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“You’re A Nice Guy Pero Mailap Pa Rin Si Lovelife”
YES! YOU’RE A NICE GUY PERO WHAT IS MISSING
IS AN EDGE FOR YOU TO BECOME A TOTAL PACKAGE.
Here are some of the arsenals that you can add to your game:
A SENSE OF ADVENTURE
While you are busy reading this article, try mo rin makinig sa episode namin:
Yea! You’re a good guy… we know that. Ladies know that they are safe with you and that’s the point. The keyword here is safe. Don’t get me wrong, safe is good but not to the point of doing the same thing over and over again. Eating in the same restaurant, watching the same genre of movies, doing the same routine of dating and courtship. C’mon dude. Mix it up! Add some flavors in it. Minsan, woman needs a man who will go for random adventures with them. They want something different. Something that they will take their breath away. Something spontaneous. Get out of your comfort zone and take a risk!
A NICE GUY WITH PASSIONS AND PURPOSE
You heard it right. PASSIONS. Not one but more than two! Add some arsenal sa game mo by learning some skills that you are passionate about. Make yourself attractive with that skill set you have. After all, it is not for them but for you in the long run.
They say “without vision the people perish”… and that’s true! What direction are you going? Ikaw ba yung type ng guy na ma-aattract si girl kasi she can see that you are a man of purpose? A man who knows his direction? Bankable ba yung boat na binubuo mo? O you are just rowing in circles? Edi sana nag carousel ride nalang siya kung gusto niya hiluhin yung sarili niya.
Find your purpose and follow this principle. MASTER.MISSION.MATE
Pm me if you have question sa 3 stages na yan. Pawer!
A GOOD CONVERSATIONALIST
Mostly, nice guys finish last because they can’t last a conversation sa crush nila dahil sa sobrang hiya. They will start to stutter everytime gagawa ng motion si crush na sobrang attractive. But you can learn this. This is also a skill so don’t fret. For starters, you need to start reading dictionaries, thesauraus and books to improve your selection of words. Practice your conversation skills sa nanay at ate mo. Pag hindi ka na nahihiya na kausapin sila regarding random topics then it is time to try it kay crush. PRACTICE.REPEAT. Keep it in mind that “Repetition” is the mother of all skills.
