One of the reasons why people get so sentimental, is because memories are the only things that don’t change when everything else does. There are things or people in our life that we can’t hold on forever, no matter how much we fight for it. Sometimes destiny isn’t always good, it becomes playful. We learn how to love when we meet someone and we thought that it was destiny who made your paths cross. But what if making your paths cross is just a part of the game that playful destiny creates? Making you realize in the end that the person you thought that was destined for you is not really meant to stay, but it’s only meant to make you feel loved and leave you when you fall. It’s not easy to leave and forget everything that happened, especially the person who made you feel  so special. Some may think that this is just a reason. Some may not really believe it. Some will blame you and some may even get angry with you. What they don’t see is the fact that it hurts you even more. Sometimes, hurting someone who doesn’t deserve to be hurt can make someone’s life miserable. We can never own something that’s never been ours, so let’s stop gripping things we expect to last forever. Nothing lasts forever. Forever is a lie and everything is transitory. So, while you have something in your hand, put in your mind that it’s just borrowed. So that someday when it’s gone, it won’t take you eternity. Just let go when their feelings are gone. It’s always wise to stop for a while and give your heart time to weigh the situation, based on reason and not on emotion. The saddest thing that can happen is when one falls in love while the other wants nothing more than friendship. Love can sometimes be magical, but magic can sometimes be an illusion. There are times when I wish that I was limited to certain emotions so that I’ll never have to experience pain, never feel betrayed or disappointed and never get my fragile heart broken. But the same thing means that I’ll never know how it would feel to love and be loved in return. The thought of it scares me, to have a heart that’s whole but numb or a heart that’s broken but real. Someday, we’ll all be looking back to those days we learned to love, get hurt, cry and fight. Maybe when that time comes, we’ll all be laughing at our old dumb selves, realizing how stupid it was to stand up for something or to someone. But I guess learning takes time and mistakes make one’s journey fun. So let’s live, love and take whatever pain may bring.Yes, it’s hard to wait around for something I know will never happen, but it’s harder to stop when I know it’s everything I’ve always wanted.


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