You Are Not An Easy-To-Get Type of a Girl
Sometimes, your current age will give you pressure and desperation to be with someone else—hopefully it is not. Age is not a barometer of your love life. Just because you are in the mid-thirty idoesn’t mean you’re late or just because you are below twenties doesn’t mean you are early. There is no particular age in the Bible that speaks the best time to be in a relationship. However, it encourages you not to rush and follow your heart. “Do not arouse or awaken love until the time is right” (Song of Songs 2:7).
You are not an easy-to-get type of a girl but a worth-pursuing-princess kind of a woman.
How many young women’s hearts had been broken because they are in a hurry to be with somebody’s arm? How many women preferred to be single until now at their age due to the pain from their past relationship? Remember, you are not too late to be with someone else. God has perfect timing for your love life and sometimes different from your timetable.
Your Heart Is A Treasure
Just because you are available it doesn’t mean your heart is always accessible.
I pray that your heart will be captured by Christ so that you will truly know and understand what love means. Through that, you can clearly distinguish who loves you truthfully and you will not fall to someone who will only break your heart in the future. Learn not to hand over your heart easily to another person’s hand for it is a treasure for someone that God meant for you.
Falling for someone who quickly says that he loves you the first time he meets you is a no-no, because God will lead you to the man who will love you for who you are, a man with honor, conviction, and a word. A man who will try his best to keep his promises. A man who will fight to achieve your agreed dreams and will always encourage you to have faith because your God is big.
You Are Designed For Joy
You are made for a reason. You have a purpose. God didn’t created you to be broken by someone who doesn’t care about your feelings. He made you to experience joy in the fullest by giving you a man who will take care of you, pray for you, encourage you, and remind you that what the both of you need is Christ.
God created you neither as an object to be used nor a thing to be toyed but a person to be loved, respected, and appreciated.
One day you will find a man who’ll love you for who you are. Even though you think that you are not beautiful enough for somebody, there will be a man who will accept your flaws and room-for-improvement-character. A man who will stare at you and will be very proud of himself because he found a greatest treasure on earth. A man who will never compare you to the other girls because for him you are a priceless jewel he has for his life.
So, my hope is that you will be patient to wait for God because He will give you someone who will always be ready to carry you when your knees are tired. Someone who will always say you are beautiful the moment you wake up. Someone who will always give his wonderful smile that speaks how beautiful you are.
There is no more reassuring how valuable women are when they know they are securedin Christ. Trusting God’s timing is the best thing you can do now as a single. “If it seems slow in coming, wait patiently, for it will surely take place. It will not be delayed” (Hab. 2:3). God does not delay to give the desires of your heart and in answering your prayer. He is not slow to fulfill His promises.
