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Acknowledge your emotions. Masaktan ka kung masaktan ka.
Talk it out. It’s your chance to use that speed dial.
While you are busy reading this article, try mo rin makinig sa episode namin:
Grieve well. Okay lang mag-on repeat ng kanta ng December Avenue.
Remember your worth. You are more than another person’s decision.
You both are only human. You also have your own share of pain caused to another.
Forgive and move on. Hindi sagot ang paghiganti sa kanya o sa iba.
Seek a healthy motivation of your responses and be aware of how you paint a picture of him. Sometimes we have the tendency to be excited that can be preemptive and inappropriate for the phase you both are in.
Stop and smell the roses. Time is your friend, walk alongside it.
Enjoy and trust the process. He’s not a project, but a person. Take your time.
Get to know yourself too. Each reaction is rooted from something. You are also in the process of understanding your responses. Dance in the boundaries, not beside it.
Strive to be a better version of you.
Open yourself to new experiences, while honoring your pacing. Be honest and real on what you can give to the interaction. Hindi mo naman need magreply agad.
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