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Girl, first of all, I want to tell you that you are created for a purpose. Maybe you canโ€™t see it right now or you donโ€™t know exactly what it is but believe me ๐™‚๐™ค๐™™ ๐™๐™–๐™จ ๐™จ๐™ค๐™ข๐™š๐™ฉ๐™๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™›๐™ค๐™ง ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™ž๐™ฃ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™›๐™ช๐™ฉ๐™ช๐™ง๐™š; a Canaan (promise land) that you will enjoy for the rest of your life.

My only question for you is: Will you settle in your situation and not move onto the next level of life or you will let your feet step onto another fight to conquer your giants? Will you be the โ€œslave Israelites of Egyptโ€ and stay on the hardship you are experiencing with someone else or be the โ€œMosesโ€ who fought for the promises of God in his life? Choose.

๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐——๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐— ๐—ฎ๐˜๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€

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It is in your own hands to choose between being โ€œokayโ€ or being joyful forever. It is in your own hands if you will decide to stay on the routine of life: to live, to study, to work, to marry and to have children, and to die. It is in your hand if you will partake in producing a future generation who can change a nation or stay the same.

Oh, wait, before I end this do not focus too much on your status on Facebook. ๐˜ฟ๐™ค๐™ฃโ€™๐™ฉ ๐™—๐™š ๐™›๐™ง๐™ช๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™ง๐™–๐™ฉ๐™š๐™™ ๐™ž๐™› ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™™๐™ค๐™ฃโ€™๐™ฉ ๐™๐™–๐™ซ๐™š ๐™ฎ๐™š๐™ฉ ๐™– ๐™ข๐™–๐™ฃ ๐™ฌ๐™๐™ค ๐™˜๐™–๐™ฃ ๐™—๐™ง๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™– ๐™จ๐™ข๐™ž๐™ก๐™š ๐™š๐™ซ๐™š๐™ง๐™ฎ ๐™ข๐™ค๐™ง๐™ฃ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™ฌ๐™–๐™ ๐™š ๐™ช๐™ฅ. It may cause you to rush things and to decide rapidly without thinking about whatโ€™s next after this.

๐Œ๐ฒ ๐Œ๐š๐ข๐ง ๐Œ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ๐š๐ ๐ž

This is my main message for you, my whole heart is shouting for a strong urging to say to you, oh girl, choose real joy than what the world offers. ๐™‹๐™ง๐™–๐™ฎ ๐™›๐™ค๐™ง ๐™– ๐™ข๐™–๐™ฃ ๐™ฌ๐™๐™ค ๐™ฌ๐™ž๐™ก๐™ก ๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™ช๐™ฅ ๐™ฌ๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™ฌ๐™๐™ค ๐™ฌ๐™ž๐™ก๐™ก ๐™ฉ๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™ฉ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™–๐™จ ๐™‚๐™ค๐™™โ€™๐™จ ๐™ฅ๐™ง๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™˜๐™š๐™จ๐™จ. No to a man who will pursue you as beautiful Snow White but will suddenly transform into a Hulk figure who will hurt you physically and will curse you like an old witch when life encounters problems or when he gets angry about something

๐˜พ๐™๐™ค๐™ค๐™จ๐™š ๐™– ๐™ข๐™–๐™ฃ ๐™ฌ๐™๐™ค ๐™ฌ๐™ž๐™ก๐™ก ๐™ฃ๐™ค๐™ฉ ๐™™๐™ž๐™จ๐™˜๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง๐™–๐™œ๐™š ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™›๐™ง๐™ค๐™ข ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™™๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™ข๐™จ ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™ฌ๐™๐™ค ๐™ฌ๐™ž๐™ก๐™ก ๐™๐™š๐™ก๐™ฅ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™ฃ๐™ค๐™ฉ ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐™จ๐™š๐™ฉ๐™ฉ๐™ก๐™š ๐™›๐™ค๐™ง ๐™ค๐™ง๐™™๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™–๐™ง๐™ฎ ๐™ค๐™ง ๐™ก๐™š๐™จ๐™จ ๐™—๐™ช๐™ฉ ๐™›๐™ค๐™ง ๐™จ๐™ค๐™ข๐™š๐™ฉ๐™๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™œ๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ง ๐™ฉ๐™๐™–๐™ฃ ๐™ก๐™ž๐™›๐™š. If you think there is no such a man like that, you are wrong. Sometimes the problem is we are too impatient to wait for the best, neglecting the fact that the best or greater things are deserved by those who wait.

โ€œ๐—•๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—œ ๐—Ÿ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—›๐—ถ๐—บโ€

Yes, I know. To be honest, love should not define only by the emotional part but also by the decision part. Our heart is deceitful. Our emotion is dynamic, it will change. Oftentimes, it is like a desire for an ice candy but as soon as you realize that there is ice cream in the refrigerator you will choose it over an ice candy. Will you choose ice candy over ice cream? I believe no. Thatโ€™s my point. Choose a long and lasting relationship or an unending pleasure like the ice cream can give than finding momentary happiness that can leave a mark of pain.

Again, God has something for you. You have a purpose in life. Donโ€™t let a man destroy it. Open your eyes to the reality of life. Decide if you will wait and choose a warrior who will help you in the storm of your life or a Hulk who doesnโ€™t know anyone when he gets angry.

โ€œ๐—›๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—™๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—›๐—ถ๐—บ?โ€

You are not too late to have a wonderful relationship. ๐™”๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™–๐™œ๐™š ๐™ž๐™จ ๐™ฃ๐™ค๐™ฉ ๐™–๐™ฃ ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™™๐™ž๐™˜๐™–๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ค๐™ฃ ๐™ค๐™› ๐™๐™ค๐™ฌ ๐™ก๐™–๐™ฉ๐™š ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™–๐™ง๐™š ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐™๐™–๐™ซ๐™š ๐™–๐™ฃ ๐™–๐™ฌ๐™š๐™จ๐™ค๐™ข๐™š ๐™ข๐™–๐™ง๐™ง๐™ž๐™š๐™™ ๐™ก๐™ž๐™›๐™š. There are a lot of things ahead for you.๐™”๐™ค๐™ช ๐™–๐™ง๐™š ๐™ก๐™ž๐™ ๐™š ๐™– ๐™—๐™š๐™–๐™ช๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™›๐™ช๐™ก ๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™–๐™ง๐™›๐™ž๐™จ๐™ ๐™ค๐™ฃ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™™๐™š๐™š๐™ฅ ๐™ค๐™˜๐™š๐™–๐™ฃ, ๐™ก๐™š๐™ฉ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™–๐™ฉ ๐™ข๐™–๐™ฃ ๐™›๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™™๐™จ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช. And to know if he is a warrior or a man that I said above, look to his action above the boat. While you are in the deep, watch closely on the way how he catches you. Observe his character. Does he keep on complaining while on the boat? Does he easily give up because you are in too much depth? Is he a man of faith who will jump over the water just to catch you? Is he a man with vision or plan upon catching you?

Remember, He has made everything beautiful in its time (Ecclesiastes 11:9) and for everything, there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven (Ecclesiastes 3:1).

โ€œ. . .Better is the end of a thing than its beginning and the patient in spirit better than the proud in spirit (Ecclesiastes 7:8). If you pursue a season that is not yet for you, something wrong might come up. You know it. And I hope and pray that your life will not end up in regret but in joy. When we enjoy the season in its proper season, there is no such thing as โ€œlateโ€. God made you for ๐™Ÿ๐™ค๐™ฎ and not for ๐™ง๐™š๐™œ๐™ง๐™š๐™ฉ.

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