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Hi there, Admin. Honestly, I have been confused these past two months. I am in a long-term relationship (7 years), and then I met this guy, who turns out to be my band mate. As time passes, I don’t know, but I feel this thing, this kind of connection to someone whom I just met, but it feels like I’ve known him like forever. I don’t know why, but I had this dream guy of mine when I was in high school, wherein if I have a boyfriend, I prefer someone who loves music, plays instruments, is into his academics, and is God-fearing. Then, at present, I realized that for the past 7 years of my relationship with my boyfriend, this is the first time that I’ve been attached to this guy and this guy has the qualities of the guy that I am looking for. I don’t know, but maybe it is because of this so-called “dream guy” that I had in mind when I was young. Tbh admin, marami na akong nakasabay at nakilalang mga lalaki, pero sa lalaking to, iba eh. I wanted to pop this guy like a bubble out of my life, but I don’t have the strength to do so. I find myself smiling as If I won the lottery whenever these guys chat with me. It was really hard for me to feel this, but I couldn’t just believe that this would happen. I was like, “I am going to marry my first boyfriend.” way back then, but I can’t seem to imagine it anymore. It’s starting, and I want to stop it. I need advice, please. Thank you, admin.