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I just want to remind you everyone why that someone didn’t end up with you because God will give you much better and most importantly don’t rush. Does anyone here already tried Tinder, Bumble and Coffee Meets Bagel? I’ve been ghosted several times in those apps hanggang sa nawalan na ako ng gana makipagusap sa mga nagchatchat sakin because my approach always is I want to know you. Couple of weeks chating until months then ended up hanging knowing me I invested time, effort and emotions. There are some guys na ang gusto, date agad and when they knew I am NBSB bakit daw NBSB ako? Ang boring naman. I chat for a couple of hundred guys ganyan ako kasipag during pandemic because I have no work until it caused me anxiety etc. Nakakapagod, naghahanap lang naman ako ng guy companion na outside of my field because the closest male I have in life is my younger brother and father. Then one time, when I already uninstalled Tinder and Bumble, during I have confidence to share my dating app story written in a blog. Someone told me about CMB. That time I’ve become spontaneous, if may mgapproach and chat go until I met a guy na lahat ng efforts ko naibalik niya. He also accepted my past, my condition na I can’t do video calls or even calls without meeting him. He is the first guy I dated in my entire life and he is very worth it. He loved me first kasi takot pa tlaga ako to commit and I was his second. Akala ko yung pang intergalactic kong ideals sa guy ay hanggang panaginip nalang until I met him. Intergalactic daw kasi yung ideals na: God-centered, close to his Mom because how he treat his mother is how he will treat his gf, know how to do household chores because in my age guys are more focused on games, someone I will be proud of, not smoker, not drinker kasi kpg galit siya pwede niya to maging outlet ih buti nalang adik lang siya magbike diba body fit pa, masipag, mabait, matulungin etc. I am super proud of his achievements that one time I developed inferiority complex but love is not like that so I’m doing my best to change because I love him and ang pinakamaganda pa dun ay almost mirror kmi sa lahat until future plans. We compromised and praying for a solid partnership. We’ve been together for more than a year and I will tell you guys that communication is the key. You’re commited for a purpose of marriage. Kapag malinaw ang intention ng lalaki sayo, malinaw ang feelings. If he really loves you, he will not let you hanging. He will do his best not to break your heart kasi kapag malungkot ka, mas malungkot siya. Kaya sa inyo esp girls, may swerte sa dating app ha. Kpg hindi para sayo, hindi tlaga para sayo. If there is red flags already, stop it. Love yourself first before loving someone. Dapat alam mo sa sarili mo yung worth mo. If someone broke your heart, move on. There’s so much in life.