)
This time, I’m choosing myself
When I was a kid, I used to believe I am everyone’s heroine; that with my own strength I can save the world. Fearless as I am, when someone is in need or when those I love was been hurt by someone, whether the concern person is younger or older than me, I will go… Continue reading This time, I’m choosing myself
Mahal Ko: Hindi Pa Kita Kilala Pero Para Sayo ‘To
This is an open letter to my future love. I don’t know who you are (or maybe, I already do). I don’t know where you are right now, but I am sure of one thing, the Lord is preparing your heart for me. And one day, when I finally get to meet you, I can… Continue reading Mahal Ko: Hindi Pa Kita Kilala Pero Para Sayo ‘To
Loving Myself Before Loving You
Love cannot only be felt through others but it can also be felt from within. Self love is very important. Before I can fully commit to the one whom God has sent me, I must first appreciate my worth as God’s beloved warrior princess. The waiting game may not be as easy as I can… Continue reading Loving Myself Before Loving You
Now is What Matters
The kind of discipline you want to have when you are older.. Learn it NOW. The good habits you want to have when you are living on your own and no one’s taking care of you anymore.. Do them NOW. The kind of person you want to become when you already tied the knot.. Be… Continue reading Now is What Matters
I Am Not Easy
Just because I am single doesn’t mean any guy can make a pass at me. Just because I am reaching my 30’s doesn’t mean I feel desperate to enter a relationship. Respect. Dignity. Purity. How many women tend to forget to keep these three virtues by rushing into a hot passionate relationship just to fill… Continue reading I Am Not Easy
Sorry, I panicked.
Sorry. “Bakit ka ba single?” Kasi umatras ako. Kasalanan ko. ‘Di dahil bawal, ‘di dahil walang manliligaw, ‘di dahil puso ko’y naliligaw. Single ako kasi ako ang umayaw. Alam ko kung anong pakiramdam ng inlove. Masaya, parang kompleto ka dahil sa mga ngiti niya. Sino bang ayaw ma-inlove? Meron na akong chance na magkaroon ng… Continue reading Sorry, I panicked.
No Problem Kung Single Ka At Masaya
Alam kong masaya ka. Huwag mo silang pakinggan kung sinasabi nila na may mali sa’yo dahil wala kang lalaking best friend. Kulang ka sa landi. Mali sila. Kung mas komportable kang babae ang kaibigan, go ka lang. Kung ayaw mo pa ng gulo na dulot ng isang relasyon, ayos lang. Hindi lahat ng single gusto… Continue reading No Problem Kung Single Ka At Masaya