Matatapos na ang taon, ang tanong…may mga good habits ka ba na nabuild na makakahelp sa relationship journey mo? Or same-same lang? Consider these tips that we learn from our community at sa mga bad stories that we heard: 1. Be Your Own Heroine: Self-Care First! Keep your identity, passions, and goals. You are more… Continue reading 7 Relationship Habits You Need to Start Doing
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Hoping But Not Expecting
About two years ago, I made a conscious decision to close my heart to romance. The countless rejections and heartbreaks I had experienced in the past had turned my once soft and marupok heart into something akin to a block of ice. I became numb and incapable of feeling love or attraction towards anyone. Although… Continue reading Hoping But Not Expecting
Sana Ikaw na nga
Sana Ikaw na nga. Sana Ikaw na Yung matagal ko Ng hinihintay… Kung kinasasabikan Kong Makita,makilala at makasama Sana Ikaw na nga Yung tugon sa mga panalangin ko. Sana Ikaw na nga Yung magpapatibok Ng puso ko. Sana Ikaw na nga Yung magpapangiti at sa akin ay magpapasaya. Sana Ikaw na nga Yung makakasama ko… Continue reading Sana Ikaw na nga
I Feel Like I’m ready…But Am I?
God, I feel like I’m ready… but am I? You see everything and I know you have the perfect. man for me at the right time. As days go by, id always think now amazing my future partner will be knowing that it was given by you. If I am not ready, help me to… Continue reading I Feel Like I’m ready…But Am I?
To my first Unicorn…
Who would’ve thought that I’d meet someone so memorable on a dating app? As an introverted female with a work from home setup, a homebody, and a limited social life, I tried my luck on different dating apps to no avail. Maybe online dating is not for me, I’ve decided to quit when June arrives.… Continue reading To my first Unicorn…
To My Almost
It’s still fresh to me how everything started between the two of us. I can still remember how epic fail it was and how timely you came in into my life. I am happy you came. I love how much time you spent with me and your word “basta ikaw” is very comforting. I feel… Continue reading To My Almost
29 Years
Turning 30 end of this year. Adulting is indeed hard. As I reminisce with the past 29 years, I can say that I have really lived well. I had a lot of good and bad experiences as well as mistakes, conscious mistakes. My life has been a mixture of fun and adventure, of challenges, of… Continue reading 29 Years
NON EXCLUSIVE
Would you ever date a guy who ask for non exclusivity but consistently sees you everytime.
Vacation Romances Don’t Last
Thoughts flowing early in the morning Until very late in the evening. Endless seas of white And blue bubbles and pings. Who thought that you from a different nation Could hold deep conversations. Sixteen hours of flight Turned into a great delight. Escaped from dating app to real life To finally see your brown eyes.… Continue reading Vacation Romances Don’t Last
Anong Gagawin After Niya Biglang Tumigil Manligaw Sayo?
Acknowledge your emotions. Masaktan ka kung masaktan ka. Talk it out. It’s your chance to use that speed dial. Grieve well. Okay lang mag-on repeat ng kanta ng December Avenue.Remember your worth. You are more than another person’s decision. You both are only human. You also have your own share of pain caused to another.… Continue reading Anong Gagawin After Niya Biglang Tumigil Manligaw Sayo?
San nga ba tayo nagsimula?
Nagsimula sa pagpapakilala ng mga pangalan, nagkakulitan nagkapalitan ng mga pangalan, sa pangalan nagsimula pangalang pinagmulan ng pagmamahalan matatag. Nagkatawagan, nagkapalitan ng mensahe araw araw inaabot ng gabi gabi, pagkukukulitang nauwi sa asaran, asarang pinagmulan ng storyang kay ganda. Unti – Unti nagkakamabutihan at nagkakaseryosohan pangalang pinagmulan napalitan ng pagmamahalang sinubok at tinakda ng panahon.… Continue reading San nga ba tayo nagsimula?
Opposites Did Attract
You’ve always loved the morning dawns…. but I am a bigger fan of sunsets’ differing hues. You like your Milktea with those extra chewy pearls while I always order a cup of cold brew Americano. You are fond of counting the sparkly stars, of pointing the Orion and the Big Dipper… while I simply enjoy… Continue reading Opposites Did Attract
Mga tulang nakakabighani
Gumagawa ako ng tatlong tula lamang sa isang linggo sapagkat pinagiisipan ko talagang mabuti ang aking ginagawang tula at naghahanap ako ng inspirasyon para dito ninanais ko at sinisigurado ko na akin talaga ang mga tula na inilathala ko. Ninanais ko kasing gayahin ang aking mga tula na katulad sa mga tula ng ating pambansang… Continue reading Mga tulang nakakabighani
Thoughts in My Mid 20’s: This Is Not A Contest of Who Dated More
Ever since I bought my mom a new phone, I constantly hear her watching Raffy Tulfo’s Youtube channel. To be honest, it’s funny hearing about other people arguing about their personal life publicly because that is something I am afraid to do. The topic here is not actually about how funny people are, I brought… Continue reading Thoughts in My Mid 20’s: This Is Not A Contest of Who Dated More
Kahapon, Ngayon at Bukas
Kay tagal ko nang naghihintay ng pag-ibig na magpaparamdam sa akin ng tunay na kaligayahan. Yung klase ng pag-ibig na pang-wakas na talaga, hindi yung panandaliang ligaya. Sa panahon ngayon, napakahirap makahanap ng taong mamahalin ka ng tunay at iibigin ka ng walang kapalit. Yun ang pangarap ng marami. Pero ito ba ay tama? Sa… Continue reading Kahapon, Ngayon at Bukas
Yay Mumo!
