Love is so complicated when you just let your emotions control you and hit you big time. You hope too much for the person and expect so much in return resulting to heartaches and bitterness especially that love is not reciprocated in return. But why is it that most people are stuck in that kind of situation where in fact most people are avoiding it?
Are you one of those people that are known to be “marupok” in terms of love? Do you know what makes you become like them? Well, what I am trying to tell you may hurt you BIG TIME but you need to know this. I have a good news and bad news for you. Good news is, that’s why you become “marupok” because you keep looking and searching for love. It is not actually bad, it’s good because humans are wired for these. But the bad news is, you are looking and searching for love in the wrong places, wrong timing, wrong perspective and the saddest is, wrong person.
Just because they tell you that the feeling is magical, then you need to find someone in an instant, in a magical way. Voila! And there it is. What is sad about it is, instant relationship leads to instant baby. Instant boyfriend/girlfriend resulting to instant family. Instant relationship fades instantly.
So wait patiently not for your perfect mate but for God’s perfect timing. You know what, nothing worth having is easy. So if you are in a situation right now that you are having a hard time, praise God and have faith, God is not blind not to see nor deaf not to hear your prayers. God doesn’t want His children to suffer, feeling unwanted, feeling unloved. Remember that you are fearfully and wonderfully made, that you are loved, maybe not by your crush or the person you loved the most but you are perfectly loved by the King despite your imperfections.
Jesus loves you more than anyone else.☝️
Romans 5:8 But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.