Those I realized when turned 20s

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A life of an NBSB who patiently waiting for not so “ideal” guy.

Sabi nga ng kawork ko sa office, “Hindi sisindi ang posporo kapag hindi ka nageffort sindihan.”

May nagsabi pa na hindi hinihintay ang taong magmamahal sayo. Do your part. Kapag gusto mo, gusto. Hindi naman yan itinadhana ni Lord kung hindi kayo meant to be na magkakilala. Everything happens for a reason. Kung nagbreak kayo, hindi kayo ang lifetime partner. Maybe she or he will be a lesson to your love life.

Payo ng pinakaclose kong kaibigan.

Love should be accompanied by respect, trust and commitment. Agree kaba? Kapag ilang weeks or months palang kayong nagkakilala and he or she will say “I love you.” Huwag ka maniwala agad. I told you, hindi yan genuine love unless effort will last for lifetime na ikaw lang ang makakaramdam para mapatunayan niyang mahal ka talaga niya.

Ang mabilisang pagmamahal ay mabilis ring nawawala.

I asked someone, “Nanliligaw po ba siya sa inyo?” after niya sagutin ang phone call during our life insurance meeting nung nakaraang araw.

“Hindi, para kasing kabute nasulpot lang bigla. Kung nanliligaw, dapat consistent.”

Totoo nga naman. That girl around 30s already had an 8 year relationship, yung plano na nilang maghanap ng bahay at kung anu-ano pa for future family but ended because of the third party.

Guys, bakit ba kayo hindi nalang makuntento sa isa?

Ngayon, ang lawak na ng connections niya at maraming nalapit sa kanya.

“Don’t find love, love in unexpected way will eventually find you.”

That’s good to have friends with opposite sex but be with that guy you think possible to be give your love as your companion first.

And girls, I would like to remind you that don’t make a man your world. Huwag mo agad ibigay ang bagay na kapag nakuha niya na sa’yo ay iiwan ka nalang.

Kung pwede lang sabihin na “Kung magiging tayo, pwede wala munang sex?”

Naniniwala parin akong marriage comes first and I knew someone whose in relationship for 5 years and never did that thing. Ang galing diba and her boyfriend did not change at all.

As of now, I tried a dating app last month and only lasted the account for 3 weeks. Nareliaze ko na hindi ko kaya makipagusap lagi sa random guys searching for a companion but some of them still I was talking in other social media apps.

Real world is better than social media so I restrained myself not to believe and give meanings in messages.

In the end, I’d like to enjoy the moments na naguusap kami and still did not meet personally. NBSB here so we have to be careful sa intentions nila. For now, I have to wait and let’s see what will happen. Don’t rush okay?

Kung para sa’yo, para sa’yo talaga.”