Why Do People Who Loved The Most Felt The Most Pain?

Falling in love is the most magical feeling between two people. Love and pain are twins. You cannot call it love without experiencing pain. Falling in love is accepting the flaws of each other.

Love is unpredictable. It can be sappyㅡsad and happy at the same time. Loving someone wholeheartedly and fully is good and sometimes, it can also be bad. You tend to get hurt a lot if you don’t love yourself first, before giving your all to the one you love.

Why do people who loved the most, felt the most pain? We get hurt, because we love and trust too much without even knowing that loving and trusting too much, can hurt us, so much. When you love, the pain will always come up and the choice is yours whether you give up or endure the pain. Getting hurt means taking the precise chances.

Some people say that staying is the proof of loving. Yes, that is correct. But, will you still stay if you were the only one fighting and working for your relationship? The only one, loving? Just to prove to everyone that you were strong? I disagree. Dear, if that happens, please don’t be a martyr. If that was the scenario, therefore, staying isn’t the definition of being strong. Because, not all the people who appreciates being preserved and not all that remains are appreciated. It is better for you to let go. Because if you chose to stay, it will be difficult for you to leave and moved on. It is better for you to just let go. Let go of the things that makes you sad. It’s difficult in the beginning, but you’ll get used to it.

At some point, we need to get hurt in order for us to learn and for us to be firmer and stronger than before. You should love yourself too, because at the end of the day, the only person who will gonna be next to you is you only. It takes time to heal a broken heart. Days, weeks, months, years? I know, you can make it.