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Take the risk at your own risk.
Ang hirap magmahal ng taong inconsistent. Sweet sa actions, pero never nagverbalize ng intentions. Or clear ang intentions, pero the actions speak otherwise. It’s just that, pag trip nya, then lets be sweet, pero pag wala sya sa mood, then the hell that person cares.
Ang bigat sa heart knowing that slowly, you were falling for that person and you can’t act the way you wanted to act in front of that person. It’s like you both started to test waters but it seems like that person no longer tests, but just plays with it. Your heart is continuously aching with that person’s blinking interaction with you.
While you are busy reading this article, try mo rin makinig sa episode namin:
Ano sya, Christmas lights na patay-sindi ang ilaw? One time sweet, one time cold? You don’t deserve that, I’m telling you.
Kaya know how to take the risk. Yes, the consequences maybe hard, but it’s the best way to know the truth, for me. I don’t know if it works for everyone, but taking risk means knowing the real and unfiltered intention of the person.
At first, be doubtful pero being doubtful is not being selfish. It’s just that you have a strong relationship with yourself that you know how to guard your heart. But once your doubts were distracted by mixed signals, and you know that your heart were slowly making its own decision, then that’s the time you have to take the risk.
Oo, mahirap pero that’s important. But you always have to be prepared sa mga possible na mangyayari afterwards. Pwede kasing positive ang results, or pwedeng another disappointment nanaman. Pero at least, you don’t have to deal with so many maybes and what ifs.