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Hello BW just wanna share my experience about a guy I meet in Facebook dating. I am 33 turning 34, honestly sobrang pressured na ako sa buhay single, 7 years na akong single at 7 years na rin na malamig ang pasko. Fast forward– about the guy I meet sa Facebook Dating, this guy hook my attention by sending this phrases “Hello, alpha female, 33, single, mataas siguro standards mo” and it all started our walang humpay na palitan ng messages, mirroring same attitude. One time, nag open up ako about mas gusto ko na lang magkaanak kesa magkaasawa and he responce “I volunteer”. Mabait si guy, until I noticed one thing about him, hindi sya tumatanggap ng pagkakamali at ayaw nya na pinapakilaman sya kumbaga ” his life, his rules. There’s one thing I did na hindi nya nagustuhan. He punishes me for not talking to me until hindi ko maretrieve yong messages na naremove which is nasabi ko na rin naman kung ano yon. Hanggang sa nagbago yong pakikitungo nya saken. I tried many times to say sorry and reconcile, hanggang sa naging cold na sya na nagcause para mag overthink ako. He didn’t say anything, I tried my part para maging okay kami kase pinaramdam nya saken there’s something more between us. Until nag open up ako how I feel about him but he hang me, there’s one message na lalong nagpagulo sa utak ko “Napanaginipan ko sya na malungkot sya” that time I feel heavy about sa mga responsibilities ko, inopen ko sa kanya– we exchange messages I told him na reverse yong panaginip ko na ako yong malungkot and he says “That’s why malungkot ako sa tabi mo” confirming na malungkot sya kase malungkot ako. Akala ko magiging okay ulit kami, not until, I saw his profile picture sa Facebook with a new girl. I feel so devastated until now, he left me with so much question kase pinaramdam nya saken na worth it ako. I tried so many times to DTR, sinabi ko pa na if wala ng chance na maging okay kami iUnfriend nya ako sa Facebook but he never did.
Engineer if ever mafeatured dito sa BW what I shared, I don’t understand, alam ko walang “TAYO” but I deserve an explanation. Hindi ko alam kung may galit akong nararamdaman sayo. You know what I’ve been through sa past relationship ko. I’ve been good to you, alam ko alam mo yan. What I did wrong is that, I disobeyed your rules but if there’s other woman sana inopen mo saken the day na sinubukan kong makipag reconcile sayo. Maiintindihan ko kahit masakit. Hindi ko maintindihan, anong kasalanan ko sayo para saktan mo ako?
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