Through our journey of love, we are getting used to meet different people. Some are good, some are bad. Some are for lifelong, some are for the lesson. Some comes in for a purpose, some are just bound to lose. Through this journey, we used to experience the different kinds of love. The way a friend took care of us when we were sick. The way our parents take care of us since were young, the way our dogs jumps and rolls because of happiness when they smell and see us.
Love, outside science, is a feeling, a feeling that that makes us think the welfare of that people other than us. Love is what pushes us to exceed the limit that we set on ourselves to provide the people we like the happiness.
But in spite of this, somehow, even when we are loved, we arrived at a point that we used to asked ourselves, is this the kind of love that I deserve?
The kind of love that we deserve is a kind of love that will guarantee us that we are loved today, will be loved tomorrow, and will be loved indefinitely.
The kind of love that we deserve is a kind of love that we will be chosen today, will be chosen tomorrow regardless of uncertainty if the person we chose chooses us.
The kind of love that we deserve is a kind of love that will not just be with us on good times, but will also be with us on the desperate times.
The kind of love that we deserve is a kind of love that will nurture us, will help us grow not just professionally, but personally, emotionally and last but not the least, spiritually.
The kind of love that we deserve is a kind of love that will be brave enough to focus on the goodness of a person behind their mistakes. A kind of love that will understand that those mistakes won’t define the future. A kind of love that believes that mistakes were only part of a process.
The kind of love that we deserve is a kind of love that believes that love is not a spur of the moment thing, it is a kind of love that is built, that is nurtured over time.
The kind of love that we deserve is a kind of love that is reasonable enough to set the boundaries on what should be right and crazy enough to make a people think, “they did this out of love?”
The kind of love that we deserve is a kind of love that will inspire us to have the grit on being the better version of ourselves. The kind of love that is self-correcting one, one that it makes realize the lesson to know what is right and what is wrong.
The kind of love that we deserve is a kind of love that is a compassionate one, one that is so empathic that the person will know that we are having a bad day the moment that we right past the door.
The kind of love that we deserve is a kind of love that will not look on labels first to act. The kind of love that will be based on feeling, not on social pressure. The kind of love that is so pristine and clear that there defining that thing will be deemed unnecessary.
The kind of love that we deserve is a kind of love that is pure and so real, a kind of love that they will love the things that we hate about ourselves. Our flaws. Our insecurites. Our anxieties. Our dreams.
The kind of love that we deserve is a kind of love that is not superficial, a kind of love that will be able to transcend time and space. A kind of love that will last, not just years, a kind of love that will be able to surpass distance, a kind of love that traverse through barriers.
Lastly, the kind of love that we deserve is a kind of love that can forgive, a kind of love that can let go and a kind of love that God has given us.
Maybe these kinds were hard to find or will not exists in these days, but we, can also take note that we can be that person. As per the saying, the love that we give to the world is kind of love that will received. Who knows?
