To you who are experiencing pain, heartbreak, sinayang, nasaktan, hindi napahalagahan, iniwan. Don’t think of your self less, don’t think na hindi ka enough. That’s a lie.
Kung pakiramdam mo hindi ka kamahal mahal or worthless ka, stop it. Maybe napunta ka lang sa isang sitwasyon kung saan ipinaramdam sayong hindi ka sapat. But siz, you are enough. Baka napunta ka lang sa maling tao at hindi mo kasalanang hindi ka naging sapat para sa kanya. Because we will never be enough to the wrong person.
Kahit kailan ay hindi tayo magiging sapat sa maling tao. At kahit pa ipag pilitan mo, kung hindi para sayo, hindi para sayo.
Huwag mo na habulin ang taong ayaw naman mag pahabol, hindi ka runner. Huwag mo na ring balikan ang nakaraan lalo na at hindi ka historian.
Don’t go back to the places where God rescued you. Wag nang balikan ang lugar kung saan ka nasaktan, huwag rin ipag pilitan ang mga bagay na hindi satin inilaan.
When God already closed the door, don’t force it to open. May plano Siya para sayo. Mas maganda sa plano mo.
God’s no is not a rejection, it is a redirection. Put your trust in him. Kilala ka na Niya at planado na ang lahat bago ka pa man Niya hayaang mabuhay dito sa mundo.
We are His precious creation so we must not compromise our value, our worth. We must know our worth in Him. God said that
She is far more precious than jewels
-Proverbs 31:10
Sa paningin ni Lord, mas mahalaga pa tayo sa mamahaling dyamante. So don’t compromise your value. We didn’t deserve to be treated as if para tayong damit na madali lang palitan.
We are God’s princess so we must be treated as how did a King treats his Queen. We must be love and pursued the way God wants us to be love and pursued. Sa paraang tama, sa paraang maayos. Sa paraang gusto Niya.
Tayo dapat ang hinihintay, pinag eeffortan. Hindi tayo basta basta lang. We are created to be their helper. Galing tayo sa part nila. So we must be treated right.
Know your worth in Christ. Paano? Read your Bible.
Dapat alam natin yung value natin para hindi na tayo mabilis masasaktan.
“When you start seeing your worth, you’ll find it harder to stay around people who don’t” hindi ka na basta basta madadala sa mga mabulaklak na salita.
Bago tayo pumasok sa another relationship, we must be whole in Him. Pabuo muna, pagamit sa Lord. Dun mo malalaman halaga mo.
Someday, our God will send us a prince who has the same identity nung taong pinangagarap mo. Yung taong katulad mo. Yung mag mamahal satin ng totoo.
Wait until God gives you the right man na deserve mo. Wait until He give you a man na mamahalin ka in a Godly way. Yung ipaparamdam sayo na you deserve all the love na maibibigay nya apart from God’s love. Yung hindi iccompromise yung conviction mo kundi tutulungan ka pang mas mapalapit sa Lord tapos sabay kayong mag woworship.
You deserve a man na hihingin at ilalaban yung puso mo kay Lord. A man who knows how to value a woman kasi alam nyang we are God’s princess so we must be treated as one. A man who knows how to love the way God does kasi nauna at mas minahal nya si Lord kesa sa lahat. Sya yung mentor nung lalaking iyon. We all deserve a man who is man enough to wait and takes his time to prepare the future for you and your future family. Yung lalaking ihaharap ka sa altar hanggang maging official husband and wife na kayo. Faithful and loyal enough for you.
Pero habang wala pa, galingan mo munang maging single. Alamin mo muna yung worth mo sa Lord. Serve Him while you wait.
