Muntik nang maging tayo

Nagsimula ang lahat sa isang pag-uusap. Pag-uusap na sa pakiramdam ko naman ay may patutunguhan. Hindi pa kita masyadong kilala pero ang lalim ng connection ko sa’yo. Feeling ko yung kilig ko wala nang katapusan kasi paulit-ulit ko namang n...

Bakit Ba May Mga Taong Pa-Fall?

Siguro nahulog na ang loob mo sa isang tao na hindi ka sinalo. Sa madaling salita, hindi niya nabalik sa'yo yung feelings mo. Kaya ang ending, nasaktan ka at natakot nang ma-fall uli sa maling tao. You were broken-hearted at ikaw lang ang n...

To the man who still believes in old-fashioned courtship, keep it up!

To the man who believes that a woman is a treasure, I truly admire you. I wonder where you are. I wonder if you're near or far. No matter what it takes, I will patiently wait and desire to meet you. I have been hooked with the technological...

HULING LIHAM PARA SAYO.. SALAMAT.. PAALAM..

Alam ko na darating ang araw na kung saan matatapos ang lahat ng anumang meron tayo. Minsan naging bahagi ka ng buhay ko at nanging parte ako ng buhay mo. Hindi ko man kayang ipagsigawan ang nararamdaman ko para sayo pero sana, sana naramd...

3 Month Rule

As to where it originated and to whoever invented the idea(s), I don’t have any knowledge about that. But if you’re curious about what it means or implies, I may have a few say on the topic. So what exactly is the three-month rule anywa...

25 Things You Should Take Note After Loving The Wrong Person

1. Between you and the right person stands a line of wrong people. 2. People will always leave you, but darling, it doesn't mean it is your fault. 3. Some things will never work for your favor, no matter how much effort you put on it. 4....

Gusto kita pero

Alam kong matagal ka nang naghihintay. Matagal ka nang nag-hahanda. Ngunit patawad, Kaibigan. Dahil gusto kita pero hindi kita kayang mahalin. Patawarin mo ako kung hindi ko kayang i-pagsigawan. O sabihin man lang sayo ng harapan an...

Open letter to a struggling self

Dear self,  I know you’ve been struggling lately. You’re not yourself and you seemed lost in a place you’ve never been before. I know you’re wandering thru the midst of nothingness right now — unable to find the right path and wher...

25 Rules for Unlabeled Relationship

Unlabeled Relationship Rules   Rule #1 Don’t get too emotionally attached. I know, parang sasabog na yang puso at butse mo kakasigaw ng pangalan niya but hold yourself together. Wait for the label, mas deserve mo yun. Rule ...

Liham para saaking unang pag-ibig

Liham para sa aking unang pag-ibig,                  Marahil hindi ito ang pinaka magandang tulang maitatala ko sa oras na ito. Nais ko sanang sabihin saiyo ang aking naramdaman dahil alam ko na kung ip...

What It Means To Date a Person?

Part 1 Some of us don’t know the objectives of dating and It is one of the reason kung bakit may mga “Umasa”, napagkakamalang “Paasa” at patuloy na “Umaasa”. We are in a generation that has been influenced by many culture to what it means t...

Someday, I’ll Stop

Someday, somehow, I'll stop waiting for your responses, I'll stop checking whether you have seen my messages, I'll stop keeping an eye on your FB stories, and I'll stop visiting your timeline, The day will soon come when I'll stop tal...

Can I love you even though I can’t have you?

You were someone that I always looked up to. You seem so near, yet so distant. I always used to love someone who is very close to me. But what is happening to me? I used to think that all of this is an illusion that was built up by my emoti...

To the man I have prayed for

To the man I have prayed for...   First and foremost I would like to express how thankful I am today.   Thank you for taking the courage to move one step closer to me. Thank you for choosing to pursue me than to dream from af...

You Lost Her

You lost her when she noticed that the tone of your voice changed. You lost her when she felt like there’s a cold breeze every time you talk. The way you look at her like before faded away. The way you smile every time you see her vanished ...

