The problems kung inuuna mo yung imaginations before clarity.
- Assumption is a mother of all confusions.
- Assumption is termite in relationship.
- Assume now, hagulgol later.
Solutions or Tips:
- Watch out for lines na smooth pero walang direction. Don’t be a victim of your assumptions lalo na pag sinabihan kang “enjoyin lang natin toh”
- “ang mahalaga ok tayo” it might be convenient for today, but you can never say if it will be the same tomorrow.
- “Go with the flow” is a trap.
- Basta masaya ako pag kasama kita at masaya tayong dalawa!
- Words are powerful. It can ignite hope, but it can also ruin everything.
- so before you assume, try
- Asking
- Understanding
- Clarifying
- Defining– DTR
- You have a lot of options!
- Words gives assurance but action brings clarity.
- Back up your words with actions.
- You’ll never know until you take action. And that action will either lead to clarity.
- Sabi nga namin, “Act your label.”
- actions and words should be aligned.
- Assuming is easy, clarifying is hard.
- Kung UMAMIN man siya, so what? what’s the catch? what’s the next steps?
- Guys: make a plan and execute it, DTR and with clear intention
- Ladies: you have to check if you want the same direction, can he commit and be consistent
- He deserve to be respected but not to be reciprocated
- Being liked is different from being VALUED.
- Pag sinabihan kang “Naku-curious ako sa’yo”, wag muna mag imagine. Curious pa lang naman, di pa sure. Di ka pa mahal.
- You don’t deserve someone who just likes you; you deserve someone who values you.
- Being LIKED is dependent on others, being VALUED starts from how you view yourself (self-respect)
- Wag maging marupok sa droplet of attentions!
Created from BW Podcast
