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My heart broke when I listened to your stories on the podcast yesterday. I had no idea that there were guys out there like them. I always have faith in the kindness of people, but I find it disturbing and upsetting that cheating has become the norm. They find lying to be too hip. I have no idea how difficult it is for you, but I admire you for having the courage to tell your experience when the agony is still present.

Your courage in leaving that chapter in your story even when it crushes your heart astounds me. I’m pleased that you finally decided to choose yourself after letting your emotions out. And you know the things you learn become lessons for me as well. I don’t know whether I would be as good as you if I had gone through everything.

I hope those things and the people who hurt you won’t turn you into a person you are not. Stay gentle to yourself and unto others. You are loved even if someone leaves; there is still light even in the darkest night. And you are also worthy of the love you are so willing to give to others.

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I hope after those heartbreaks and painful stories, you still choose to believe in the beauty of love. I hope and pray that you meet this man, who changes my whole perspective on love. His love is dependable, incredible, undeniable, and unforgettable. He’s gentle, kind, and calm and assures you that He won’t leave you no matter what. I don’t deserve him too but He calls me worthy of His love.

His love can satisfy the emptiness you feel inside. He can heal your deepest hurts. He can hear your silent cries. He can see your scars and bruises. And he’s the only man that could save us. This man is Jesus. His love covers a multitude of sins, and he calls you worthy. He never asks for something in return. He wants you to experience true healing from the brokenness in this world. And all you need to do is to admit that you are in dire need of Him, you need Him in your life, you need His love and once you give your brokenness and ask His forgiveness, He will save you no matter how deep the pain and suffering you have.

I hope you will know him personally and you’ll start a relationship with HIM first. I assure you that He will give you peace that surpasses understanding and love you can’t even fathom. You will discover your identity in Him and you will discover you have a purpose, your stories can also inspire people just like what you did to me. You are valuable and worthy of the kind love that you ought to have. Your heart is one of a kind because you give love even to the undeserving just like what Jesus did to us.

But right now, I pray that you continue to heal from what you’ve experienced. I hope you prioritize your heart over someone else’s eyes. I hope you give the same love to yourself that you are so willing to give to others. I hope you realize that you’re still beautiful even if someone leaves. You are more than just beautiful in the way you tuck up your courage while in the process of healing.

Look around and you will see that there are people who constantly love you for who are.

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