HHWW, Love letters, good morning and goodnight texts, hatid-sundo memes, i-love-you-i-miss-you liners, flowers, chocolates, teddy bears, so romantic but Wala pa ako nyan… for now… Ang lovelife ng Princess Warrior parang war without the battlefield, fight lang ng fight kahit wala pa yung taong handang makipaglaban para sa sa iyo. But No worries, now na parating na ang big V day, I wanna share to you some effective insights in making your Big VDay to a day so full of LOVE. So mga Princess Warriors, settle back, relax and read!
1. Set a positive attitude on the Vday. Meaning wag bitter. Di naman kasalanan ng flowers, chocolates, teddy bears, loveletters and harana groups na kumalat on that day. They are representations of love. It does not mean na kapag wala kang nareceive or walang nagbigay walang nagmamahal sayo. We have 365 days in a year. Think of all those persons who are always there for you kahit hindi VDay. They too are your representations of love.
2. Celebrate! Always remember that VDay is the day of love. Plan a breakfast, lunch, merienda, dinner or coffee/milktea breaks with your family, with your officemates, with your friends, with your pets. Or do something to pamper yourself on that day. Do not go into the cliche thinking that only couples could date. Live Life and Love Life. We only have one lifetime. Celebrate!
3. Share You. Honor someone or somebody that day. Make it a happy day for them. Send them some love representations or words of appreciation. Wait lang ha no misinterpretations baka si crushie naiisip nyo. Dig deeper my Princess Warriors. This is also the time to make someone happy by sharing you in giving. So go and give something unexpectedly to the stressed and effective secretary, the mababait na guards na lagi kang pinagoopen ng doors or ung kapitbahay nyo na laging nakikipagusap sayo. Appreciate! Love is also giving.
4. Always Pray. Unlimited ito. Ano man religion or spirituality belief ang meron sayo, we all have one common expression – prayers sa ibat ibang paraan. As Princess Warriors, this is our strongest weapon. Di mu na need ng unlock codes or to pass difficult levels to be able to do this. Have a grateful and determined heart. Love is God and God is Love!
Most of the times we forget our worth because of what society dictates for us. Let us be Princess Warriors that decides for our own happiness and well-being. Wag Pokmaru this Vday! Don’t be afraid to face and overcome your fears or heartaches. Hoping your VDay can mean so much more than the romance that it represents. So go and conquer my Princess Warriors! Go Love and Let Love! Godspeed!
-Ella May L. Catapang