Not until I met Him..
Here’s to my family, friends, colleagues , church mate and to all the people who have known me for a fact that I am still single and already reaching that 32 years of age. Yep I am a girl and nearly over that calendar age limit .
Really, I do understand that you’re just worried of me being alone, of my body clock ticking fast and of me not being happy.
But Just STOP
Stop pushing me to find that partner you want, I am not alone and I won’t ever enter a relationship just for the sake of it.
Stop telling me I am old and I need to settle down, yes I am old but I won’t settle for anything less than what I deserve.
Stop showing me that you are more of a complete person than I am. No, no one is ever complete and perfect, its how you define the word itself.
Stop telling me that it is happier to be in a relationship because I am telling you right now those I know of personally who have been in a relationship or into a relationship , cried more tears than I have, have been hurt more than mine.
Stop telling me I will not be able to fulfill the purpose of womanhood if I will not enter a relationship. I can proudly say I am more of a mother and father than those who had their child of their own but was not man or woman enough to stand to be a parent for them
Yes I am Single, 32 years old and have never enter a relationship before. Yes I am old but I am still a child thats wants to explore the world. I am that woman who who would want to use her wings far and beyond.
I don’t want to settle into someone because people are just dictating it. I need someone who would accept me for who I am. Someone that would help me spread my wings. That someone that would stay beside me. I know I will him at the right time at the right place.
