In relationships, there’s always going to be obstacles and it’s up to you to find someone who looks at those things as something easy to overcome TOGETHER. It isn’t you making all the effort. It is someone willing to meet you halfway to make things work out.  

If you find yourself exerting too much energy into someone then it isn’t the relationship for you. Because the right relationship is going to come easily, no expectation, no demands, no competition, no rebuked and mind cracking.

Right, fighting for the love of your life is everything. You will as much effort as you can. Because everybody doesn’t want anything to regret for in their lives.

 But, how you will know when it’s time to let go or to hold on? Maybe you should consider things right infront of your eyes.

Remember that the right guy will do even impossible things to win you over. A right guy isn’t afraid of stepping into a commitment with both feet even with uncertainty. A right guy is going to make you one of his top priorities because any kind of pure and genuine affection, he will not take it for granted.

There is no grey area when its come’s to interest. If he truly wants to be with you, he will make time. The word “BUSY’ is an excused that often men used to take us for granted and treating ourselves badly.

With the right man, you are not going to wonder how he feels for you, because he will make sure your always feel loved and wanted. He wants you to be sure and confident on him. And with the right guy, he will make sure that you are protected and secured, and mostly he will make sure that you’re not in-pain.

Of course, you will be asked GOD, to give you a definite wisdom to make things flow easily for the sake of the love of your life. And often times, GOD answers our question in mind-cracking way. Because GOD let you in that pain and experienced everything, to be learned. You will know that you’re in the right pathed if your pain and struggles makes you closer even more to GOD.

So, don’t cry honey! Remember we must never stop believing, we must continue seeking our own happiness within ourselves.

Take note of that someone once said, if you want something very badly, set it free. If it comes back to you it’s yours forever. If it doesn’t come; it never yours to begin with.

“If you really like a girl, it is impossible to see her marry to another guy and still bless them. I was wrong. If you truly love a girl, you will want her to find her MR. RIGHT. You will be truly happy for them and wish them happily ever after.” -KO CHING TENG (You Are the Apple of My Eye 2011 – Taiwanese version)


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