Being single in a singles world is bearable but to be single be while everyone around you has a partner especially those people who are close to you is not(with matching tears). It takes a lot of courage and more strength to be with them. Some would say eh di wag kang sumama! pero paano kung sila lang yung accountability group mo?Uunahin mo pa ba yang feeling kawawa mo kesa sa ikakalago ng kaluluwa mo? e di no choice ka..hehe… Instead of feeling envy while with this people, learn from them, discover yourself through them and know what kind of relationship you would want to have when the right person comes. There’s no need for pity party, yes you can cry and ask God why you’re still single at bakit wala pa si Mr. Right/Ms. Right but that would not help you, instead enjoy and trust God with your season. Habang busy ako nakiki-3rdwheel, 5th wheel, 7th wheel up to the nth power eto na-realize ko….

  1. Accept the fact that you’re single hindi dahil sa pangit ka kundi kailangan mong pagdaanan talaga. Hindi pwedeng lumagpas may process yan…
  2. Find joy in the Lord. Huwag palinlang sa nararamdaman..
  3. Hayaan mong ang tao sa paligid mo ang ma-pressure para sayo
    1. -Yes, madaming pressure yan mga isang sako..hahah..kelan dito, kelan dyan ang laging tanong, pakilala si ganito, pakilala si ganyan hay naku madaming nabiktima dyan, na-pressure at nag-decide na lang basta basta kahit di pasok sa standards sige na dyan pressured na eh..haha ayan tuloy ang bagsak naging luhaan
  4. Trust God’s process and cling to his promises
    1. only God knows when is the right time for you to meet the person that He is preparing for you pero habang wala pa mag-grow ka muna as an individual person, ipunin at i-meditate mo lahat ng promises sa ng Lord sa buhay mo para when loneliness comes may word na pinanghahawakan ka. 🙂

 

Yes, I may be single now, but I have a great relationship with The King and I know where I stand 🙂

Warriors! galingan natin maging single and learn everything that God wants us to learn and when the time is right it will come 🙂