Tag: Healing

To your self in progress

I admire how you stare yourself in the mirror, naked with every fresh wound yet slowly grasping  the truth that you are human after all- and sometimes you are left with no choice but to face the reality that every fiber of your being is a reflection of the love you’ve given. I admire how… Continue reading To your self in progress

I am tired of this “okay-then-not-okay” cycle as part of the healing process.

Emotional pain affects every aspect of your life. When you are heart-broken, your physical body is unable to function properly, and your mental health suffers as well. I despise my current situation. I wish I had the ability to instantly heal myself. The healing process is bizarre. There are days when I feel fine and… Continue reading I am tired of this “okay-then-not-okay” cycle as part of the healing process.

Comeback Isn’t Real (Hindi Lahat Dapat Balikan)

After breakups, cool offs, hanapin-ko-lang-sarili-ko momints, and such, people around often romanticize the idea saying, “If you truly love someone, then win him/her back.” Funny how they put an intensifier ‘truly’, when in fact it meant the opposite for some. However, the truth is that the so-called comeback depends on the situation. If the past… Continue reading Comeback Isn’t Real (Hindi Lahat Dapat Balikan)

Dear heart

Dear heart, Alam ko kung gaano kabigat ang dinadala mo ngayon. Ang hirap masanay sa mga bagay na panandalian lang pala. Ang sakit iwanan ng biglaan. Sana pwede ibalik ang nakaraan at magwarning sa sarili. Alam kong dumadating na sa punto na napapadasal ka nalang na sana pwede mong i-skip yung masakit na process. Sana… Continue reading Dear heart

SUGAL

Sumugal ako sa walang kaiguradohan Hindi kita sisisihin ano man ang kahihinatnan Kasi ako naman ang kusang nagmahal Iniisip na baka sa huli tayo yung ikasal Sobrang lawak lang talaga ng imahinasyon ko diba Sa sobrang lawak hindi ko na nakita ang mga pulang bandera Noon pa sana’y sinukuan na kita Ngunit nagbakasali ako na… Continue reading SUGAL

A Letter: We Need to Have a Bad Person to Be Free, For We Are Too Good to Be Apart.

Meeting you is the most extraordinary form of pure delight in regards to my life’s dictionary. I’ve waited too long for a perfect definition of love in my life to exist, and a man surprisingly came that filled all the settled standards I have made as I build myself along the way. Indeed, I was… Continue reading A Letter: We Need to Have a Bad Person to Be Free, For We Are Too Good to Be Apart.

There Is Hope In Every Day

Sometimes, we feel like raising the white flag when life seems tough. Mistakes, heartbreaks, failures, and struggles – all these come crash landing on you making you helpless and worse, lifeless. But, have you ever thought of a silver lining in every obstacle the comes your way? Have you ever thought of choosing to see… Continue reading There Is Hope In Every Day

Now, I Choose my Worth

Sometimes, it is totally okay not to be okay. It’s okay to choose yourself. Sometimes we need to compose our self first before stepping into reconciliation. Ironically, you wanted to save the friendships, the best relationship you ever had with the most important people, yet you are still hurting. Keeping your distance to those people… Continue reading Now, I Choose my Worth

MAY NAKALAAN PA PARA SAYO

Maaaring iniisip mo parin yung mga ‘sana’ at ‘what ifs’. Maaaring nanghihinayang ka pa rin sa kung ano na sana kayo ngayon. Maaaring iniisip mo pa rin yung mga panagarap na sabay ninyong binuo at mga alaala na ginawa ninyo ng magkasama. Maaaring hinahanapan mo pa rin ng mga kasagutan ang mga tanong mong ‘bakit’… Continue reading MAY NAKALAAN PA PARA SAYO

An open letter: Para sa taong kasama kong bumuo ng pangarap

Alam kong dalawang taon nang mahigit ang lumipas. Sana masaya ka sa naging desisyon mo. Sana, unti-unti mo nang natutupad ang mga pangarap mo; mga pangarap mo na unti-unti nating binuo. Naaalala mo ba nung tayo pa? Nung mga panahong umiiyak ka saakin dahil ang liit-liit na ng tingin mo sa sarili mo dahil pakiramdam… Continue reading An open letter: Para sa taong kasama kong bumuo ng pangarap

How To Help People Heal?

You may not be a trained counselor, but you’ll probably have someone come to you for counsel. Throughout your life, you’ll meet people who are hurting and need help. So what should you do first? Ask people about their story and listen. Set down your theological formula and simply enter into people’s pain. When we begin listening to people… Continue reading How To Help People Heal?

What I’ve learned from the boys who almost loved me.

To the boys who almost loved me before, I thank you for coming into my life. It was indeed sad when you decided to leave, but now I’m finally able to start learning from the lessons you’ve left behind. With each hesitation, I’ve found my answers. With each uncertainty, I’m reaching a point of clarity.

When you are used and then abandoned

I sat on a concrete pathway along the grass-filled plains as the bevy of girls played dodgeball nearby. Hearing them laughing and shouting in enjoyment, wonderful thoughts conquered my mind. A lot of “what ifs” popped out as I viewed the watery plains, the insects, and the dragonflies. After a moment, my reverie was disrupted… Continue reading When you are used and then abandoned

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