Hold On, Know Your Partner, and Trust God

Truly I can say to all readers: MAHIRAP MALAMAN KUNG SIYA NA BA ANG PARA SA IYO.

Sometimes, our paths can cross with someone who can be gentle, loving and almost our perfect choice. Minsan naman, doon tayo sa intimidating, obssessed, and paasa. When we encounter these kind of people, madali tayong mag-conclude kung “siya na” or “hindi pa”.

Just because s/he’s kind, sweet, and caring masasabi agad natin na “OMG s/he’s the one for me na!”. Maybe, that will be the shallow part of their personality, or maybe not. Paano kapag dumating na sa trials and struggles, or nagkaroon ng misunderstanding and conflicts, wala na? All your dreams crumbled and turned to ashes na? Ititigil niyo na relationship niyo dahil nagkaroon ng gulo?

Jumping to conclusions, are way more than what we think of. Kapag nagsisimula palang, edi nagsisimula! Accept every bit of their attitude. Masungit, matakaw, sweet, clingy, etc. Ginusto mo siya, binigyan mo siya ng chance, then bakit ka magsettle sa shallow part lang ng pagkatao niya? You can work things out. I can’t promise that, pero it’s not bad to give it a try. Go deeper, seek for more, pero never do this ALONE. It’s a warning. Make sure na kayong dalawa ang may intention na gawin ito. *wink*

Anyways, don’t always depend on destiny. Pray din tayo mga umaasa, paasa, single and taken. Let’s seek if Will ba ni God ang relationship niyo. Ask God to favour your relationship, ask Him to be on the center for you to be guided. Tell God kung sino ang gusto mo. Be specific when telling God. Be honest sa details. Like, “God mahal ko po siya, pero may mahal pa siyang iba.” Masyadong frank noh? Totoo kasi!

Based on my experience, I treasure my relationship too much to the point na, mas gusto ko siyang kasama kaysa Kay God. Ready ako ibigay ang 99% na buhay ko kay God, basta ang 1% na siya ang nilalaman ay sa akin lang. But, ayaw ni God ng 99%! Ang gusto niya is yung pinaka pinanghahawakan natin. Chills! Mahirap talaga! Well yun nga, as I seek God’s Kingdom narealize ko na it’s better to love God more than anything. To be honest, the relationship I have right now is so complicated. Nag-uusap sila ng ex niya “as friends” daw, pero I have no right to go through that. So sa labas lang ako. Waiting. Asking God for guidance. Ready to let go if God says so. Ganun talaga. Kahit naman ipilit ko, it will lead to nowhere.

So yun nga, wag tayo masyadong palamon sa thoughts natin. We may have doubts, we can be anxious, but the important thing is to trust our partners. And most of all to trust God. Tsaka as I said, wag tayo mahihiyang mag sabi ng desire natin kay God. Sabi nga sa John 15:7 if you remain in me and my words remain in you, ask whatever you wish for and it will be done to you. Wag matigas ulo. When God says “let go”, you let go. It hurts and it will include enduring, but at the end of the day, you will thank God for telling you to let go.

Hold on, Know Your Partner, and Trust God.

Fighting!