So nililigawan ka? Sure ha. Tapos like mo nang sagutin siya or finally say YES to your suitor dahil ayaw mo rin ng mind games? Ok this it, let us help you.
Say Yes, But First
Nandito ka na sa panahon na comfortable na kayo sa isa’t-isa at gusto mo na rin talaga siya. Before to say yes, make sure you are deciding more than feelings. Your “yes” must be an act of the will— It’s a decision beyond just a mere emotion. Hindi yung feel mo lang this month, uso, at nadala ka dahil amoy fresh lavender siya tuwing magkasama kayo.
Remember, when you say YES to him, it is a million NO to other men. It will require commitment, hardwork and sacrifice. Relationship yan eh, hindi yan title lang. Though Im not saying kayo na magkakatuluyan sa dulo kasi BF-GF pa lang yan, pero it’s a big first step ha. Yung iba nga di inaabot ng 40 days sa talking stage. Saying yes is to reciprocate his love and affection for you. It’a great blessing sa mga guys na marinig yan. So if you think you are in the right path with the right motivation, do it now.
Say yes! But how?
Saying Yes to Your Suitor
Know your vision for the relationship before saying yes.
May direction ba kayo or puro emotion lang? Wag kang mag-“yes” kung wala ka pang plano. Baka siya lang ang merong vision, dapat iakw rin kahit papaano. Hindi sapat ang kilig—dapat may growth, may goals.
“Yes ako, kung totoo at alam nating may pinupuntahan ‘to.”
Be real, but make it special.
Hindi naman kailangan ng grand proposal scene. Pero syempre, give him that moment na maramdaman niyang special siya. Kahit simpleng coffee date or chill tambay lang—just let him know. Set a schedule, make it public, wag sa motel. Kaloka ka.
“Yes, yes I want to welcome your love for me as your GF. I’d love to journey with you as we build this relationship.”
Assure him of your feelings.
Wag nang deadma after the “yes.” Keep it natural but genuine. Pakita mo sa actions mo na hindi lang sa salita. Hindi ka rin malulugi kung sasabihin mo bakit mo siya napili.
“Oo, pero effort din, ah. Hindi ‘to one-way street.”
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Wag kang pabebe (unless natural mo yun).
Hindi mo kailangang maging super serious agad. You can still keep it fun and lighthearted. Kilalanin mo siya nang mabuti while keeping your values intact. Deepen your knowledge about him and about yourself and about your partnership.
“Yes, pero cool lang tayo ha. No pressure, let’s see where this goes.”
Be clear about your boundaries.
Saying yes doesn’t mean walang limit. It’s a yes to dating, but be upfront about what you’re comfortable with. Know that hindi mo pa yan asawa! Wag kayong magshare ng mga financial account. No need din na maging too intimate kayo. Hilaw pa. For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven. Dadarating kayo dun. For now, enjoy this stage. For some na kilala ko, short lang ang BF-GF stage nila kasi they are mature enough for marriage. That’s the ultimate goal sana, date to marry…but again hindi lahat same ang maturity.
“Sige, let’s give this a shot, pero respeto muna ha. Boundaries pa rin tayo.”
Remember, a “yes” is a start, not a finish line. Enjoy the journey, but stay grounded in what truly matters to you. 😉
Saying yes is more than just giving in to the kilig—it’s about having a clear purpose, respect, and authenticity.
