To wait is the hardest thing to do. In a generation where everything is instant, from noodles to coffee we all want what we are wanting in a matter of seconds. But to wait for a person is the most difficult wait of them all because you can only do one thing which is to, you guessed it WAIT.
You told her everything, your plans to pursue her and that you will wait for her no matter how long it takes. Yet you have this feeling inside you that it’s as if you have accomplished nothing. But if we take a hard look at why we are having a hard time waiting, it’s because we only think of ourselves and our current state. We neglect to give any consideration to what she is going through or has gone through in the past in terms of relationships. Maybe she’s still in a season of healing and here we wanting to speed up that process so that we can fulfil our own wants.
A preacher once said that “The right thing at the wrong time is a disaster waiting to happen.” It’s like giving an eight-year-old kid a sports car. If she does say Yes to you but she isn’t fully healed you can expect that you will not get the best version of her because she is still broken. If we as men truly see the value of the woman we want to pursue then we must allow God to heal her first, for it is only Him who can.
If you are waiting for her and you feel like giving up, let me tell you this, my friend SHE IS WORTH THE WAIT. A Queen is worth waiting for. What are two years of waiting compared to a lifetime with your Queen? Ask yourself that question.
Love is not a race, it’s a journey where you allow God to moud both of you for a lifetime with each other. If you are waiting then you are in a good position to learn, to grow, and to be molded by God himself.
but they who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles; they shall run and not be weary; they shall walk and not faint.
Isaiah 40:31 ESV