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All these years specially after turning 20’s we often question ourselves, Who am I going to spend my life with? How or what does my future self holds?.
Well as time goes by, I know our questions will be answered one by one but for now, Its me first.
I will nurture and develop my self first before thinking of others.
I will start prioritizing my self before thinking of others.
I will start re discovering myself as I know I can be more.
People do come and go, We all know that but they always leave memories worth remembering. So when they go please always keep the good memories and lessons they left for us to grow and move forward, not to keep our self chained in the past but make our self wiser and braver.
Relationship will follow. I know you are eager to look for the right one but why not take this time to hone and mold yourself to be the right one first?
Someone asked me a question,
“How would you know If you are the right one?”
I answered, look at what God said
“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. “
So you see He has definitions of love, and If you change the word “Love” into “I”, then there you go. you got your answer.
If you pray to Him to guide you and let YOU be the “LOVE” then believe me if the time is right, He shall make it happen.
Continue being in a relationself first and learn how to love and value yourself at your worst and definitely at your best. by then you will learn and get to know more about yourself.
Dont be afraid to show who and what you’re made of as someone I know will come by and will accept you for who and what you are as I know you will do the same too.
Your feelings are valid and be the one who accepts yourself first. Inhale all the positivity and ask Him to guide you on how can you be better and everything will follow.
Tis the season for He has a reason. So for now, be happy being in a relationself.