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In life we learnt a lot of things. Things that’s been thought to us in schools or by our fellowmen. And those thing’s that’s been collected by our own personal encounters and experience. A lessons of both positive and negative outcome that makes us who we are right now. And every moment, changes.
Changes in our way of prospection. And it’s defend on us how we interact with it. Sabi nga nila, “we’re the one who’s in charge of our own happiness” Especially sa love.
Love thought us every values of life. Natutunan nating mag sakripisyo, mag bigay ng walang hinihinging kapalit. Mag lingkod ng tapat sa iniirog natin. Maging mapagkumbaba sa lahat ng bagay. Maging ma-tyaga, at maging maunawain.
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The good things in love is yung mga magagandang memories na nabuo between the two lover. Yung mga masasayang moments. Mga tawanan ang hikhikan na animoy walang katapusan, dahil alam mong nanjan yung taong nagbibigay sayo ng saya at pagmamahal. And those are treasured moments na kahit kailan hindi natin malilimutan, na kahit kailan hindi mapapalitan at hindi mawawala kahit man may lumisan.
Nandoon lang yun at parti na ng kung ano tayo ngayon. At yun yung positive outcome ng pag-ibig na ating natutunan. And mostly ito yung mga bagay na pinanghuhugatan ng iba ng tapang at lakas para mag patuloy, para magparaya, magpatawad at magmahal ulit.
Pero madalas, in other way yung mga lessons na binibigay sa atin ng Love. We believe yung love na yun, yung dahilan kung bakit tayo nasasaktan, bakit tayo umiiyak ngayon, kung bakit tayo nilisan at kung bakit subrang broken tayo ngayon. And that outcome brings a lot of depression things. Fear and hatred are best example.
Takot na baka pag nagmahal tayo ulit baka yun pa rin yung kakahantungan natin at mas lalong wawasak at dudurog sa puso natin. Galit, inis O sama ng loob. Dahil niloko tayo ng taong subrang mahal na mahal natin.
Yes, alam ko yung sakit yung puot na natatanim sa ating mga puso. But in the end, ito din ba yung gusto nating aanihin? I know how hard, actually it’s really really hard yung maging broken hearted. Like akala natin lahat ng tao sasaktan lang tayo, na lahat sila lilisanin at iiwan din tayo. Pero ganun talaga ang buhay. Walang permanente sa mundong ibabaw. Even our situation and struggles ay hindi rin permanente. And those negative outcome brings us into bitterness.
And ito yung mga lessons na tinuturo sa atin ng buhay at ng pag-ibig.
Yes time heals, but not the time alone can heal us. Acceptance, forgiveness and letting go is the major keys of healing and time is just there only to support us.
I-accept natin na talagang wala na yung tao na yun na minsay nagbigay ng saya at pagmamahal sa atin.
Forgive and forget. Forgive natin yung tao na nanakit at nanloko at nangiwan sa atin. And forget. Forget those bad memories, and the feeling you had for him/her before. But not the good memories. Treasured it and make it your strength to pull out that courage to fall in love again.
Kaya Laban lang warrior one 😊
Letting go. Let go of that feelings and that person. Especially let go of yourself. Palayain mo din yung self mo. Dahil we deserve happiness and peace.
Risking is not make us a loser. Nor a queen doesn’t need a king or king doesn’t need queen. You know what we need? A warrior self. Dahil hindi naman fairytale yung reality ng buhay natin at mas lalong hindi pelikula na detected by lang. Kasi lahat tayo dito warriors. Warriors na lumalaban para mahanap yung happiness na ninanais natin. And our greatest weapon is believing. Believing that someday we gonna find love that truly meant for us.
