“HE/SHE’S A PART OF IT”
They say “You are responsible of your own feelings and expectations. No one is forcing you to feel that, to expect that.”
Yes. It’s true!
But come to think of it.
That particular person, he/she made a PART of it.
You won’t feel anything, if hindi sya dumating sa buhay mo. If wala syang sinabi o ginawa for you to feel/expect something.
Minsan nahuhulog tayo because THAT PERSON are saying and doing something you crave in a relationship or a partner. Hindi nabubuo ang expectation if walang basis, walang pinagmulan.
Either pinaasa ka o inintertain ka.
It’s okay to BLAME him/her. Kasi hindi ka naman magmamahal kung ikaw lang mag isa.
Expectations are natural. Your human.
**Ross