5 LDR Tips Para Tumibay Ka

Realities ng mga nasa LDR: maraming temptations at opportunities para mag-cheat mismatch yung schedule niyo para mag-usap madaling ma-misunderstand yung mga messages niyo napupunta sa cold treatment ang mga conflict at hindi inaayo...

Muntik nang maging tayo

Nagsimula ang lahat sa isang pag-uusap. Pag-uusap na sa pakiramdam ko naman ay may patutunguhan. Hindi pa kita masyadong kilala pero ang lalim ng connection ko sa’yo. Feeling ko yung kilig ko wala nang katapusan kasi paulit-ulit ko namang n...

25 Facts Only People In A “No-Label-Relationships” Will Truly Understand

1. It doesn't mean it's not official, the feelings are not real. 2. Even though everything seems confusing, let's be honest that happiness feels true, it's genuine. 3. We are afraid of the truth, of the real score, of the real thing so we d...

Bakit Ba May Mga Taong Pa-Fall?

Siguro nahulog na ang loob mo sa isang tao na hindi ka sinalo. Sa madaling salita, hindi niya nabalik sa'yo yung feelings mo. Kaya ang ending, nasaktan ka at natakot nang ma-fall uli sa maling tao. You were broken-hearted at ikaw lang ang n...

Open letter to a struggling self

Dear self,  I know you’ve been struggling lately. You’re not yourself and you seemed lost in a place you’ve never been before. I know you’re wandering thru the midst of nothingness right now — unable to find the right path and wher...

25 Rules for Unlabeled Relationship

Unlabeled Relationship Rules   Rule #1 Don’t get too emotionally attached. I know, parang sasabog na yang puso at butse mo kakasigaw ng pangalan niya but hold yourself together. Wait for the label, mas deserve mo yun. Rule ...

To the man who still believes in old-fashioned courtship, keep it up!

To the man who believes that a woman is a treasure, I truly admire you. I wonder where you are. I wonder if you're near or far. No matter what it takes, I will patiently wait and desire to meet you. I have been hooked with the technological...

Liham para saaking unang pag-ibig

Liham para sa aking unang pag-ibig,                  Marahil hindi ito ang pinaka magandang tulang maitatala ko sa oras na ito. Nais ko sanang sabihin saiyo ang aking naramdaman dahil alam ko na kung ip...

To my “patiently waiting” suitor,

To my "patiently waiting" suitor, I really want to say the words that you want to hear, many times (I love you). But, I couldn't. I even don't want to hurt your feelings because you are already important to me. I really do appreciate...

25 Things You Should Take Note After Loving The Wrong Person

1. Between you and the right person stands a line of wrong people. 2. People will always leave you, but darling, it doesn't mean it is your fault. 3. Some things will never work for your favor, no matter how much effort you put on it. 4....

Gusto kita pero

Alam kong matagal ka nang naghihintay. Matagal ka nang nag-hahanda. Ngunit patawad, Kaibigan. Dahil gusto kita pero hindi kita kayang mahalin. Patawarin mo ako kung hindi ko kayang i-pagsigawan. O sabihin man lang sayo ng harapan an...

What It Means To Date a Person?

Part 1 Some of us don’t know the objectives of dating and It is one of the reason kung bakit may mga “Umasa”, napagkakamalang “Paasa” at patuloy na “Umaasa”. We are in a generation that has been influenced by many culture to what it means t...

Can I love you even though I can’t have you?

You were someone that I always looked up to. You seem so near, yet so distant. I always used to love someone who is very close to me. But what is happening to me? I used to think that all of this is an illusion that was built up by my emoti...

To the man I have prayed for

To the man I have prayed for...   First and foremost I would like to express how thankful I am today.   Thank you for taking the courage to move one step closer to me. Thank you for choosing to pursue me than to dream from af...

Someday, I’ll Stop

Someday, somehow, I'll stop waiting for your responses, I'll stop checking whether you have seen my messages, I'll stop keeping an eye on your FB stories, and I'll stop visiting your timeline, The day will soon come when I'll stop tal...

