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Girl, first of all, I want to tell you that you are created for a purpose. Maybe you can’t see it right now or you don’t know exactly what it is but believe me 𝙂𝙤𝙙 𝙝𝙖𝙨 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙞𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙛𝙪𝙩𝙪𝙧𝙚; a Canaan (promise land) that you will enjoy for the rest of your life.
My only question for you is: Will you settle in your situation and not move onto the next level of life or you will let your feet step onto another fight to conquer your giants? Will you be the “slave Israelites of Egypt” and stay on the hardship you are experiencing with someone else or be the “Moses” who fought for the promises of God in his life? Choose.
𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗗𝗲𝗰𝗶𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗠𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿𝘀
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It is in your own hands to choose between being “okay” or being joyful forever. It is in your own hands if you will decide to stay on the routine of life: to live, to study, to work, to marry and to have children, and to die. It is in your hand if you will partake in producing a future generation who can change a nation or stay the same.
Oh, wait, before I end this do not focus too much on your status on Facebook. 𝘿𝙤𝙣’𝙩 𝙗𝙚 𝙛𝙧𝙪𝙨𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙩𝙚𝙙 𝙞𝙛 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙙𝙤𝙣’𝙩 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙮𝙚𝙩 𝙖 𝙢𝙖𝙣 𝙬𝙝𝙤 𝙘𝙖𝙣 𝙗𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙖 𝙨𝙢𝙞𝙡𝙚 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙮 𝙢𝙤𝙧𝙣𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙬𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙪𝙥. It may cause you to rush things and to decide rapidly without thinking about what’s next after this.
𝐌𝐲 𝐌𝐚𝐢𝐧 𝐌𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐚𝐠𝐞
This is my main message for you, my whole heart is shouting for a strong urging to say to you, oh girl, choose real joy than what the world offers. 𝙋𝙧𝙖𝙮 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙖 𝙢𝙖𝙣 𝙬𝙝𝙤 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙨𝙩𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙪𝙥 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙬𝙝𝙤 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙩𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙖𝙨 𝙂𝙤𝙙’𝙨 𝙥𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙘𝙚𝙨𝙨. No to a man who will pursue you as beautiful Snow White but will suddenly transform into a Hulk figure who will hurt you physically and will curse you like an old witch when life encounters problems or when he gets angry about something
𝘾𝙝𝙤𝙤𝙨𝙚 𝙖 𝙢𝙖𝙣 𝙬𝙝𝙤 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙙𝙞𝙨𝙘𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙖𝙜𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙙𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙢𝙨 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙬𝙝𝙤 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙝𝙚𝙡𝙥 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙩𝙤 𝙨𝙚𝙩𝙩𝙡𝙚 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙤𝙧𝙙𝙞𝙣𝙖𝙧𝙮 𝙤𝙧 𝙡𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙜𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙩𝙚𝙧 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙣 𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙚. If you think there is no such a man like that, you are wrong. Sometimes the problem is we are too impatient to wait for the best, neglecting the fact that the best or greater things are deserved by those who wait.
“𝗕𝘂𝘁 𝗜 𝗟𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝗛𝗶𝗺”
Yes, I know. To be honest, love should not define only by the emotional part but also by the decision part. Our heart is deceitful. Our emotion is dynamic, it will change. Oftentimes, it is like a desire for an ice candy but as soon as you realize that there is ice cream in the refrigerator you will choose it over an ice candy. Will you choose ice candy over ice cream? I believe no. That’s my point. Choose a long and lasting relationship or an unending pleasure like the ice cream can give than finding momentary happiness that can leave a mark of pain.
Again, God has something for you. You have a purpose in life. Don’t let a man destroy it. Open your eyes to the reality of life. Decide if you will wait and choose a warrior who will help you in the storm of your life or a Hulk who doesn’t know anyone when he gets angry.
“𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗼 𝗙𝗶𝗻𝗱 𝗛𝗶𝗺?”
You are not too late to have a wonderful relationship. 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙖𝙜𝙚 𝙞𝙨 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙖𝙣 𝙞𝙣𝙙𝙞𝙘𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙤𝙛 𝙝𝙤𝙬 𝙡𝙖𝙩𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙩𝙤 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙖𝙣 𝙖𝙬𝙚𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙢𝙖𝙧𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙙 𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙚. There are a lot of things ahead for you.𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙡𝙞𝙠𝙚 𝙖 𝙗𝙚𝙖𝙪𝙩𝙞𝙛𝙪𝙡 𝙨𝙩𝙖𝙧𝙛𝙞𝙨𝙝 𝙤𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙙𝙚𝙚𝙥 𝙤𝙘𝙚𝙖𝙣, 𝙡𝙚𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙢𝙖𝙣 𝙛𝙞𝙣𝙙𝙨 𝙮𝙤𝙪. And to know if he is a warrior or a man that I said above, look to his action above the boat. While you are in the deep, watch closely on the way how he catches you. Observe his character. Does he keep on complaining while on the boat? Does he easily give up because you are in too much depth? Is he a man of faith who will jump over the water just to catch you? Is he a man with vision or plan upon catching you?
Remember, He has made everything beautiful in its time (Ecclesiastes 11:9) and for everything, there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven (Ecclesiastes 3:1).
“. . .Better is the end of a thing than its beginning and the patient in spirit better than the proud in spirit (Ecclesiastes 7:8). If you pursue a season that is not yet for you, something wrong might come up. You know it. And I hope and pray that your life will not end up in regret but in joy. When we enjoy the season in its proper season, there is no such thing as “late”. God made you for 𝙟𝙤𝙮 and not for 𝙧𝙚𝙜𝙧𝙚𝙩.