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There are relationships that are worth keeping for but unfortunately, there are some too that we have to put necessary ending for our sake. Not that we don’t love the other person but because it will be destructive for both of you.
Here are the red-flags that you need to watch out for.
While you are busy reading this article, try mo rin makinig sa episode namin:
1. Physical Violence – This is the No.1 red flag of them all. The moment na nasaktan ka niya physically because of an argument, better keep a safe distance or ask for space immediately. Do not downplay it and say “It’s all right” It’s not! Make a statement or necessary action to make the person realize that PHYSICAL ABUSE is never a small issue. If it is a repeated incident. Suggest consulting an anger management therapy clinic.
2. Emotional Rollercoaster
I know that a relationship is hard and there are ups and downs but never tolerate someone who repeatedly makes you feel unimportant, unloved, and single even though you are in a relationship with the person.
May root problem sa mga ganitong klaseng partner and mostly, they have issues sa family of being unloved, sometimes unsure about their direction in life or career.
3. Intimacy, Pleasure, and Exclusivity, Responsibility not Included
Commitment is not for everyone, but if it is for you, then filter out immediately that person that wants to be intimate emotionally and physically at the same time being exclusive to them but ayaw naman ng commitment.
Especially those people pushing for sexual pleasures but allergic sa usapang marriage. Buhusan mo ng malamig na tubig by giving them a necessary ending.