Sabi mo ako’y iyong gusto na di mo kayang mawala ako, pero ano ba’to bigla kang naglaho, ni ha? ni ho? Walandyo! Dati hanggang magtago ang haring araw ay kausap mo pa ako pero san ka na nga ba? di pa ako nakakabilang hanggang tatlo tinaguan mo na agad ako! Nasayang lang load ko na… Continue reading Yay Mumo!
My Prayer For All The Single Ladies
I pray that you will be the woman God wants you to be and that you will enjoy your singleness.I pray that you will learn to enjoy your process while waiting.I pray that you will enjoy how God is molding you and preparing you for the future.In this season of your life, I know it’s… Continue reading My Prayer For All The Single Ladies
To the Person Who Refused to Love Me Back, It’s Okay.
I’m sorry, it took me a while to set my mind straight. Anxiety and confusion has been a handful for me to carry these past few days. But in case you might wonder how it was for me.. i’m okay even after knowing you refused to love me back. If my intentions do not spark… Continue reading To the Person Who Refused to Love Me Back, It’s Okay.
On Coffee, Trust and Second Chances
I can still remember the first time I drank a cup of coffee. The coffee was black; my first sip, bitter. Confused, I never understood why people, especially the older ones, loved to drink such a bitter liquid. But now that I’m in my mid-twenties, I couldn’t agree better to their sentiments. Unlike my first… Continue reading On Coffee, Trust and Second Chances
My Dating App Story
I want to close this season of my life that’s why I’m writing this to share my story. Before anything else, I want to clarify na hindi masama gumamit ng dating applications if you’re not into Netflix and Tiktok especially this Enhanced Community Quarantine lalo na if you’re living alone and wanted to talk to… Continue reading My Dating App Story
Two Important Questions Bago Buksan ang Puso: For Ladies
After years of being a strong, independent woman, you’ve finally decided that you would no longer just be single anymore, but that you would now start to be active and go mingle-galore. Congratulations! But before mo buksan ang iyong sarili, lalo na ang iyong puso, for a romantic relationship, ask yourself these questions muna: 1)… Continue reading Two Important Questions Bago Buksan ang Puso: For Ladies
Bumalik tayo sa simula
Bumalik tayo sa simula, bago natin nakilala ang isa’t-isa
Because you’re worth the risk
I have been a risk taker before but not for relationships. Everything changed and you’re the best risk I ever took. We’ve been friends and maybe mere acquaintances before. Actually, we’ve been classmates in high school and time passed by, it stayed the same. Recently, everything changed for me and I’m confident to say it’s… Continue reading Because you’re worth the risk
Bumitiw
I have so much respect to people na bumitiw. Hindi sa mga taong bumitiw lang dahil ‘may iba na’ o di kaya ‘wala ng kelangan dun sa tao’, pero bumitiw dahil alam niyang kelangan na. Yung sobrang mahal niya yung tao, madaming memories, madaming late night and morning convos, in short NAKAPAG- INVEST ng malaki.… Continue reading Bumitiw
Five Things I Tell Singles who asks “Am I Ready for a Relationship?”
This question has been the conversation in the minds of a lot of single people out there – whether young or old alike. And it indeed is a valid question as I and a lot of other leaders and pastors have been asked the same one in different variations over and over again. This entry has been inspired by… Continue reading Five Things I Tell Singles who asks “Am I Ready for a Relationship?”
Paano Mo Malalaman Kung na-“Zombieing” Ka Na
Tips Paano Mo Malalaman Kung na-“Zombieing” Ka Na Isa sa mga deadly moves ng mga immature na tao ang “Zombieing”. Hindi tulad ng “Ghosting” na bigla silang magpaparamdam nung una at pagkatapos ay biglang mawawala na parang multo, ang “Zombieing” naman ay di ka bibigyan ng chance to move on dahil bigla silang bumabalik sa… Continue reading Paano Mo Malalaman Kung na-“Zombieing” Ka Na
Dating the Right Person
Throughout the rest of this article, we’ll look at four principles that will help you choose the right person, be the right person, and develop healthy relationships. Connection A relationship is first and foremost about emotional connection. Our attachments to others are called “bonds,” and they are created and maintained by someone’s ability to share… Continue reading Dating the Right Person
Wag All Out! Set Boundaries!
Boundaries Another important aspect of a relationship is to respect each other’s personal boundaries. A boundary is a property line that defines where you end, and someone else begins. Good relationships have a high degree of respect for each person respecting the other’s “person.” One way you can tell someone respects your boundaries, is whether… Continue reading Wag All Out! Set Boundaries!