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This came through my mind while a friend of mine rants about herself being marupok. Oo nga naman bakit nga naman? My mind came with different answers. Nagiging marupok tayong mga babae kasi mabilis tayo maattach, di ko naman nilalahat pero sino ba namang di maatch sa taong lagi mong ka late night convos diba? Yung laging nagtatanong kung kumain ka na ba? Or kamusta araw mo, things like that makes our heart soft kasi may taong nagccare sayo diba? Sino ba naman may ayaw non? Vulnerable pa naman tayo pag dating sa pag-ibig. Tapos ittake for granted na nila yong pagiging marupok natin. More on sweet words pa, sugar coated naman. They’re getting our hopes up to lower our guards in our hearts then when our guards are down, they’ll make us feel that we’re loved and cared. They let us fall to them, madly, deeply fall. Hanggang sa lunod ka na sa pagmamahal kaya nagiging pokmaru na us frenny. Yung wala na tayong magagawa kasi mahal na natin e. Take advantage naman sila don. Ikkeep nila tayo hanggat masaya sila pero kapag hindi na, or kapag umamin ka na nafall ka na, andyan na yung mga banatan na “di pa ako ready sa commitment” or “it’s not you, it’s me” tapos tayo maiiwan na luhaan, wasak at walang sagot kasi naghosting na tayo. Pero malay natin, umasa lang pala talaga tayo diba? I mean, baka mabait lang sila tapos napagkamalan natin yung kabaitan nila na gusto pala nila tayo pero ang totoo bored and kind lang siya. Just keep in mind na di lahat ng sweet bet ka, baka mabait lang talaga sila. Pero di lahat ng mabait ay may good intentions, baka ninja yan na gusto maka score. Payong kaibigan, don’t let your guards down. At wag makipag usap up until 11pm. Love yourself first beh, before someone else. And love God above everything!