8-years of Realizations of a 5-year No Label Relationship

I had a guy bestfriend for 5 years. When I 1st saw him, I thought to myself, "oh he's quite cute". Months after, I was given the opportunity to talk to him. After that, we clicked so well. We got to know each other more in the light of frie...

Pafall at Paasa, and how to prevent it. Tips and Tricks!

Ang dami dami na ang nag rereklamo tungkol sa paasa at pafall. Maririnig mo ito sa mainstream media tulad ng Television shows, Movies, at pati narin sa mga Advertisment, gamit na gamit ang katagang ito. Syempre dahil nasa panahon na tayo ng...

I will pursue you!

I will pursue you when I finally understand that pursuing you is not like a colorful fairytale where relationship is just a fantasy- full of happiness and beautiful journey. Only then I can say I'm ready if I accept the fact that love is al...

Being Comfortable Vs. Being In Love

We feel happy when someone remembers us. We feel special when someone gives us attention. But the question is are they just comfortable or there's more than that? There could be a reason why people like to talk to you. You could be someone...

” Iibig Lang Kapag Handa Na “

" 'Pag nilahad ang damdamin, Sana 'di magbago ang pagtingin Aminin ang mga lihim, Sana 'di magbago ang pagtingin... " - Ben and Ben To the person who was there for me once, I have a confession to make. I was grateful because I have met ...

100 Tough Life Lessons We Learn Through The Hard Ways

1. Happiness is a choice. 2. Always give space to love yourself. 3. Never do things half-heartedly. 4. Do not take time, effort, love and people for granted. 5. Learn to appreciate the smallest act of kindness. 6. Your worst day will only l...

Huwag mong sanayin kung hindi mo kayang mahalin

In a world full of paasa and umaasa, ang hirap umiwas sa mga taong nagpaparamdam sa'yo ng panandaliang kilig or saya. Siguro nasanay na rin tayo sa mga bagay na pansamantala. Kasi people and feelings change so easily nowadays. Pero may mga ...

My Tita’s four bits of advice on finding love, relationship, and marriage

Today I had a deep conversation with my aunt about finding love and relationship. Truthfully, these past few days I’ve been thinking of giving up love, relationship, and marriage. “Why?” you might ask because my mind kept on telling me that...

I understand why you have changed

You came to me unexpectedly. I never anticipated that one day, someone like you would make my heart flutter again. We were almost best friends. I could tell you everything. Without secrets, without hesitations, without limits. I opened up m...

Wala lang, pero nasasaktan ka na

The hardest part in no label relationships is yung hindi mo alam ang isasagot na dahilan sa tuwing tinatanong mo ang sarili mo kung bakit mo siya minahal. Yung akala mong wala lang, ayun pala it already created a major heartache in your lif...

An Open Letter to The Guy Who Left my Feelings Hanging—

You knew what I felt from the very beginning, yet you didn’t say a word. I never received anything not even a rejection, even though it was clear for me that the feelings weren’t mutual. But for you, you believed that I have the right ...

To My Answered Prayer

It took me some courage to write you a letter. I don’t  know you yet and I’m thanking God for still keeping you as a mystery. I’m not sure if I have met you or if we have known each other. If we’ve already been friends, classmates, churchma...

Single pero secretly taken

Sa panahon ngayon, napakadali ng communication. Kapag may nagustuhan ka, you could easily message someone at mapalapit sa kanya. Talaga ngang nawala na ang traditional way of courtship dahil parang sanay na ang lahat sa instant. Hindi lang ...

Meant to know each other but not meant to be together

It could be you... Yes, those were my first words when I met you. It was a friendly approach at first. You smiled at me, introduced yourself, then we started having conversations. I was mesmerized by your personality, which speaks almost...
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STAGES OF A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP

STAGES OF A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP Why do lovers fall in love and end up crying? Heres why! We often think that love is just a spark or a connection with your special someone. That if you lose it… you lose it… and there’s nothing left...