Pafall at Paasa, and how to prevent it. Tips and Tricks!

Ang dami dami na ang nag rereklamo tungkol sa paasa at pafall. Maririnig mo ito sa mainstream media tulad ng Television shows, Movies, at pati narin sa mga Advertisment, gamit na gamit ang katagang ito. Syempre dahil nasa panahon na tayo ng...

8-years of Realizations of a 5-year No Label Relationship

I had a guy bestfriend for 5 years. When I 1st saw him, I thought to myself, "oh he's quite cute". Months after, I was given the opportunity to talk to him. After that, we clicked so well. We got to know each other more in the light of frie...

You Lost Her

You lost her when she noticed that the tone of your voice changed. You lost her when she felt like there’s a cold breeze every time you talk. The way you look at her like before faded away. The way you smile every time you see her vanished ...

I will pursue you!

I will pursue you when I finally understand that pursuing you is not like a colorful fairytale where relationship is just a fantasy- full of happiness and beautiful journey. Only then I can say I'm ready if I accept the fact that love is al...

Being Comfortable Vs. Being In Love

We feel happy when someone remembers us. We feel special when someone gives us attention. But the question is are they just comfortable or there's more than that? There could be a reason why people like to talk to you. You could be someone...

How will you know if it’s true love?

True love waits. I have attended a talk before when I was in college about the aforementioned topic and its importance just dawned on me recently. It may sound cliché but true love does wait and it is not something we can manipulate nor for...

” Iibig Lang Kapag Handa Na “

" 'Pag nilahad ang damdamin, Sana 'di magbago ang pagtingin Aminin ang mga lihim, Sana 'di magbago ang pagtingin... " - Ben and Ben To the person who was there for me once, I have a confession to make. I was grateful because I have met ...

100 Tough Life Lessons We Learn Through The Hard Ways

1. Happiness is a choice. 2. Always give space to love yourself. 3. Never do things half-heartedly. 4. Do not take time, effort, love and people for granted. 5. Learn to appreciate the smallest act of kindness. 6. Your worst day will only l...

Huwag mong sanayin kung hindi mo kayang mahalin

In a world full of paasa and umaasa, ang hirap umiwas sa mga taong nagpaparamdam sa'yo ng panandaliang kilig or saya. Siguro nasanay na rin tayo sa mga bagay na pansamantala. Kasi people and feelings change so easily nowadays. Pero may mga ...

My Tita’s four bits of advice on finding love, relationship, and marriage

Today I had a deep conversation with my aunt about finding love and relationship. Truthfully, these past few days I’ve been thinking of giving up love, relationship, and marriage. “Why?” you might ask because my mind kept on telling me that...

Losing You is Choosing Me

I always believed that choosing you was the best decision I have ever made, and choosing you over and over again was the bravest. I want to choose you. I want to listen to your stories, to what excites you, and to what frustrates you. No ma...

An Open Letter to The Guy Who Left my Feelings Hanging—

You knew what I felt from the very beginning, yet you didn’t say a word. I never received anything not even a rejection, even though it was clear for me that the feelings weren’t mutual. But for you, you believed that I have the right ...

Wala lang, pero nasasaktan ka na

The hardest part in no label relationships is yung hindi mo alam ang isasagot na dahilan sa tuwing tinatanong mo ang sarili mo kung bakit mo siya minahal. Yung akala mong wala lang, ayun pala it already created a major heartache in your lif...

An Open Letter To My Best Friend Whom I’m Secretly In Love With

Tbh, I have always seen you as a brother. Perhaps because I always wanted a Kuya and having you as my best friend sort of fulfilled that wish. It felt so reassuring that I have someone of the opposite gender whom I can talk almost everythin...

I understand why you have changed

You came to me unexpectedly. I never anticipated that one day, someone like you would make my heart flutter again. We were almost best friends. I could tell you everything. Without secrets, without hesitations, without limits. I opened up m...