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BE REALISTIC.
People, it is not realistic that someone you love will always do the things you wanted him/her to do for you. Hindi ka nya macha-chat kung minsan, hindi ka nya mage-greet, hindi sya makakapunta sa special events ng buhay mo, hindi agad makakapag-reply sayo kahit on line sya at hindi rin makapagsasabi ng “I miss you” or “I love you” bago matulog or pagkagising sa umaga. Things like these should take and consider responsibly.
It’s alright. Again, it is not realistic at all kung iisipin mong gagawin nya ang mga bagay na gusto mong gawin nya sayo. He/she is not a robot.
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If you love someone, his/her failures and shortcomings will not diminish and will not change your love for him/her. Kaya nga dapat, bago pumasok sa relationship, dapat sigurado ka na na siya na talaga. Para kung masaktan ka nya, you won’t end up disappointed and frustrated. Hindi ka iiyak-iyak dyan sa gilid tapos ngangawngaw ka na “Sana di na kita nakilala. Sana di na kita minahal”.
People, being hurt by someone you love is a part of the progress and growth. You should accept the reality that the both of you ay hindi perfect and both of you are on the process of being strong and committed with each other.
This point is not applicable for those people na naglalaro lang sa pakikipagrelasyon but for the couple who would like to go deeper in their romantic relationship. Don’t get me wrong, people. Love is a gift from God and it should be celebrated at hindi dapat na nagiging source ng pagiging mahina at pagiging talunan mo.
The love is very powerful. It will help us to see the good things in every situation, in every person, in every life’s aspect. It will not ruin your trust to someone else because love keeps no record of wrongs.
People, especially the young ones, in order for you not to be frustrated, please remember that people can hurt you in different ways. Accept the reality that you do not have the same heart. And when the time comes you cant handle the pressure of being nasaktan and you think na hindi na talaga mababago ang sitwasyon, pray and let God do the changing. He knows better than us.
Spread love.
