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Dear “Delayed” Person

Dear “Delayed” Person, We sometimes validate ourselves through the timeline of this world: graduate by 20, find a job after graduation, full independence by 25, get married before 30 that whenever we are “out of track”, “stuck”, “missed” or “failed” it’s as if “it’s over”. So we settle with the Continue Reading

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Life-Crisis: Get lost with a PURPOSE.

Life-Crisis: Get lost with a PURPOSE.   Post-graduation: Life Crisis   2 years ago, I left my Alma Mater with high hopes and wishful thinking, strongly positive ready to conquer the so called “real-world” Who would’ve believed that after 2 years, here I am, sitting and feeling this familiar feeling Continue Reading

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Lost and Found

Have you ever felt lost? Like before you are very certain of what you want, what you would like to be and your plans are all laid accordingly. But then in just a snap of a hand, it all turned upside down. You lost your job. You felt your boyfriend Continue Reading

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KUNG HINDI SA’YO, HAYAAN MO NA.

May mga bagay na hindi binibigay sa’yo dahil sa iba’t ibang dahilan. Pero paano mo malalaman ang mga dahilan na iyon kung patuloy mo pinipilit ang sarili mo sa bagay na hindi para sa’yo. Kung patuloy mo iniisip na dadating din ang araw na mangyayari ang nasa isip mo na Continue Reading

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When Life Seems Lost

I wish I can still understand the ways of life. Sometimes there are days that seems it’s hard to breathe and you cannot fathom the nothingness of emotions that’s circling around your bones. There are times as if you are blindly confined inside the darkness of your own confusion and Continue Reading

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What I Have Learned About Love

Love is . . . not a fairy tale that I used to dream when I was a kid filled with hopes and fantasies. . . . not about “he is handsome” but about whether “he fears God.” . . . not about the checklist but the perfect moment when Continue Reading

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A Positive in Something Negative

Stressed? Depressed? Worried? Bothered? Add in all the -ed of a pessimistic person. No matter how hard we say in our Facebook profile, in our online and offline bios that we are an optimistic person and that we always see the positive in everything. We can never omit the smallest Continue Reading

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Huminga Ka, Lumaban Ka

Minsan, ang pagiging matapang ay hindi pagsagip ng buhay ng iba kapalit ang buhay mo. Minsan ang pagiging matapang ay ang pagbangon araw araw na kaya mong harapin ang mundo kahit hindi mo gusto. Ang katapangan ay nasa pagsikap mong kumbinsihin ang sarili mo na hindi naman ito ang katapusan Continue Reading

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Woman, It’s not your role.

Woman, It’s not your role. It’s not your role to send him a message or chat him first, kasi in the first place hindi naman sya nangangamusta. It’s not your role to stalk him on his social media account(s) para tingnan kung anong recent post nya, or even to wait Continue Reading

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Wag All Out! Set Boundaries!

Boundaries Another important aspect of a relationship is to respect each other’s personal boundaries. A boundary is a property line that defines where you end, and someone else begins. Good relationships have a high degree of respect for each person respecting the other’s “person.” One way you can tell someone Continue Reading