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To the Girls who think Love is not for them,
I cannot forget the times when I was always crying to God asking Him, “Why Lord? Why break my heart this hard? Why punish me this much? Did I rush up things my own and I forgot to consult You first?”
I always ask Him the word “Why” instead of “How”.
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I was well informed that in times of heartbreak instead of asking “Why” it should be “How”.
It should be, “How should I use this broken heart for Your glory?” And many more.
I learned that it is just normal.
It’s one way of coping mechanism.
If you feel you are broken inside and you think that the stars are fooling your heart to the extent that it took away the one you love the most then you need to read this out.
Most of the time, the one we choose to love first with all of us is the one who chooses to leave.
Most of the time, the one who love the most is the one left all alone.
I cannot say it’s okay because heartbreak is never been okay.
Don’t say it’s alright to the one whose heart has been bruised because the ache is never been alright.
Just cry your heart out.
Cry.
Feel the pain.
Cry.
You’ve been happy before, atleast.
Cry.
Remembering all the memories.
Cry.
His promises.
Cry.
Your endless love for each other, gone wrong.
Cry.
Love is a risk.
If you fall in love, you cannot take away the sadness and pain.
Falling in love is bravery.
Atleast you are brave my dear.
Pain.
Yes, it’s too painful.
Cry your heart out.
But please stop questioning your self worth.
After the pain, the denial, you should just accept what has happened.
Your self worth is never a measurement of your heartbreak.
You are a queen who needs to be strong and should never settle with the one who do not even deserve you.
Remember, God took him away so someone can enter.
It may take time.
Yes, learning to fall in love again and trust again may take time, it’s okay.
It’s okay if you choose to be single for the longest period of time.
Because you need healing.
Because you need to find your self.
Because you need to learn that you can do it alone.
Because you need to see your strength over your weakness.
Also, if you choose to find love easily, please do not use someone as rebound.
It’s not good to find comfort to someone for your own benefit.
Please just choose solitude instead.
True love may come too slow for you.
But believe God it will come.
Good things come to those who wait.
Just obey and trust God’s timing.
Believe that there is always rainbow after the rain.
