Boiling Waters
I was 16, when I first asked my mom na bigyan ako ng permiso na pumasok sa relasyon. She just said “hindi, di mo pa alam paano humawak ng relasyon.” “Bata ka pa.” Sumubok parin ako and she was right. Hindi ako marunong magdala ng relasyon, kaya nawala ‘yon. Dumating Continue Reading
Hi You know… It takes a lot of courage to face each day with the mindset you have, ang itulak ang sarili mo to keep going when it would be so much easier to give in to the sadness or stay still. Your decision to focus on what’s in front Continue Reading
Back in 2022, someone messaged me on Messenger and asked for advice. She is an NBSB (No Boyfriend Since Birth), turning 28 and still has no boyfriend. She said she feels a lot of pressure because she’s turning 28, and everyone around her either has a boyfriend or is already Continue Reading
Single? But feeling like you’re ready to commit? Here are a few tips to know, learn, and remember when you are already in a relationship. A lot of things in life are complicated that it is hard for us to make it work. One of which is romantic relationships. Most, Continue Reading
How to Fall Back in Love: A Guide for Singles Seeking Meaningful Relationships Falling back in love isn’t just about rekindling old flames—it’s about maintaining and enhancing the connection in any relationship, including the one you have with yourself. Here are insightful ways to cultivate a loving relationship with yourself Continue Reading
It may not seem that you are moving right now, but when God says that I promise you this, He keeps his promises because He is not like anyone else. He is God and He keeps His promises. Waiting is something not all of us are really fond of doing. Continue Reading
We’re diving into the green flags—those glorious signs that you’re on the right track with someone who might just be worth your time, energy, and emotional investment. Forget settling for “bare minimum” behavior; we’re looking for the real deal. Ready to raise your standards and learn what to look for? Continue Reading
The problems kung inuuna mo yung imaginations before clarity. Assumption is a mother of all confusions. Assumption is termite in relationship. Assume now, hagulgol later. Solutions or Tips: Watch out for lines na smooth pero walang direction. Don’t be a victim of your assumptions lalo na pag sinabihan Continue Reading
Matatapos na ang taon, ang tanong…may mga good habits ka ba na nabuild na makakahelp sa relationship journey mo? Or same-same lang? Consider these tips that we learn from our community at sa mga bad stories that we heard: 1. Be Your Own Heroine: Self-Care First! Keep your identity, passions, Continue Reading
There’s a part of me that hopes that we’d eventually meet, in your place or mine, or somewhere else in this worldYet deep inside I know, we’d never hear each other say good morning love, waking up at the same time, in the same bed, in the same room We’ll Continue Reading
My heart has been broken a couple of times; some are small cuts and bruises, others are wounds that left some scars. Yet somehow, I still have a lot of love to pour. You write and write, but all it does is overstimulate you. You can’t completely engulf yourself in Continue Reading
sabi nila, pumasok sa opisina para mag trabaho, hindi mainlove sa ka-trabaho. pero, binasag ko yung kasabihan na yan. Na inlove ako sa ka trabaho ko na halos, lahat ng tao sa opisina alam na Ako nalang ang hindi pa umaamin…. To cut the long story short…….. HINDI NAGING KAMI Continue Reading
I’m already done chasing the kind of love that demands my full attention, time, and heart. That kind of love is exhausting and draining. I don’t want that. I want the kind of love that allows me to continue to wander, grow, and build myself. The kind of love that Continue Reading
As I sit down to write this letter, memories come flooding back, like a gentle breeze carrying me back to a time when we were inseparable. It’s been a journey since I last poured my heart out to you, confessing my feelings, only to hear your reassuring words: “After all Continue Reading
Choose him. Choose him who does not choose you first. Choose him who chooses Jesus over you. If your man loves God before you, choose him. Do not get upset when he has little time for you, if his goal is to glorify Jesus. Choose him. When praying for a Continue Reading
My heart has been broken a couple of times; some are small cuts and bruises, others are wounds that left some scars. Yet somehow, I still have a lot of love to pour. It’s hard being a writer. It’s ironic not being able to grasp the right words to convey Continue Reading
The Problem In the journey of building and looking for the right relationships, it’s easy to get swept away by surface-level attractions: a charming smile, a pleasant scent, or an impressive effort. But these initial sparks can be misleading, especially when we’re not sure about the other person’s intentions. Often, Continue Reading
Loud music from the speakers as we were surrounded by bottles of liquor, beer, and some chips, enjoying the night and exchanging shots. We had been talking about random things just a while ago, but it must have been the intoxication from the alcohol that led one of my friends Continue Reading
There’s something truly magical about love. Like it gives your heart that warmth, that heavy deep feeling from your chest that makes it almost hard to breathe. But it’s beautiful. And it’s pure. That even it makes you cry for some nights, it makes you question your worth at times, Continue Reading
Sorry kasi ito lang ako.. I’m in the LDR relationship rn for almost 3 years, lahat ng bagay iniintindi ko, time frame namin sa isa’t isa, madalas good morning good night na nga lang kung mag usap kami, update ng konti on how’s our day went. He doesn’t send pictures Continue Reading
Let them go. Let them lose the very person that you are. Let them lose you. Let them miss out on someone as amazing as you. Let them miss out on everything that you have to offer. Let them miss out on the beautiful things that could’ve transpired between you Continue Reading
This is for the girl whom I cherish, adore, treasure, value, keep, and deeply, sincerely, genuinely, and truly love. I wanted you to know that you really mean so much to me. The way you move, the way you talk, the way you walk, the way you think, the way Continue Reading
“Did you ever regret loving me ?” – Says he, out of nowhere. At that moment, I was caught off guard. I didn’t know what to say. I spaced out. I was there standing in front of him yet my mind was wandering elsewhere. It was the same question I Continue Reading
When God brought Israel out of Egypt, He led them into the wilderness to purify, sanctify, and teach them the way they should go. In life, God allows detours before reaching the final destination to shape character and prepare individuals to become good stewards. People can also be seen as Continue Reading
If by any chance that the right time for us will come one of these days, I won’t mind seeing you far from the best that you could be. I will take care of you, even if you’re a mess. When you get tired of doing your hair, drawing your Continue Reading
Isaiah 55:11 NLT ”It is the same with my word. I send it out, and it always produces fruit. It will accomplish all I want it to, and it will prosper everywhere I send it.” When God gives a Word, you just have to obey, no questions ask. Even if Continue Reading
Naging marupok ka nanaman ba? Nadala sa mga pambobola nya pero nauwi lang sa wala? Naniwala sa mga kasabihang? “It’s better to have loved and lost than have not loved at all”? Pero teka muna sandali, love ba talaga or fear of loneliness lang ang pinairal mo? Ayayay, chisbumbay! Mag Continue Reading
Most often than not, people search for “love.” And that’s not a bad thing. But do I really know love? When I was young, I started watching some wedding videos and keep wedding songs. And I still do ’til this day. These videos made me wonder “will I ever get Continue Reading
Paano mo masasabing infatuated ka vs in-love ka? Baka naman kasi nag-fluctuate lang yung dopamine mo. It’s important to remember to have an anchor. Your perception of God might be undervalued, and in this undervaluation, the throne of your heart might be occupied by something or someone incapable of fulfilling Continue Reading
When intention comes first before a friendship is built, I know it from the beginning that I have a higher chance of getting rejected. While I’m busy serving downstairs, I admire her from afar seeing her always on the stage. Indeed, we have different circle of friends so our paths Continue Reading
