Fall inlove without loosing yourself

Psychologically speaking, women are more emotional than men. That’s why kitang-kita sa mukha natin kapag in-love tayo. We become more clingy and showy in our own way.
Sobra-sobra tayong magmahal to the point na lahat ibibigay natin kahit wala ng matira para sa ating sarili.
We are always ready to say “yes” even if it’s not comfortable for us and even though, it can compromise our faith.
It doesn’t please God that our only reason is because “Mahal ko kasi siya.”
Well, I’ve been there and I let them cross my boundaries and I admit, that’s why I’m hurting.

Learn to say NO because saying no is still form of love.
First, you are preventing that person from committing a sin and second you are gaining self-respect.
And lastly, you are giving yourself boundaries.
Hindi dahil mahal mo siya ay oo lang tayo ng oo kahit hindi ka masaya at alam mo na hindi mo ito ikaka-grow as a person.

Stop losing yourself in the relationship that you are in.
Know your limits and your worth as a woman.
Learn to set boundaries
You can build dreams with someone
You can fall in love without breaking and losing yourself.

✍Claydine Llante

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