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When you felt that she’s into you, you should’ve have said something. You should’ve stopped her. You should’ve rejected her upfront. But you didn’t, instead, you watched her fall for you so deep and did nothing.
You fueled her feelings with your constant “whatchadoin?”, with your “didn’t you eat yet?”, with your “hey, sleep now”, with your corny jokes and all those messages and actions that you thought were just nothing. But for her, those ignited her hopes in believing that you have something for her, too.
Until one day, you stopped and said nothing. She panicked and started asking herself if she did something wrong. She cried alone as she misses you and pathetically started sending memes, qoutes and even videos just to get your attention but she got nothing but a “seen”.
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Now, she’s broken into BITS. Your silence broke her. Your intentional avoidance crushed her. What’s worst is she’s doubting herself now. She’s having a hard time finding reasons to fight one more time— to love one more time. She’s basically stranded from where you left her.
The question of whether you played, used or just didn’t care about her still lingers in her mind and that makes it more difficult to move on from “you” or should she say, “from her self-made fantasy of you”?
She needs help. She needs your help. Can you help her by telling her, “Girl, I don’t deserve your time, effort and love because someone out there more worthy is waiting for you and that’s not me and will never be me.”
MAYBE. Just maybe, it’ll help her move on with a light heart. 🤦💔
